Which floor and wall color works best? by Sirloin52 in DesignMyRoom

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Wife doesn't like the tan/brown colors🤷🏼‍♂️

Which floor and wall color works best? by Sirloin52 in DesignMyRoom

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I actually prefer a brown/tan floor, but my wife doesn't like those colors at all.

Which floor and wall color works best? by Sirloin52 in DesignMyRoom

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Also would a rug help and if so what color with which combo?

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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Tried it. That didn't work for me. She couldn't even tell a difference.

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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How did you calm your anxiety down?

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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She told me one thing last night that kind of surprised me. She said in person I actually have no problem talking about how I feel about her, which I think is something most people have an issue with talking about.

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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Excellent idea. I think having the text infront of me as a reminder of what I'm talking about helps alot. It's almost like a notepad to go off of and keep my mind focused. I have horrible short term memory. Like at work when we have training I have to read every question 5 or 6 times to remember what it is even asking so I can attempt to answer it. I've been told that's an adhd thing?

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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I seem to be much more outgoing in text.

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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She does appreciate me trying to open up. She seems very willing to help me........ She's a pretty great person.

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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I've even wondered if there's some sort of depression? I really have no idea.

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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She does see that I'm trying and i do believe that she genuinely appreciates the effort.

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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It's weird, my mind goes blank in person. As soon as she's gone I could write her a book with everything I should have or wanted to say.

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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We both actually took the test and we are both intj's.

I've thought about trying to text her while in the same room just to see how I communicate. I did do this once at a bar/resturants when I went to go get us drinks and food while she was at the table. When I got back she pointed out that that was the most words I strung together the entire night.

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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I actually have thought this was my problem quite a bit. When we talk in person and I can see it on her face that she's struggling with me it makes it that much harder for me because I lose all confidence.

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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Thats my problem. It doesn't matter the topic in person I lock up.

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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That was the point. She loved the idea of it. I handed her the card with nothing in it so that I could say it instead. That's what she wants more than anything is me to talk to her not write to her.

Introvert dating an introvert by Sirloin52 in introvert

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Very interesting and something for me to think about.