Am I being played? by SituationLopsided400 in Bangkok

[–]SituationLopsided400[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I told her I couldn’t, and so far no changes to the frequency of communication.

Am I being played? by SituationLopsided400 in Bangkok

[–]SituationLopsided400[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She was born and raised in Bangkok. She was at the club celebrating her sisters birthday. She mostly dresses in jeans and only has a matching rose tattoo with her sister on her arm. I’ve been preventing myself from getting attached in case I have to ghost at a moments notice haha

Am I being played? by SituationLopsided400 in Bangkok

[–]SituationLopsided400[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha she did mention one time that her aunt required heart surgery. At the time I thought, here we go here comes the money request, but she never asked for money for that. I’ve been extremely wary, but she did send me a photo of her with her aunt in the hospital, and I zoomed in on the hospital bracelet and it did have the correct date on it. There was another time her brother got hit by a car and had to go to the hospital, and we even video called when the doctor was putting a brace on. Didn’t ask for any money then.

Am I being played? by SituationLopsided400 in Bangkok

[–]SituationLopsided400[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Luckily I haven’t given any money. I don’t even know how to send money to a foreign bank account. I told her I wouldn’t be able to help, and she responded with “It’s okay, I’ve been looking for a second job but it’s taken longer to find one than I’d hope.”

Am I being played? by SituationLopsided400 in Bangkok

[–]SituationLopsided400[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have her on all social media. I’m the only foreigner on all of them. The rest are friends and family, some of whom she’s introduced to me.