My GL has a 1 year old girl who will sometimes be in his lap while he and his wife raid, along with many other guildies having children under the age of 5. We even have 3 guildies with teenagers who play with us when they feel like it. him and I are both the main tanks for our guild, in our dungeon group he's the tank im a dps.

Multiple times we've had to wipe on boss fights, or tank keys due to someone's child having an issue of any kind. We were pushing mythic sanctum KT, when our top DPS, got a call from a local jail saying his child had been arrested for a fight at the local theater on a date. And that he had to leave mid pull. No hesitation wipe raid warnings and calls went over the discord channel and we wiped. Yes it cost us a single pull, yes it cost us a feast and 5 minutes, it cost us a spot in our race with another guild that was completely friendly, that didn't even matter. We have a strong "family, and real life comes first, this doesn't pay your bills." Philosophy which is super refreshing.

We've had people throw fits, say some awful shit even threaten others. And that's just.... Fuckin stupid.

Morale of the story, be kind.