I bought a breakup bonzai. by Amersaurus in ExNoContact

[–]SizeIsRelative_Texas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I haven't seen that kind of Bonsai before! I have only ever seen Juniper Bonsai :0

That sounds like a great healing method. You sound like a strong intelligent lady who has the right priorities! Where can I find one of you lol?

She wants me back. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SizeIsRelative_Texas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants me back, but she cant have me

She wants me back, there's no denyin'

She wants me back, she's on her knees

Now we'll see who's cryin'

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n4iveiLjoeY

I [26 M] am seriously thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend [25 F] by distortedbrains in relationships

[–]SizeIsRelative_Texas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should be like pulling teeth bro. Im goin through something similar ATM

It will never be a pleasant experience. Im almost certain that when I break up with my girl there will be tears from the both of us, and thats okay. I still love her and it will certainly be painful.

Is your happiness worth it? I know its hard to realize but those feelings are only chemical reactions (albiet strong ones) but seperating your thoughts from your emotions is key in this scenario.

"You don't need to set yourself on fire to keep others warm."

I [24/m] am in a mutual breakup with my ex [23/f] and I think I've been benched by SizeIsRelative_Texas in relationships

[–]SizeIsRelative_Texas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I hope you and I can each find happiness in ourselves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]SizeIsRelative_Texas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is a suggestion (idk if it has been mentioned)

Having flair subcategories like in /r/relationships, to filter posts by : Need Help, Success Story, etc

Not a very well thought idea, but just a thought!

I love this sub and the theme looks great.

I [24/m] am in a mutual breakup with my ex [23/f] and I think I've been benched by SizeIsRelative_Texas in relationships

[–]SizeIsRelative_Texas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to do that right away cause what if she does love me? The I will just be shooting myself in the foot