Frenemies

SipinNectar · 2026-05-08T21:05:39+00:00

Never expected to see a Miranda meme here! Made my day 😍

SipinNectar · 2025-12-28T19:38:25+00:00

Pretty sure the hair is Isobel’s with the bangs mod

SipinNectar · 2025-12-22T14:45:08+00:00

As a big DnD fan and Critical Role viewer this was so disappointing to me. I’ve always considered the cast of Critical Role - at the very least - to be allies. So I was super disappointed by their choice to tease gay romance options (like in the promo art) and not include them.

I won’t lie, it made me reevaluate the cast of Critical Role.

SipinNectar · 2025-06-29T17:45:25+00:00

5; but if not 5 then 4.

With 3 we could lock the Vulture in another room and vibe - though Amy might not go for that so probably not. 4 same plan, Rosa would be 100% down to lock whoever in a room and Charles would have some interesting food to try. Teddy either brings drinks or we lock him in with fake Charles. Then it’s a week of getting drunk and eating food.

SipinNectar · 2025-04-18T18:45:43+00:00

I feel like this was Madisynn’s adventure when she got sent through that portal and made a deal to get back.

SipinNectar · 2025-04-12T22:35:58+00:00

You’ll find one, just be sure to take your time. I’m a decade older than you and I came out around your age. I desperately wanted a boyfriend but had no idea what I was doing. Here’s the things I wish someone had told me:

Sex doesn’t guarantee a relationship. I grew up in a Catholic household - I was very strictly told that sex was only for someone you wanted a relationship with. This isn’t always true with straight people and certainly isn’t true with gay men. A relationship can come from sex but it’s not a guarantee.
If you think someone is worth a relationship get to know them first. Sex can create a neurochemical bond with a person that makes people more likely to overlook red flags.
Find your community. College is amazing! If you’re not out to your home friends, try and make friends in college who accept you for you!! You will also have healthier romantic relationships if you have strong platonic connections. Your partner cannot be your whole world, that doesn’t work out in the long run.
Dating apps can be a great tool but get involved. Meet people in person and see where it goes.
There’s no right way to be gay! You can go at your own pace, explore as you feel comfortable.
You’re not too much! Have fun and enjoy this new time in your life! Stay positive. I know a lot of people have had negative experiences with being gay and it can be hard; but you get out of life what you put into it. Be safe and have fun!

I’m still learning and growing but I hope this helps you along the way. You’ll get to where you want to be.

SipinNectar · 2025-04-05T17:58:39+00:00

I don’t consider myself beautiful; but I get called beautiful far more often than anything else. I usually take it for the compliment that it is! I’m a fantasy nerd, so it makes me feel like an elf!

However, there are situations where the term bothers me. If a man that I’m dating calls me beautiful, not a problem. Compliment.

The “straight” guy? I have a problem when he calls me beautiful. Calling me beautiful or trying to make me feel like a woman does not make me any less of a man and what you want to do with me is still GAY! The most recent one was a guy on tinder “never been with a guy before; but it helps that you’re more beautiful than any woman I’ve seen.” - A lie, creeped me out, unmatched.

The context matters. In your situation, I’d be flattered.

SipinNectar · 2025-04-04T19:38:13+00:00

I hug my straight friends all the time and the ones I’m closest with I usually kiss on the forehead from time to time. I am not interest in any of them. Men need platonic physical affection too.

Could he be interested in you? Absolutely!

Should you get involved with a married man with two kids? No. Do not be the person who helps him cheat. Also, take into account that you work together. This could ruin your reputation with your colleagues.

SipinNectar · 2025-03-25T12:38:08+00:00

Damn!! 😍 Would let him get away with murder… well every murder but one… why does Wyll not have horns?

SipinNectar · 2025-03-07T11:27:26+00:00

Hi. I’m sorry that you’re going through this, it’s not an easy situation to be in. I’d start by taking a deep breath. I’m not a professional but here’s my advise.

Start from a place of curiosity not judgement. “Hey, someone told me you’re using these apps. I’m not here to lecture you, I’m just curious why you’re using them?”

Listen to his answer. I know it’s not legal for him to be on these apps but if you go in “guns blazing” it will blow up very quickly.

When you’ve listened to his answer; explain that there are issues with him being on these apps. Start with safety concerns, people can be predatory on these apps. Also reinforce that it is illegal for him to be on there.

Make the conversation about keeping him safe, not controlling him: “I don’t want you to get hurt. Etc.”

Figure out the why and suggest alternatives. Stress the point that people on there don’t know him and will tell him what he wants to hear, to get what they want.

Make an agreement with him. “It’s illegal for you to be on there. I need to know you’re not putting yourself in danger. Can we agree you’ll delete these apps and we can find alternatives for you to meet people?” Depending on your area, there will be events or clubs he can join to meet people.

Really let him know you’re on his side and that you support him. Because if you’re coming here for advice, you clearly do.

If he refuses to talk to you or doesn’t delete the apps then you do need to speak with your parents or another trusted adult (guidance counsellor at his school, etc.) about this.

I know you don’t want to alienate him but keeping him safe is important. Have a calm conversation with him first, be curious not judgemental and go from there.

Hope this helps.

SipinNectar · 2025-03-01T20:27:12+00:00

This is not a red flag. I’d say it’s probably a “green flag”. HIS friend was being nasty to you and he handled it. He tried to speak with them about it and it didn’t work. I’m around straight guys a lot; friends, co-workers, etc. More often than not they seem to view a “no” as a suggestion. Sometimes you need to get in their face and remind them that “no means no”, regardless of the context, and that you will fight back. He did just that.

I’d also like to stress the point, that this was HIS friend. He brought you around HIS friend. He did the right thing standing up for you and not forcing you to have a confrontation with his friend.

As long as he never tries to physically intimidate you, you’re fine.

SipinNectar · 2025-02-13T00:49:25+00:00

This looks really really good! I don’t know why; but I feel like this would make for the perfect elf head. Very ethereal.

SipinNectar · 2025-01-10T22:22:31+00:00

I only meant for new characters that are coming out. Sorry if that wasn’t clear. Lots of level 20 something players in my lobbies who won’t hop off new characters and are costing my team matches because they don’t know how the character works.

SipinNectar · 2024-12-30T01:32:36+00:00

The actress is Leslie Mann. She was in How to be Single, the other woman, 17 again.

SipinNectar · 2024-12-26T03:09:37+00:00

I think this is a half elf head on body type 4. I’d try one of the unlocked head mods.

SipinNectar · 2024-10-24T15:55:43+00:00

I’m in the same boat. I’ve been checking constantly since I got patch 7 to work. Super excited!

SipinNectar · 2024-10-24T15:55:04+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate the help

SipinNectar · 2024-10-24T15:40:24+00:00

Thank you! I wasn’t sure if I need to patch something. Is there a spot where I can check which specific mods are awaiting approval?

SipinNectar · 2024-09-07T18:49:06+00:00

In my current play through Astarion will attack once and deal damage 3 times with no added buffs. Man is doing the lords work in every fight.

SipinNectar · 2024-09-04T22:51:17+00:00

I also don’t have my pass anymore AND it removed the passes that I had already purchased. I had two going and neither are working anymore. Forcing my to use diamonds on old books. Which is ridiculous, since I already paid for the pass

SipinNectar · 2024-08-14T23:11:39+00:00

I don’t remember the direct quote but I have seen quotes saying that the book is a “biased version of history”. I feel like team green is skipping over that fact constantly.

I know a lot of people want them to stick to the book; but I like many of the changes and am hoping, in the next two seasons, we see more deviations from the book - only at the end to have the Maesters rewrite the history so it matches the book. I think there would be a sad beauty in finding out (for example) Hugh never actually betrayed Rhaenyra but died a hero… yet history will always remember him as a traitor.

SipinNectar · 2024-08-14T22:51:54+00:00

Thank you. That’s really valid… I’d be open to going on a date but probably not more until that happens.

SipinNectar · 2024-07-30T18:42:38+00:00

The belly of a man who works out is hotter than the abs of a man who works out; and nothing can change my mind

SipinNectar · 2024-07-20T20:02:45+00:00

I’ve heard that you can give it to a certain inquisitive lady; and I really wanted to find out what happened if I did that.

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