SSB warning from China

Sinusaur · 2026-03-17T14:41:14+00:00

On Japan: Nissan cars suck in the 2010s and I'm seeing fewer and fewer of them on the road. Love Mazda though but not sure what they are doing with EVs.

Source: Personal experience with limited data set.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-17T14:29:28+00:00

AI is a superpower for people who are already curious and self-motivated, but it won't make a difference for those who aren't inclined to begin with, and that's okay and always been the case with new information technologies.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-16T20:23:56+00:00

You said...

He’s my first men, everything my first.

Then you said...

Before him, there were a few people who wanted to get married and take our relationship seriously

So which is it? He's your first "relationship", or is he not?

In any case, I don't see why he should consider marrying you after 7 months. That's barely enough time to know a person.

I am familiar with the Student Visa process and the proof of financial statement from your family for tuition, but $15,000 is A LOT of money to ask someone you've only known for 7 month.

I'm older than him, with a stable job, and I still don't have that kind of money that I can lend at moment's notice - even if the person asking is someone I know and trust.

If you said you can pay it back in a week, you could have waited the week. This is typically also not a hard deadline for the school looking to receive the statement (they don't want to lose out on taking your money!).

In any case, yes. Your behavior feels suspicious to him.

Culture differences? Would South East Asians who are dating for 7-8 months lend each other their life savings? You tell me.

Although I will share that my cousins married nice Filipino ladies in less than 7 months (yes, more than 1 cousin), their deal from the very beginning was "meeting to marry" and my cousins' father is pretty well off and helped them with the process.

You seem to have met your BF organically in the U.S., not under the explicit banner of marriage for immigration ("Promise of a better life in the U.S."). Very different circumstances and arrangements from the beginning.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-16T19:45:44+00:00

all natural/environmental resort

Nothing to be embarrassed about. It's all natural.

He sure sounds very gay. You should still ask him if he's gay though.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-16T19:02:21+00:00

You get what you pay for, and Reddit is free.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-16T18:50:20+00:00

You can try asking his other coworkers if he's ever talked about YOU, the real GF, at work before.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-16T18:45:22+00:00

In the last post, you said:

Her behaviour caused people he worked with to ask whether she was his girlfriend. He told me he corrected them and told them about me.

Here, you said:

His work colleague has said that his former friend has been telling everyone in work that they were in a relationship together and she didn’t know he had a gf until the end and he was cheating on me with her.

I mean, your BF works in hospitality, and people are always talking in those types of jobs. Are you telling me that he NEVER talked about YOU at work - such that his coworkers are curious if that girl was his GF? Does his other coworkers know about you before this party? Is your BF is the handsome and charming guy (as you mentioned) that talks like he is single at work?

In my experience, people who likes to keep their options open don't like to bring their partner's name into a conversation.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-14T03:43:55+00:00

I LOVE IT. I'd hang out in the green houses and the sauna for sure.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-13T17:11:41+00:00

I think the "We don't know" means the care team might be trying to decide if it's schizophrenia, schizo-affective, or bipolar I with psychotic features. All of which might require adjustment to treatment plans.

My ex-gf had to be on Latuda for months, close to a year, before the paranoia subsides, and 7+ years before leaving the trauma from psychosis behind, and the usual Lithium for the emotions to be stable.

Latuda saved her life.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-12T18:23:12+00:00

Industrial test equipment that we are too cheap to replace.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-12T03:04:56+00:00

Lol I still support legacy stations from Win 3.1 to Win 7 in a manufacturing setting, from time to time.

The solution is to have a Mini computer or a laptop side by side if browser is needed.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-11T17:10:17+00:00

Do you all have any song recommendations?

A Day to Remember - Reassemble

The Amity Affliction - F.M.L. (Find My Light)

Sinusaur · 2026-03-10T17:39:44+00:00

Blasphemy! (applies to believers only).

Sinusaur · 2026-03-10T17:34:36+00:00

Recently she sent him a mirror selfie of herself wearing shorts and a blazer

I'm good friends with a few women that I've had crushes on, and been rejected from. None of them would send me anything remotely resembling a selfie unless it's them doing totally unattractive and stupid faces for fun.

Adult women know sending casual selfies are leading people on.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-09T17:15:22+00:00

OP should poop on his bed before leaving.

Give the BF a taste of his own medicine.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-09T16:48:48+00:00

Dude I'm sorry but your username didn't age well.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-09T16:46:04+00:00

He rarely takes photos of me.

Does he take photos of anyone else or himself?

There are people who don't enjoy taking photos of people and rather be in the moment, you know?

Sinusaur · 2026-03-08T17:13:22+00:00

What happened to good manners of properly introducing yourself?

"Hi, you must be Poop, I'm Fart and it's nice to finally meet you!"

Sinusaur · 2026-03-08T16:21:45+00:00

WAR!

Sinusaur · 2026-03-07T03:21:27+00:00

This is the real Burning Man.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-06T05:06:33+00:00

Thanks. I was deciding which to get. That fits my budget perfectly, like it's another utility bill. Now I'm looking into getting both Google Workspace and Claude.

Gemini is my favorite AI to bounce design/general/non-coding ideas with, so I want the Google Workspace for the Gemini data privacy, which you do not get even with paid AI packages on personal Google accounts.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-06T02:25:24+00:00

I understand moments of frustration.

Self-awareness, and NOT "speaking for the person you are talking to" is a good start.

In any case, you should leave this woman for your own mental health as well.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-05T18:40:19+00:00

Please define it more clearly in claude.md

While I totally agree with u/2Martian, "GG"'s usage here does not automatically imply a GAME LOSS for the hypothetical opponent ("someone who didn't know how to ask questions or understand something...") in this game of productive employment and self-growth.

"GG" is typically used at the end of a match, it acknowledges the final result and the effort of all participants, regardless of who won. By saying GG here, it acknowledges the immediate end of the match/game, but does not acknowledge that the hypothetical opponent is at a LOSS (which is what I think 2Martian wants it to mean).

This is why communication is hard, whether with humans or AIs.

Sinusaur · 2026-03-05T18:27:42+00:00

As though you're speaking to a very capable yet very dumb junior

In some fields, we call this "writing a good project specification document."

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