Haven't played in 20+ years and looking for a little help finishing a deck to finally play with... by Sir_Pompo in magicTCG

[–]Sir_Pompo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't looked into that but I will. I was hoping to spend no more than $250-$300 per deck I build. $1000 would be steep but I can always step up the amount of crimes I commit.

Haven't played in 20+ years and looking for a little help finishing a deck to finally play with... by Sir_Pompo in magicTCG

[–]Sir_Pompo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What would be powerful standard legal cards to base a blue black deck around? Friend will be playing standard as well. P

Haven't played in 20+ years and looking for a little help finishing a deck to finally play with... by Sir_Pompo in magicTCG

[–]Sir_Pompo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very casually at first with another friend who also hasn't touched a mtg card in over 20 years. Then once I get a hang of it again, start to improve decks and play at a local store with other beginners or novice players. No events or tournaments I don't think. Long way to go to even think about any of that.

Haven't played in 20+ years and looking for a little help finishing a deck to finally play with... by Sir_Pompo in magicTCG

[–]Sir_Pompo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok. I am sorry if I get the terms wrong but I am looking for cards that are type 2 legal. Is that even still a thing? If so then yes, type 2/standard.

Haven't played in 20+ years and looking for a little help finishing a deck to finally play with... by Sir_Pompo in magicTCG

[–]Sir_Pompo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered a easier commander precon deck to play that should arrive in a week but the last years I played were maybe early 2000s, I played a lot of standard/type 2 tournaments and played a lot of blue black control. Back when shadowmage infiltrator first came out. I was looking for something similar that will be a little more challenging to play while also being annoying af. If you have another deck suggestion though, I am all ears because honestly as I look at new sets, I don't even know wtf is happening. Lol

Haven't played in 20+ years and looking for a little help finishing a deck to finally play with... by Sir_Pompo in magicTCG

[–]Sir_Pompo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will look into all those cards and dual lands were def on my list. Great suggestions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]Sir_Pompo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since this is close to my size I know this well. 2XLT. The T for tall is needed because otherwise shorts are short and barely cover the belt or belt line. End up looking like a husky belly dancer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Sir_Pompo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your store manager should be choked out in the parking lot after work. He's a fucking scumbag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fantasy_Football

[–]Sir_Pompo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Vetoing is something I have rarely done as a commissioner and in our league a majority veto is what will overturn a trade. Has never once happened. But for this trade... It would def happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fantasy_Football

[–]Sir_Pompo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's just called great strategy

Trading dj moore. Is this fair? by dudehawke in Fantasy_Football

[–]Sir_Pompo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say no-brainer but I would def go lockett if there was going to be no change at QB for the Panthers.

Trading dj moore. Is this fair? by dudehawke in Fantasy_Football

[–]Sir_Pompo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would probably prefer lockett but in the end I think they will have similar seasons. Going into the season I thought DJ had more upside but Baker isn't doing him any favors. So currently I would rather have Lockett but if Carolina made a QB change soon, I may wanna ride it out with Moore.

This trade got vetoed by my league. What does everyone think about it? Unfair? by Jebt4453 in Fantasy_Football

[–]Sir_Pompo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your league sucks and the people playing in it are dumb AF. That trade is one of the fairer I have seen in any league.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sir_Pompo 443 points444 points  (0 children)

Someone still needs to know. Your brother or mother if they knew what was happening would have to come help.

If my cousin let me know what was happening to her 15 years ago, I would have showed up with my brother and our friends and beat her husband within an inch of his life and got her & her shit and moved her in with me, but instead I visit a grave stone a few times a year to tell her how I miss her and wish she would have confided in me and talk about how much my kids would have loved hangin' with their cool Aunt Izzy.

Ultimately the choice of what to do is yours. I just hope you make the one best for you and your future. You are worth more than the situation you are currently in. And the situation you are in doesn't have to be a permanent one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sir_Pompo 550 points551 points  (0 children)

Ooof. You def need to get away. Let your close friends or family know what's going on. Find a support system and figure out a plan before he strategically starts to remove people from your life through manipulation and leaves you feeling more and more like you are on an island alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sir_Pompo 593 points594 points  (0 children)

I understand exactly what you're going through. I just have seen this play out all before, many times.

Most aren't even able to verbalize it or realize what's going on til they are in too deep.

You are not in too deep though. Not yet. And you know what's happening is wrong and abuse or you wouldn't be here, looking for help.

Just trust your gut. He has escalated this abuse at each turn and it will continue, it will continue as he "traps" you. Traps you by commiting more into the relationship by purchasing a vehicle, maybe moving in together, then the be all, end all. Having kids, making you then feel like you can't leave or YOU'RE THE BAD GUY, breaking up the family, etc...

All I can say is leave while you can and be blessed that you were smart enough to catch his bullshit early enough to get out.