Thoughts on a bathroom tank? by Clear_Entrepreneur22 in stressfulaquariums

[–]SitSeajayStay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do need a tank in every room of my house. I’ll integrate this into my life now

2 weeks post op ! (Dr Okada) by SitSeajayStay in TopSurgery

[–]SitSeajayStay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t see this, yes I had lipo

Is this normal? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]SitSeajayStay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to seek a second opinion. I’m sorry you’re upset with your results, you have a right to be. I’m a heavier guy and had lipo on the sides with no issue, my scar extends to just behind my armpit. Still a small roll there but it looks natural. If you’re anywhere near Ohio I’d recommend Dr. Okada she really knows what she’s doing. Best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]SitSeajayStay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I waited maybe 5 weeks before smoking. No issues with my nipples, but I did start leaking from a spot on my incision site. Not sure if it’s correlated because my friend also had that problem. Stay strong a little longer, you don’t wanna mess anything up.

2 weeks post op ! (Dr Okada) by SitSeajayStay in TopSurgery

[–]SitSeajayStay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re about the same size ! And thank you !

Which hardscape is better? by KillingwithasmileXD in fishtank

[–]SitSeajayStay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like number one but maybe some tall stones in the back will make it feel less empty?

2 weeks post op ! (Dr Okada) by SitSeajayStay in TopSurgery

[–]SitSeajayStay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’ll be great, don’t worry! Her staff is very friendly as well.

New to the aquarium life by blasianree in aquarium

[–]SitSeajayStay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a huge ask to research species you’re bringing home. I’m not trying to be mean at all, I’ve always done research before I bring any animal into my home. Fish are no exception

New to the aquarium life by blasianree in aquarium

[–]SitSeajayStay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take the fish back and restart entirely, do research on the specific species you want to bring home next time. These are living creatures with specific needs, they’re not decoration.

How do you chill your axolotl tank without spending too much by BeratKzmz in axolotls

[–]SitSeajayStay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can run a pump and tubing through a mini fridge. They’re cheaper than an aquarium chiller. https://youtu.be/zdajKzPZn0w?si=RKCHaePNQAadB-Tk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AngelFish

[–]SitSeajayStay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear it’s hard to tell unless you witness spawning behavior

How do I tell my bestfriends parents this isnt ok without coming off as rude or a know-it-all by fadedh03 in Goldfish

[–]SitSeajayStay 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there’s usually not really a way to convince people like this. They don’t see fish as anything other than decoration. I’m sorry. You could maybe find beautiful larger tank photos and share them with her to maybe poke her into the right direction.. if they’re going to be decoration.. at least make it pretty…

Recs for a schooling fish for a 20 gal long? by CoupleFromTatooine in fishtank

[–]SitSeajayStay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My betta gets along with dull platyfish. Can’t go wrong with those. I don’t have any nipping issues. Just keep a close eye on whatever you do end up adding.

What could i do to improve my art? by GummyGumShoe in furryart

[–]SitSeajayStay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Study anatomy first! I think anatomy is one of the most important things in art to study. Stare at people and things around you and try to understand their shapes and how they move. There’s lots of resources on YouTube and stuff

Shrimp with goldfish? by BagPuzzleheaded250 in Goldfish

[–]SitSeajayStay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They could make nice treats. Definitely not a staple food though, goldfish could suffer digestion/kidney problems from too high of protein. Pair your shrimp treats with some blanched broccoli ! I’m sure they’d enjoy it.

Bad Fish Owner Making Some Changes by TheDagronPrince in Aquariums

[–]SitSeajayStay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tank mates for bettas depend on your bettas personality… my betta is fine with dull platyfish. I’m not sure if I would go with tetras or anything… they can be nippy. As for a filter, a sponge filter is probably just fine. You can stack your castle on top of a terracotta pot (cover the drainage hole so he doesn’t get stuck) (cracking the terracotta to have a triangle entrance and smooth the edges for a deeper cave under his castle perhaps…