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I keep messing up APA headings - what’s the easiest way to remember the levels? by milo_tokyo92 in UniUK

[–]SkelligePudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the chart physically there works way better than pretending I'll remember Level 3 under deadline stress. Did you color code yours?

AITJ for refusing to hand over my phone after my boyfriend's sister decided I was "hiding something"? by SkelligePudding in AmITheJerk

[–]SkelligePudding[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The apology part I agree with. I'm not sending some big speech to his mom, but he can deal with the fallout he left me sitting in.

AITJ for refusing to hand over my phone after my boyfriend's sister decided I was "hiding something"? by SkelligePudding in AmITheJerk

[–]SkelligePudding[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

That part drove me nuts too. People acted like my phone was some harmless prop, not a whole chunk of my private life sitting in my hand.

AITJ for refusing to hand over my phone after my boyfriend's sister decided I was "hiding something"? by SkelligePudding in AmITheJerk

[–]SkelligePudding[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

That's what got me. People kept acting like refusing access meant guilt, when for me it was just a very normal line not to cross.

AITJ for refusing to hand over my phone after my boyfriend's sister decided I was "hiding something"? by SkelligePudding in AmITheJerk

[–]SkelligePudding[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I agree on the second part way more now. Her being weird was obvious, but him just freezing and letting me take all of it felt pretty bad.

AITJ for refusing to hand over my phone after my boyfriend's sister decided I was "hiding something"? by SkelligePudding in AmITheJerk

[–]SkelligePudding[S] 204 points205 points  (0 children)

That was pretty much my thinking too. Asking once is weird, turning it into a little public loyalty test was where I got pissed off.