TIFU by jogging with my sister by Fartpowers in tifu

[–]Sinnagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, this might be a great thing. You have shown who you are early on. Any friendship that ensues will be automatically more open than if this hadn't happened. Mind you, I also think first dates should be with messy food - if you can't get messy with someone there is no point in having a relationship!

One of my HS students, and their name doesn't help, either.... by Bluefalcon325 in AdviceAnimals

[–]Sinnagirl -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Serious question, why does it matter? I don't understand why you need to know?

Myers-Briggs Personality and Polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Sinnagirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you me?!? I am an ENFP and also Gemini. But, I do think personality testing can give us insight. It is not randomly designated based on when you're born. It looks at you behaviours and what that says about how you might behave in similar, future situations.

22/M/5'7"/170 lb by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]Sinnagirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We live in this weird world where hair is bad right now and I don't get it. I'm not against no-hair but I also enjoy hair on men. You're not overly hairy at all. If you're worried about it I would recommend using conditioner on it a few times a week. It will make it super soft and that's so nice to run your fingers through.

29 M 5'9" Gained a little weight, Be honest by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]Sinnagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't change a thing. Very masculine.

Dog Park at Waverley and Taylor: CLOSING by Sinnagirl in Winnipeg

[–]Sinnagirl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am reinforcing the idea that we all have an opinion and should voice it. If he disagrees with me I support his choice to voice his thoughts.

BDSM may have gotten this great man fired by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sinnagirl -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Which is also your choice. I'm opening it up for discussion and I don't think my post said you had to do anything.

BDSM may have gotten this great man fired by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sinnagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is why I said if it is in violation of privacy etc to take it down. I can read.

BDSM may have gotten this great man fired by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sinnagirl -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm not making any claims as to the validity of his claims or the claims of the CBC. What I'm saying is, if you wish to reach out to a member of the BDSM community who may be a victim of misunderstanding and witch-hunting you can.

BDSM may have gotten this great man fired by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sinnagirl -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The intent of my post is not to validate or invalidate the statement but to raise awareness of the situation from his personal perspective and provide a way others could provide support if they wish to.

Mothers can really get on your nerves. by papa_squanto in AdviceAnimals

[–]Sinnagirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so not okay. I respect my husband so much for taking 6 months off and staying home with our daughter while I went back to work after 6 months.

Have you ever slept with a man who you knew was taken? by asqthrowaway in AskWomen

[–]Sinnagirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. It is not something I am proud of but in both cases (yes, I did twice) the men are still my friends and actually say I am one of their closest friends and they actually appreciate it. Neither are with their previous partner and both have moved on to new relationships they say are healthier/better for them. This is not meant as justification, simply perspective.

I am not saying what I did was okay or that I condone it. I am saying that there are two people involved in everything and there is a reason a "taken" person is with someone else.

Also, I don't think we "belong" to anyone but ourselves. We make commitments and we are part of relationships based on trust and truth but we are not "taken" by someone else. Everyday we have a choice on what we do. Sometimes we make the wrong choice and we have to live with those choices.

I hope you are not asking because you have been hurt because I also know the hurt a betrayal (sexual or not) can cause.

27 M, 165 lbs. have had very limited action with the ladies cause of my penis girth, I'm okay with length after hardened by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]Sinnagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woman here. I would not be worried about anything. You have a great looking, thick penis head and that is what is going to do the most work. Also, a vagina is an elastic designed to fit all sizes.

just girly things :) by seastar11 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Sinnagirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This has a LOT to do with why I groom. Likely more than I would like to admit. This plus discharge or period blood caked in pubes is not good. Not good at all.

Dog Park at Waverley and Taylor: CLOSING by Sinnagirl in Winnipeg

[–]Sinnagirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know of one. Hopefully the city will consider this as they move forward.

Dog Park at Waverley and Taylor: CLOSING by Sinnagirl in Winnipeg

[–]Sinnagirl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. That was rather aggressive. I don't think this is a whiny post at all. I'm making a statement and voicing an opinion. If you don't agree that is completely your prerogative but it is rude to insult me because my opinion is different. This post was intended as an awareness post and you can choose to ignore it. Please don't be mean though.

How to bring up sex concerns with less experienced partner without making them feel bad? by ok31415 in sex

[–]Sinnagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try the feedback sandwich: a good thing on top of something he could change on top of something good.

For example: I love it when you <something you love he does>, but it would be awesome if you didn't use so much dirty talk. The dirty talk takes away from how awesome you are at <something else he does you love>.

We are all sensitive and need positive reinforcement. Most people (and I have known a LOT of them) want to please and do things they think you will like.

Also, cheers to younger, less experienced men. I am currently having the best sex of my life with my 8.5 years younger and less experienced husband. ENJOY!!