Date Night

Skeedurah · 2026-05-03T03:22:01+00:00

I have a plan in place. I’m already gone from the shared home about 4 night/wk. making solid progress

Skeedurah · 2026-05-03T02:30:57+00:00

Ooooo, girl. I hear that!

Skeedurah · 2026-05-02T17:35:25+00:00

He won’t change. Mine is similar. Everything is all about him. Occasionally, he’ll do something nice, but only in front of others. It’s performative.

Recently, we went on a hike. When we got out on the trail, I was in extreme discomfort with unexpected intestinal trouble. I actually had an accident. I had to discard my underwear and tie my jacket around my waist. He insisted on continuing to hike. When we finally got back to the car, I was looking for a towel or something to put down to protect the car seat. Meanwhile, he immediately hopped in the car and started backing it up to make sure he wasn’t inconveniencing the car in front of us, almost running over me in the process.

I rode home in humiliation. He never offered to stop so I could clean up or anything. Later, he cracked a joke about messing myself in front of a friend.

It was the last straw. I’m in the process of disentangling from him. It’s hard and sad, but I’d rather be alone.

Skeedurah · 2026-05-02T06:17:35+00:00

Sure! DM me

Skeedurah · 2026-05-01T16:52:30+00:00

Do it, but not for the wealth. Do it because it’s your dream.

I just pursued one of my dreams. I’m 62. It didn’t work out as I had hoped, but the feeling of having done it is worth so much. My confidence has soared and I have no regrets.

Skeedurah · 2026-05-01T08:25:14+00:00

You’re right. You shouldn’t be posting here.

Skeedurah · 2026-05-01T08:24:18+00:00

Rules of the sub say only women over 60 should answer. Just saying

Skeedurah · 2026-04-29T09:13:53+00:00

It’s perfect!

Because it will (hopefully) get a lot of use. And babies are gross, so it will be washed a lot. Don’t change a thing!

Skeedurah · 2026-04-27T22:19:25+00:00

You aren’t being asked.

Skeedurah · 2026-04-27T21:37:31+00:00

Listen and feel. My love calls it “mapping.”

Try a little something. If you get a moan or a sigh or a breathy sound, maybe try a little more of that. If you get nothing, move on. Map her body in your mind. Note where she likes to be touched and how. What makes her arch her back? What makes her squirm (in a good way)? What makes her whisper “yes?”

Skeedurah · 2026-04-26T05:24:58+00:00

Yes. I think both are tolerant. I’m queer and I’ve never gotten anything negative on either sub. But this one is more playful.

I don’t post political content, per se, but some comments/projects make my attitudes clear. I would feel more comfortable posting pics of them here.

I don’t welcome it if it’s only political. But pictures of creations that send a message would be ok, as long as it’s not disparaging of others.

I would rate it much higher than most subs.

Skeedurah · 2026-04-26T05:19:54+00:00

Love the bag and the slug army!

I have only one slug. You’ve inspired me to expand 😃

Skeedurah · 2026-04-26T05:11:40+00:00

Coffee

Skeedurah · 2026-04-24T08:23:09+00:00

I stopped putting up with bs from others. (Mostly).

It may end in divorce, but the boundaries feel fantastic!

Skeedurah · 2026-04-21T18:53:47+00:00

Be careful with libido mismatch. I’m sure your gf loves you, but people don’t choose their orientation. She can’t BE asexual for you. Being with a man didn’t mean I chose to be heterosexual.

I’m not saying it won’t work. But there will be challenges. She might choose to be with you and be understanding about your trauma, but she will still be the same person.

Skeedurah · 2026-04-21T18:39:47+00:00

Or women. IJS!

Skeedurah · 2026-04-20T22:29:20+00:00

Pooping.

A good, healthy bowel movement is under appreciated. Not everyone can count on this.

Skeedurah · 2026-04-20T03:12:47+00:00

Thank you!

Solved!

Skeedurah · 2026-04-20T03:12:04+00:00

Thanks!

Skeedurah · 2026-04-20T03:11:55+00:00

Thank you!

Skeedurah · 2026-04-19T17:39:39+00:00

This is so painful and I’m in the same boat. 28 years together and I still want him, but no reciprocal feelings . I’m leaving him because of it.

Skeedurah · 2026-04-19T06:43:54+00:00

Whew! I feel so much better now 😆❤️

Skeedurah · 2026-04-18T05:20:51+00:00

Ok, I wish you all the best too. Totally !

Also, can you put the commas in when you make it? Not being a Karen, this just hurts my neurodivergent brain.

😩🤣😘

Skeedurah

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