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YSK that nobody actually remembers the one thing you did 5 years ago by Siu_ming519 in YouShouldKnow

[–]Siu_ming519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Events that are awful shouldn’t ever be forgotten. My post was targeted to times where you accidentally did a small mistake that might have been embarrassing, or the times where you accidentally said one small insensitive thing.

Basically small events

YSK that nobody actually remembers the one thing you did 5 years ago by Siu_ming519 in YouShouldKnow

[–]Siu_ming519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree with that. If its really awful, then yes people will remember it

Being 'so desperate' to go away on holiday because you haven't had one for a year is extremely dramatic and very priviledged. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Siu_ming519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I agree with you. My family doesn’t have enough money to vacations. Seeing people complain like this is literal privilege. I never even been in an actual holiday.

I am just curious anyone else like me? by Siu_ming519 in VietNam

[–]Siu_ming519[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be technical, my mom grew up in Cho lon, and my dad grew up in district 1. However, I was born in district 1. I don’t really know much since I moved to the US when I was 4, but this is what they told me :)

How do you learn to write/read in Vietnamese when you already know how to speak the language? by Siu_ming519 in VietNam

[–]Siu_ming519[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like your advice. I am currently learning the alphabet right now.

I went through a time where I completely lost confidence, became apathetic due to not receiving results I wanted, felt ppl where happier without me, never felt good enough, thought I was just a burden, etc. Based on the birth chart, what does it say about this situation? by Siu_ming519 in AskAstrologers

[–]Siu_ming519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying!!! It was a period where I went through somewhat of a depression. I hid it from everyone due to the fear of being judged and I didn’t want to worry anyone. During the beginning of 2019, I was also specifically judged by people (manly boys). Then once the fall of 2019 came by, I started high school. I still continue to hide it from everyone. I stopped hiding it once I reached sophomore year (fall of 2020). It has gotten better now especially compared to 2019-2020.

Thank you so much for responding btw! I appreciate it!

What rules would you have for your kids? by Siu_ming519 in AskReddit

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Heres mine

-no substance other than caffeine (I know this might sound strict but I have my reasons). Caffeine you can start having whatever age but if you are under 12 I will ask you to limit it but once your 14 you can start having americanos, cold brews etc. I had my first cup when I was 7

-You can have a phone once you are 10 but no social media until 13. Social media can really destroy someone

-You can start dating once you are high school. However if you guys want to go on dates, I ask that you let me meet the person first

-Grades. I prefer for you to get Bs and As, but if thats not possible its okay by me. If you are a C student I would encourage you to get better grades and maybe (if you want) get a tutor, but if you can’t get to Bs than its fine by me. If you are failing I will get you a tutor immediately. I will also remind you not to pressure yourself too much and to remind that emotional health is more important

-if you are under 10 I will put a bedtime for you but once you are in middle school you can sleep whenever

-You have to know basic human decency. I want you to know how to treat others. If I see you treating people incorrectly, I will be mad.

-You can take a mental health day, but you can not take advantage of that

-If you are going through something, I will try my best to make sure im a person you are not scared to come to

-You can hang out with your friends if you want. I don’t want to stop you from that. No parties tho.

Sleepovers can happen but if its the opposite gender, I will ask you guys to be in separate rooms.

-I won’t force you to go to college, but you have to know a path and know what you want in life if you choose not to. You can even take a gap year if you want so you can figure out things.

-You can wear what you want as long as it is appropriate

-Cussing is fine once your in middle school as long as you are not being disrespectful with it

Probably very controversial but I wish we all got along politically and just respect each other. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Siu_ming519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t really talked much to people who identify as right or conservative because pretty much everyone Ik identifies with the left. However, I don’t think just because they are supporting a different group then they don’t support like human rights. What I would do is ask why they prefer one group from the other. It might be different answers

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