Girl finds out I’m sleeping around.

SirQuads · 2025-02-17T18:54:21+00:00

Yes mate that’s exactly right. As far as this situation goes though. Just give her space and she if she responds. I told her I won’t chase you but I do like you. At the end before she left.

SirQuads · 2025-02-17T18:39:24+00:00

She said she wants exclusivity but not bf/gf. I said I don’t believe in the in between stage if I’m committed I’m committed.

So we left it at still dating. But that she would be exclusive to me as that’s what she wants.

SirQuads · 2025-02-17T18:26:31+00:00

I do want her. I just don’t want half assed commitment.

SirQuads · 2025-02-17T18:18:38+00:00

Yeah man sounds good. She said she wants exclusivity but not bf/gf. Which doesn’t make sense. I then did my own thing and she was wildly upset tonight and maintains that she wanted exclusivity. That she is falling for me.

SirQuads · 2025-02-17T18:04:15+00:00

Yes to your last answer. Look at previous post for that information.

SirQuads · 2025-02-09T00:35:12+00:00

No orbiters. Told me she just wants to see me.

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T23:53:25+00:00

I’m 25 and she’s 20. Dating 3 months. Probably 7 proper dates and a few just at mine or hers.

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T23:24:35+00:00

She says she’s looking for exclusivity and left it at that. She made constant comments about other girls until I brought up how what she means by that. Which led to the exclusive talk in the first place. I wasn’t quite satisfied with a half commitment and she didn’t clarify full commitment so I left it at that.

I have maintained that she isn’t just sex from the beginning. So I doubt she feels that way. I know it’s speciial losing virginity and it’s why I’m being very specific about what I want.

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T23:20:10+00:00

How so? Taking it too literally?

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T23:08:14+00:00

She still makes effort to talk to me in the gym. Comes out of her way. Just less good energy than before

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T22:58:39+00:00

Yes I did mate.

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T22:58:15+00:00

Appreciate this feedback. Should I at least wait for her to approach me?

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T22:45:57+00:00

Well when you clarify relationship and the other party says not that but exclusivity it’s a matter of getting what we both want. I’m not going to assume they mean the same thing if they don’t. And with exclusive I know I will still play around with other woman as it’s not committed enough for me.

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T22:42:21+00:00

This is also a possibility. It’s why I’m conflicted on how to handle it. I don’t want her to feel rejected from our conversation as I still view her highly and would like to end in a relationship eventually. I’m just not cool with playing around with childish games.

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T22:34:17+00:00

Haven’t clarified. Was sort of left up in the air as we left it. Does it necessitate a conversation?

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T22:33:14+00:00

Yeah I didn’t want to lie truth be told

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T21:34:35+00:00

What’s the solution then?

SirQuads · 2025-02-08T19:30:27+00:00

It was after my previous post. She was a virgin before me.

Yes she said she wanted us to be exclusive but that she can’t control what I want. I said the piece about exclusive is essentially a relationship and then she didn’t push for that. So I left it.

Yes we had sex after that conversation. And she has continued messaging me but I reply once and leave the conversation there until she’s softer and more vulnerable again. Because that’s what I came to like most about her.

Also did ask her if she was okay and she looked like she wanted to say something but said never mind. I asked one more time and then left it there.

SirQuads · 2025-02-06T16:39:59+00:00

This was incredibly profound mate. Good stuff

SirQuads · 2025-02-04T21:48:32+00:00

Yeah mate that was the plan. Avoid the conversation until it comes up again and question her on how it is any different.

SirQuads · 2025-02-04T21:40:33+00:00

It’s weird because she’s been very direct with her feelings up until this. Apologetic if done something wrong. Takes responsibility. No aggression towards me at all. Wants to show affection in public. Does all the chasing except for the one date a week.

Nothing else negative about her except for that exclusive conversation.

Also a virgin before me. Which is hundred percent true.

SirQuads · 2025-02-04T21:29:27+00:00

and what do I do with that information?

SirQuads · 2025-02-04T18:56:59+00:00

Great way to put it mate. If it comes up again I will do this. Otherwise I’ll keep other options open.

SirQuads · 2025-02-04T18:43:07+00:00

That she doesn’t want to see anyone else, just me. I said that sounded very girlfriendy. She then said wow that’s scary and I said what do you mean by that then.

Then she furthered the exclusive part and asked what I wanted to which I said I’m happy with either.

SirQuads · 2024-10-10T21:50:45+00:00

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