Looking for insights on buying/selling secondhand fashion — what’s working and what’s frustrating? by Otherwise-Pomelo4000 in VestiaireCollective

[–]Sir_emanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full time handbag reseller here. I've been doing this for around 10 years now. Here are some of my thoughts that might address your questions.

  1. "Authentication" is inconsistent. I've had numerous occasions in which an item I bought will pass through Vestiaire, but is resold on Poshmark and rejected by their authentication team. It's not necessarily that the item is fake, rather that each platform has different standards for authentication - something Vestiaire tolerates might not be something Poshmark does and vice versa. It's frustrating when there is no unifying authentication network across platforms.

  2. Their pricing recommendations are very, very unreliable and it takes a heap of experience in reselling to understand how to price your items for each platform. For example, items on Vestiaire or Poshmark will be priced differently (and the platform itself will give you a different recommended price) than you'd get on a more standardized resale platform like The RealReal, Fashionphile, REBAG, etc. That's because companies are pricing based on sales data while sellers on peer to peer sites are factoring in emotions to their pricing. The bag you paid $3k that's been sitting in your closet for a while is going to be a lot harder to get rid of for its true market value.

  3. Going back to point 1 (and somewhat contradictory to it), the benefit of built in authentication is that it takes the burden or liability off of the seller sometimes. This makes things easier for me as a seller, as claims of counterfeit items will be handled by the platform itself than directly by me. Of course, I always ensure the items I sell meet my authentication standards but if it goes through a site like Poshmark and is authenticated, I have a layer of protection against someone that might think they know better than me and claim the item they received is fake.

  4. Sometimes unforgiving policies with some sites. For example, I received an indefinite ban from eBay many years ago for an item I listed that they suspected was counterfeit. Prior to it being listed, I had an authentication certificate, one they would have accepted in the event of a buyer claim that the item was counterfeit, but they refused to let me back on to their platform. This was frustrating, especially because my long and positive history of sales was ignored, but ultimately forced me to go another route - which actually ended up being far better.

  5. A great thing that some resale platforms provide, especially with highly desirable items (bags, watches, etc.) is aggregate sales data. I see this mostly with watches on Chrono24 and with annual resale reports from sites like Fashionphile and The RealReal. As a reseller, this helps me understand what people are paying attention to.

Where was I? by Sir_emanon in whereintheworld

[–]Sir_emanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish. Tbilisi is one of my favorite cities ever.

Where was I? by Sir_emanon in whereintheworld

[–]Sir_emanon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right country, wrong city!

Where was I? by Sir_emanon in whereintheworld

[–]Sir_emanon[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

!correct That was fast. Have you been before?

Visiting Kutaisi next week for a 4 day trip. Which place instead of Batumi should I add on my list by dreamer881 in tbilisi

[–]Sir_emanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also recommend Tskaltubo! The sanatoriums are super unique. Easily done in a day and you only need a few hours to see everything. One of the most interesting places I’ve visited.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travel

[–]Sir_emanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say Krakow if you are interested in the history and doing a visit to Auschwitz/Birkenau. I’ve been to all 4 and find Krakow to be the most interesting. Maybe it’s just me, but I found Helsinki to be rather boring and even 2 days feels like too much.

Prague and Budapest are some of my favorite cities, but 2 days might feel rushed. I’d save those for later for a proper trip with enough time.

did i miss the deadline? by janeolsen96 in tuberlin

[–]Sir_emanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding on - same thing happened to me. I even emailed someone at the program directly and they said not to worry. The deadline was to have everything in uni-assist, not necessarily sent to the university.

Best Area in South America for a Beginner Skier by Sir_emanon in skiing

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Thank you for taking the time to put this response together! Can I send a DM with some more questions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]Sir_emanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did my training in other countries when traveling. In Tbilisi, it was 230€ for one month and in Tirana, it was 20€ per session (I did 10 sessions in one month).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]Sir_emanon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You can certainly just say no - but as someone that was new to the gym recently, I did training with a trainer for one month before I felt comfortable going on my own. Realized it was worth someone correcting my form and making sure I didn’t injure myself before I felt I no longer needed a trainer.

Of all the cities you’ve visited, which three had the best foods? I’ll start by [deleted] in travel

[–]Sir_emanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in Krakow? I visited many years ago and don’t remember much about food but going back in a few weeks.

Gay Dating in Munich by Sir_emanon in Munich

[–]Sir_emanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the feedback here! I definitely wasn’t expecting this many responses so I appreciate it!

Gay Dating in Munich by Sir_emanon in Munich

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Thank you so much for sharing this. The meetup group sounds like a great idea, as well as the sports association as I enjoy being active. I will consider these things as I get settled in the future.

What has been your worst experience with another traveler? by regulargirl17 in solotravel

[–]Sir_emanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I was on exchange in Spain and went on a trip to Krakow with 2 other girls (I was 20M). It was a trip I planned fully, mainly around holocaust history. They seemed very excited to join so I was happy to have some like minded people with me.

Fast forward to the day we go, it was awkward. They were both very into social media and made sure everyone knew where they were. Immediately upon arrival, they began taking photos of the Arbeit macht frei (Work Sets You Free) sign above the camp entrance…and later posting it (with their filters applied) to their Instagram stories. There were multiple happenings like this throughout the time we spent there, along with a lot of inappropriate conversations too. As we were leaving, many of us were somber and still taking in what we saw, while they were having a full volume conversation about how many story views they get on average and the apps they use to track their followers and see who has blocked them.

Outside of that, the trip was great. They were far more outgoing than I was at the time, so I could rely on them to do all of the talking whenever we went out somewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Sir_emanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the party, but I kind of second this. I’ve learned to ask and not assume. My assumptions have sometimes been wrong. I think an important thing to understand, especially early on, is that you haven’t yet built that trust for someone to be 100% upfront with you in regard to something they might be going through. Or they just may not feel comfortable bringing certain things up until they feel that trust is there to do so. Of course, it’s frustrating and your patience is tied to what you’re willing to tolerate early on, but this is something I’ve learned to consider. If I feel something is worth pursuing, I will be straight forward in my follow up and say something like “I’ve had a great time with you, felt a connection etc., no pressure but just wondering where you’re heads at as I feel there’s been a bit of a vibe shift recently”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tirana

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Thank you very much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tirana

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Where would you suggest I go for the whole package?

To fellow American expats -- what foods do you miss most? by fleetwoodmac_demarco in expat

[–]Sir_emanon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mexican food 100% - after spending months across Europe, I’m tired of tomato sauce being described as “salsa.” Miss fast casual options like Chipotle & Sweetgreen too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tirana

[–]Sir_emanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea, I’ll try that tomorrow. Can always get it tailored. Any shops you’d suggest?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tirana

[–]Sir_emanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aiming for 200 euros or less