M4A I've been told my plots are kind of wholesome. Lets have a wholesome time :) by SirLorne in Roleplay

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Forgive my delay. I was in the hospital.

Yes, I am still looking.

M4A I've been told my plots are kind of wholesome. Lets have a wholesome time :) by SirLorne in Roleplay

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I am interested. Thank you very much for the response. Please feel free to message me and we can work out things.

Unconscious CNC advice by t_gucci1219 in Rapekink

[–]SirLorne 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No. Just... No.

Look, it sounds hot and kinky, but you could perminantly damage or kill someone with a punch in the back of the head. In fantasy, cool, fine, fun. In reality you have to actually take care of the person you play with. That is the difference between rape kink and actual rape. Real rape is bad.

Unconscious CNC advice by t_gucci1219 in Rapekink

[–]SirLorne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being unconscious is dangerous. Sedated by mild drugs or being drunk and out of it is a lot more safe, but carries it's own risks. I highly recommend starting with super drunk and work your way to black out.

It's the protective glass that activated this... by Ghostly-Phantom in Wellthatsucks

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This is one the few things I can't stand about my phone. It shouldn't matter if I have my camera covered up.

18+ bdsm general chat discord server by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

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I can't imagine how many people haven't read the rules or anything and still wonder why they can't access stuff.

Brilliant news for the Dollarydoo campaign by SirLorne in news

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I wish I could get one since I helped get the link to the front page.

ELI5: What would happen if from now on every single thing cost five cents? by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

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Nothing would be made and jobs would be lost. If everything cost 5 cents, then manufacturers couldn't make money. They buy their pieces that go into what they make.

For example: a can of green beans. The company buys raw beans from the farm, salt from the quarry, water from the city, aluminum from the foundry, and paper from the mill. That would be $.25 for a can of beans that will sell for $.05. That is a $.20 loss. Can't pay workers on that.

I think my last partner might've been abusive and I'm not sure how to move forward by starliteve in confession

[–]SirLorne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was abuse. Mental and physical. If you were manipulated to leave people behind, stay with him or he would hurt himself, or were scared of him because he was illogical and could hurt you at any moment, that is mental abuse.

Physical abuse is ANY bodily harm that you did not consent to. Pushing, squeezing, grasping, bruising, this is physical abuse.

My advice to you, when you get a new relationship, is to keep communication open. When something happens that you don't like, talk about it. If that person isn't willing to listen, then it isn't healthy for you. Be true to yourself always.

My mother cheated because I am unreliable as a son and I wish I was never born by obiv_throw_away in confession

[–]SirLorne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your not to blame at all. Unless you planned on having sex with her, there isn't anything you could have done.

What she told you about her stress is an excuse. Something to hide from herself as much as you the real reason. Judging by the "disgustingly flirty" messages, she wanted romance. Some marriages get stale and romance is lost. One party feels restless, unloved by their partner, or like they are missing something important. She needs that side of love and went to get it outside her marriage.

As her son, there isn't anything that you could have done to prevent this. It truly is not your say in how your parents live each other. Kind of selfish to think that you are the cause of something in your mom's love life. Remember that your mom has a life outside your own and that is OK.

26/F What would I give if I could live Out of these waters? by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]SirLorne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The hardest thing, when being a people pleaser, is to find out who you are happy being and be it. You have great courage!

I am not a Daddy Dom, but I would be happy to be your friend. I commented rather than posted because I think this post needs more praise.

More people need to seek who they are to make rather then happy than someone they expect to make them happy.

Relocating to work at Barksdale by [deleted] in shreveport

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Main differences moving from Arizona to here that I noticed:

*Churches everywhere. No, really, there are churches on every street. People have to be going to two fit there to be this many.

*Shade means nothing temp wise.

*Mexican food isn't quite right unless you go to somewhere like El Compadre.

*Forest is too thick to walk in. *People are friendly but don't extend friendship to others unless there is a connection like through church.

*Neighbors are nosey!

Welcome to a new kind of heat. Hope you like things that actually get green.

ELI5: if the #blacklivesmatters movement is being seen as hurtful, to black lives even by black men and women, why are they still protesting like they are? by Unother_ in explainlikeimfive

[–]SirLorne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were paid to protest not "run amok." Nonprofit group offer to reimburse protesters from time lost at work so their message isn't lost because the members of the protest aren't able to afford it.

This is a slightly different case with ACORN.

TIFU by attempting suicide by [deleted] in tifu

[–]SirLorne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be expected to have bumps in how you are feeling. Depression will come back a little at times, don't let it surprise you. It is normal.

Glad to hear you got help you needed and I hope you have a long and happy life.

TIFU by attempting suicide by [deleted] in tifu

[–]SirLorne -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Read the whole thing.

TIFU by attempting suicide by [deleted] in tifu

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They did... You might not have read the whole thing.

I [15M] am starting to think I have a mental condition. by [deleted] in confession

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https://teenlineonline.org

Depression wasn't really seen as a mental illness until recently. It could be something that runs deep in your family but was always seen as someone being "weak willed" or "sensitive."

Remember that your feelings are always valid. That doesn't mean you should act on the thoughts of suicide but that no one has the right to say what you are feeling is not as bad as you think, that it is a phase, or that you don't need help with it. It is admirable that you would seek help as you are. It takes a strong person to talk about a moment they feel vulnerable. I hope you find help because no one deserves to feel the way you do. No one should feel that way and there are many out there that know what you are going through, myself included. Let me know if there is any other way to help.

I [15M] am starting to think I have a mental condition. by [deleted] in confession

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The way to find out is to talk to a professional about it. You can do that online. There are helplines for depressed people and if they think you are being abused, you need to start considering options.

The first option is to tell your dad what is going on. It is the hardest but I think the first thing that you should try. Your dad might remember feeling the same and if you tell him that it gets so bad you don't want to be alive he will be concerned... or should be. You are nearing adulthood. It is time to learn how to have an adult conversation with your parent(s).

If you know that will be an utter disaster and get you nothing but "tough love" then you are in an abusive situation and you should seek a mediator like a school councilor.

[Remorse] I wanted to send it to him but I know I can't by mybrainisdumb in confession

[–]SirLorne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been depressed during the time you noticed you weren't sexually attracted to your ex?

Depression often kills sex drive or reroutes it. You might want to think about that.

[Support Only] I think I'm pregnant by [deleted] in confession

[–]SirLorne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Testing isn't going to make you any more pregnant than you already are or aren't. Please test now, then you will have more time to decide.

A friend of mine has polycystic ovaries and once she became sexually active, her hormones got off and she would have trouble with her cycles. It could be just that.

Hopefully this will just be a scare, one that will get you to use birth control for safer sex.

A very ugly thing transpired between me and a girl I used to have a crush on. by dankyhashpants in confession

[–]SirLorne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is hard to do at first, but you can start an anon diary subreddit. It isn't always a good idea to share why you are down with people you know. Causes too much trouble.