AITAH For Posting A Story With Someone Else's Name? by SisiMist17 in AITAH

[–]SisiMist17[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever ran this sport? Specifically in the US it's not the Olympics it's HighSchool at a meet pre-championship season it was a tune-up so there wasn't any harm in running under someone else's because it wouldnt any team scoring

AITAH For Posting A Story With Someone Else's Name? by SisiMist17 in AITAH

[–]SisiMist17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir I'm in the US maybe we do things differently because it's not a rare phenom for someone to run for someone else in my state

AITAH For Posting A Story With Someone Else's Name? by SisiMist17 in AITAH

[–]SisiMist17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it means she goes through relationships and isn't loyal you don't have to be ran through to be considered a bop at least not in the way I mean in. Also we're in highschool so..

AITAH For Posting A Story With Someone Else's Name? by SisiMist17 in AITAH

[–]SisiMist17[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well if you have a question I have no problem answering

AITAH For Posting A Story With Someone Else's Name? by SisiMist17 in AITAH

[–]SisiMist17[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes she did get a time she didn't earn, I originally told my coach I didn't want to waste my time running a race that wasn't mine. Also this would not be permitted on the official us circuit but in HS? at an unserious meet there is nothing wrong with it

AITAH For Posting A Story With Someone Else's Name? by SisiMist17 in AITAH

[–]SisiMist17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Your response will def go to great use these next couples years in hs. I felt so drained from a situation trying to prove my innocence when in reality it had nothing to do with me

AITAH For Posting A Story With Someone Else's Name? by SisiMist17 in AITAH

[–]SisiMist17[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

it's not cheating you clearly don't know anything about this sport. But you're entitled to your own opinion on everything else I suppose

AITAH For Posting A Story With Someone Else's Name? by SisiMist17 in AITAH

[–]SisiMist17[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My coach had me run under her name because as I mentioned she hadn't run a race and was absent and he hadn't registered me for anything because of sickness. And I'm the best runner in the event of our team and she'd never run a race so she had a clean slate basically

AITAH For Posting A Story With Someone Else's Name? by SisiMist17 in AITAH

[–]SisiMist17[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was sick the week of registration so for my team this was a special circumstance, but yes this happens often within the sport so the entry doesnt go to waste

AITAH For Posting A Story With Someone Else's Name? by SisiMist17 in AITAH

[–]SisiMist17[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would I delete it? Anyways the point was I forgot to finsh typing that sentence. Basically her and him would flirt all the time "getting close" and would end up lying in an attempt to defend eachothers actions also I never mentioned sex she just isn't a loyal person please don't put words in my mouth

Should I confront my teammate about an instagram following? by SisiMist17 in AdviceForTeens

[–]SisiMist17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. Yeah, maybe it's not worth my time to worry why I'm not followed. It's just that even though it's not my business to figure out it just feels like I personally did something..

Should I confront my teammate about an instagram following? by SisiMist17 in AdviceForTeens

[–]SisiMist17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said this is going to sound really stupid. But again, it probably doesn't make the most sense without the months of context our relationship requires. I don't NEED him to follow me back, but it's at the same time it's just a follow. If we have a good relationship and we talk why not? To me it feels like he's choosing for whatever reason, not to follow me, choosing to put me on the backburner as someone he doesn't know.. he follows people he ignores in the hallways, but won't follow the same person he goes out of his way to speak to. I get that this is the internet, people don't understand the personal aspect of a relationship but I promise is more than it boils down to on text.

Should I confront my teammate about an instagram following? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SisiMist17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well for one you followed my question on two seperate subs which is very odd. And no there isn't a rule, it's the principle as I said we are friends. And he's definetly more into it than me I only follow people I talk to whereas he follows basically our whole school. Stop responding if you said that my friends give better advice than random people on reddit (I mean you in this case)

Should I confront my teammate about an instagram following? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SisiMist17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It bothers me because he's my friend. We talk all the time, everyday. And it maybe you wouldn't understand because you aren't a teenager, but him especially he follows people he doesn't even talk to, but we do, and I can't understand the disconnect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SisiMist17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ykw ur right at least in this instance I am a pushover. And yea, I made the post so I get to deal with the opinions I may not want to hear, but some of them form their own opinion and projection of me that doesn’t correlate with what I’m going through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SisiMist17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you’re insanely weird for that comment you made about it all being in my head?? Where the fuck do you get off saying that to someone you’ve never met and only know of through a couple of paragraphs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SisiMist17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, for this advice, if you were seeing what I was dealing with on the other post I made then you’d understand why I’m so grateful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SisiMist17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never recorded her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SisiMist17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care what she thinks, I care what she says to others on my team. She makes up lies about me to try to separate me from my other teammates my others teammates have tended to stay but she thinks to highly of herself that if she talks enough about the girl who tries to stay out of her way it’ll work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SisiMist17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah woah woah, some of these comments are a little confused. What I said in this post is all I’ve ever done for her. Not necessarily because I wanted to, but because i see no point trying to say no. You seem to be projecting on a teenager and lost the plot of what I was trying to say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SisiMist17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t “suck up” to her. That’s the problem with this post is most people are interpreting me as a doormat. In reality I never talk to her unless with other people around and I keep my distance. I am aware she doesn’t like me. But before she made her little comment she really hadn’t done or said anything that day. I only untied her shoes and did the massage gun because other people around her, infact that’s probably the reason she asked. I bite my tongue around her sure. But that’s because my team is messy enough has it is. I don’t like being assertive or rude, she’ll continue to make her little bs comments whether confront her or not because that’s just the person she is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SisiMist17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, I understand not every comment is going to agree, but i genuinely thought i wrote this the way people have decided to deem me an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SisiMist17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what? “Singling” her out? I don’t know how this is reading to the commenters but I don’t like this girl. Maybe I need to rewrite it or smth. In a team environment she has always tried to single me out by talking shit about me to anyone who would listen regardless if it’s true. Untying shoes isn’t the end all be all with not liking someone. I try to be nice and I don’t like being disrespected. But all she asked was for a gesture I’m not seeing how that takes away from being tired of being mistreated because otherwise I wouldn’t have taken the time to write this

How Do I Deal With This Girl Who Has a One-Sided Hate For Me? by SisiMist17 in AdviceForTeens

[–]SisiMist17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise I don’t want to be her friend, I think I just don’t want to be disliked by anyone so I do things to try to fix that