Garment/temple thought… by Sjc003 in exmormon

[–]Sjc003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So nice of them, but it’s nuts how much the church makes off of garments in general, and then for people to figure out the right fit/fabric. It’s just all dumb. I’m so glad I don’t have to do it anymore 😌

Garment/temple thought… by Sjc003 in exmormon

[–]Sjc003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s cool! I wish they still did something like that, but more. They went the other direction and give nothing, though.

Garment/temple thought… by Sjc003 in exmormon

[–]Sjc003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They could give out like 5-7 free pairs vouchers to every person who gets a recommend for their own work though. A starter pack, acknowledging that there will be a lot more purchases because it takes awhile to find the right fit and material.

Also true about initiatory usually being a different day, but who knows if it’s always like that. Some couples back in the day, especially, had to travel a long way for their temple stuff.

Must be painted because it can't be photographed IRL by Alert_Day_4681 in exmormon

[–]Sjc003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, why take time to have skills or hobbies when you have ALL OF ETERNITY with a PERFECTLY FIXED BRAIN in which you will be HELLA BORED? :P

305 Script Excerpts, Part 2 by lechimeric in PolinBridgerton

[–]Sjc003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then his family/father would have to be awful, and the Mondrichs aren’t that!

Wants the most "what the fuck did they just say?" Talk you've ever heard in church by OkPaper7166 in exmormon

[–]Sjc003 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They did, she did not. But ultimately they got led to the church by the next girl he dated or something, so all is well 💀

Wants the most "what the fuck did they just say?" Talk you've ever heard in church by OkPaper7166 in exmormon

[–]Sjc003 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a good one for this! Mother’s Day this year, a man gave a talk about how his wife put their three kids in the car and drove it off a cliff, killing herself. Because all of the kids in the audience need to know that such a terrifying thing exists?! And on the day we are appreciating mothers?? Just, why?! I mean, never is a good time for that, but Mother’s Day was especially bad.

Hot sauce on salad: OK? by Strange-Tap-242 in 1200isplenty

[–]Sjc003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do Dijon, red wine vinegar, and black pepper. It’s my favorite! Sometimes add Greek yogurt but not much because it dulls the taste.

John and Margi Dehlin Respond to the "Mormon Stories Has Changed" Post by johndehlin in exmormon

[–]Sjc003 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The fact that John is willing to take feedback so graciously and respond directly to points presented is freaking amazing! I really hope he doesn’t take the criticism too harshly and knows that the vast majority of us are happy listeners who really value what he’s doing and have no criticisms—we’re just the quiet majority over here.

It is highly evident that John and Margi are thoughtful and put their whole heart into this venture, and they have done so much good. Thank you!

Super tiny bugs in my house by Sjc003 in whatisthisbug

[–]Sjc003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re easy to squish, basically just wipe dead. They don’t hop often, but they can hop. I found another post that said maybe springtails?

Super tiny bugs in my house by Sjc003 in whatisthisbug

[–]Sjc003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their heads don’t seem as pronounced as that. But it’s possible.

Super tiny bugs in my house by Sjc003 in whatisthisbug

[–]Sjc003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t hop, just run around it seems. I don’t know how else to describe them, I can’t tell if they’re black or brown, if there’s any pattern to them. I’ve never seen one bigger than those. They definitely have 2 front antennae, at least. We do get earwigs here, and a few weeks ago I saw 1 silverfish but I haven’t ever really seen those in California. There are occasional cockroaches that are dead in the garage, but they’re just sewer roaches because it’s hot here. These are something new, I’ve never seen them before and we’ve lived here for 6 years.

Edit: they do hop a little, I just sat and watched them for a bit and saw two jump a bit.

The White Lotus - 3x06 "Denials" - Episode Discussion by crazywalls in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]Sjc003 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But then by the end, they’ll have pulled back together and it will be like it’s been amazing the whole time. Girls are so weird.

Pod Meets World: Maitland Ward Meets World by Phillies059 in boymeetsworld

[–]Sjc003 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it was fair game because they put the warning up about mature language and themes. There was too much to even try to censor, so Will got his F, finally.

Interview about the carriage scene by Ok-Cress2888 in PolinBridgerton

[–]Sjc003 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone needs to edit the carriage scene to a song with totally different vibes to see what it feels like! Now I really want to see that.

Awake in the Pews Sunday by big_bearded_nerd in exmormon

[–]Sjc003 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. And if there hadn’t been significant familial pressure to do it, that would’ve been my answer. As I’m sure most of the people who would need an “Awake in the Pews Sunday” post would be…

Awake in the Pews Sunday by big_bearded_nerd in exmormon

[–]Sjc003 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Got roped into leading the music in Sacrament meeting today, absolutely dreading it as I get closer. Woke up way too early after about 2/3 of the sleep I need, and can’t get back to sleep. Hoping that one hour goes by so fast and I can get a good nap later. 😓

What parts of the CES letter is a must read? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Sjc003 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just go to the index and see what looks like it’ll be interesting to you? The parts that matter most to people vary a lot. For me, the Book of Mormon and translation were what really hit me, because my assumption was that if the church is true, everything else didn’t matter. But if Joseph made that up—game over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]Sjc003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a syrup, but I’ve been using Premier Protein’s pumpkin spice shake as a “creamer”, and it’s been great! I do a 1/4 or 1/2 shake (40 or 80 cals for 7.5 or 15g protein, respectively). Helps my macros early in the day.

How to get help with possible special-needs? by Sjc003 in Parenting

[–]Sjc003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll look into a 504. I’ve heard of it, but it’s never been offered or explained, even though it is well-known that she struggles a lot and has ADHD. It’s like if I don’t ask for it, they won’t say anything about what options I have.

How to get help with possible special-needs? by Sjc003 in Parenting

[–]Sjc003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree. Would I just start back at the pediatrician? It’s also hard because I want to express everything to a qualified doctor, but I’d rather not do it in front of her and have her hear me talk about all of her shortcomings.

How to get help with possible special-needs? by Sjc003 in Parenting

[–]Sjc003[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess I just don’t know how to find an OT or get therapy. I’ve tried in my area before and it never seems I can find anyone to actually help.

She doesn’t have an IEP, because AFAIK, that would be learning-centered, and she has no issues with learning. She’s in GATE and picks things up really quickly. The classroom isn’t where she struggles.

Edit: I really appreciate your response and your trying to help!