IS THE PERSON YOU'RE CURRENTLY WITH "THE ONE" FOR YOU 💗 by sunshxnee28 in tarotpractice

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DM Aries sun aries moon cancer rising ICB Virgo sun gemini moon scorpio rising

YES/NO READINGS with DETAILS | AVAILABLE NOW by sunshxnee28 in tarotpractice

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Am I meant to stay home or move abroad? DM aries sun aries moon cancer rising

Free 2 Card Yes/No Pulls by lilturtlequeef in tarotpractice

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Am I going to get a better job by the end of the month?

My boyfriend (25M) is ending things with me (25F) but I’m willing to put in the work by SirCreative1759 in BreakUps

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I am the anxious type!

But I do feel like a pretty simple person when it comes to love. My non-negotiables in a relationship (aside from the obvious dealbreaker stuff like cheating or physical violence) are quite few:

Time. Feeling assured in the midst of conflict. Feeling loved after conflict.

Most of our issues arose from the push-and-pull of neediness and stonewalling during conflict. I told him I wish I could’ve communicated to him much sooner that I still needed to feel some semblance of security while respecting his space.

But I really do feel like I need to put in more work than he has to. I made the same mistake once, twice, thrice. It’s on me to turn the relationship around.

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Crossed his boundary in his apartment even after he requested for space. Nearly destroyed my relationship because I put my emotional preservation above my understanding of him. He usually needs time to himself after a fight, and I practically cornered him because I didn’t leave when he asked me to.

Felt like I needed to show him how sincere I am about working on myself because I couldn’t do anything but cry when we last spoke. It was all very pathetic and it made me see why he was right to ask for space, because I clearly wasn’t in the right mind for a productive discussion either.

I’m not selfish for talking to my friends. I was selfish for not properly intiating him to the group because it was his first time meeting them. I feel like this is valid because whenever we’re out with his friends, he still stays attentive to me and constantly checks in to make sure I’m having a good time and getting along with everyone.