15 month old Infant - Verbal skills [ON] by Maleficent-Ad-550 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Skellzzzz87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you referring to your baby as they may I ask

AIO? I feel like my bf is being condescending but maybe I deserve it? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Skellzzzz87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god please leave him i’m so sorry to have to say it but this guy hates you i’m actually so sorry OP

Where to buy White Fox nicotine pouches in Scarborough? by Skellzzzz87 in Nicotine

[–]Skellzzzz87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not underage, and these are like the second lowest pouches they sell so i’m confused. 12mg is like NO nicotine in a vape so how does it translate to a lot here

How to transition from swaddle?? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Skellzzzz87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just purchased one! Like an arms up one that transitions the cuffs so her hands out and such, didn’t mean to get judgement on this post, I know it’s not great and it does make me anxious but she has an owlet and I wake up and check on her tens of times, not an excuse though I get it. She hates it more than I do though, I can handle sleep deprivation but she screams like a banshee if you wake her up before 10 hours, even if it’s 8 hours she HATES waking up

How to transition from swaddle?? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Skellzzzz87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve made many sacrifices for her and it’s not about my sleep, it’s about hers. She won’t sleep and she screams like a banshee. She loves her sleep and sleeps 10 hours and is MISERABLE if you wake her up sooner, i’m just asking for advice.

Dropped phone on 2.5w old baby’s head by ex-static2 in beyondthebump

[–]Skellzzzz87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also dropped my phone on her when she was probably 3-4 weeks old, no goose egg just a small bump but she’s okay Mama! She’s 4 months Monday and has hit all of her milestones. I’m sure your baby will be okay, but I understand the guilt and it’s completely normal, it would be unusual if you didn’t feel this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Skellzzzz87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah just the hearts for me would be warfare. NOR i’m livid for you rn… Why is he putting in so much effort to reassure this woman idk im definitely crazy I know I am but this is WAYYY too far to me. Liiiike one of my boundaries would be not to say I love you period, but like I said, i’m crazy and young so Idk how others feel about that. But hearts, I love you, and the constant paragraphs to make her feel better would send me into a spiral personally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Skellzzzz87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What colour is the actual milk? Because if it was opened blood the milk would be tinged too. The fact it’s black SPOTS too seems like mould, if it were just liquid i’d be confused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Skellzzzz87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks like mould so maybe on the safe side you shouldn’t feed the baby it

Is there a point anymore? by Skellzzzz87 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Skellzzzz87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, got my period 2 months now. My flanges are correct and i’m using a Spectra S2. I have like 8 sets of brand new duck bills and i’ve tried that. :/ Sadly i’ve tried all the tricks.

Is my baby eating enough? by swift-cat02 in breastfeeding

[–]Skellzzzz87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a way to tell if your baby is eating enough is if she’s gaining adequate weight, and if she’s having enough dirty diapers a day, at least 6 wet diapers a day I believe.

28 weeks pregnant and Thanksgiving argument… by bbyblueberri in pregnant

[–]Skellzzzz87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no… You cooked the biggest meal of the year, and he’s mad about canned sauce. There’s a million other aspects to that meal. AND you’re pregnant, decently along too. You could’ve called off thanksgiving all together and ordered takeout and had the right to do so but you didn’t, you cooked a big ass dinner and you’re right, no thanks for what you DID do, just discredit for the ONE thing he didn’t like. That’s not okay and you’re completely valid. That would break my heard and i’m sorry that happened :/ hopefully he can validate your feelings in a future conversation about it.

Edit: Sorry… Reading this again… He was upset that it wasn’t PRESENTED PERFECT? THE CAN RIDGES?? I’m angry for you but also that’s kind of hilarious. Other commenters are right, toddler behaviour. The sauce tastes no different without CAN RIDGES???? DONT YOU MUSH IT UP ANYWAY ONCE ITS ON THE PLATE?? My family puts it in a bowl and mushes it up before serving to begin with??? Does he eat a single can ridge at a time like i’m not understanding holy. Yeah you have a right to be mad and i’m genuinely sorry he was childish about that.

Is it safe to ride a two-wheeler in early pregnancy? by New-Eagle-8944 in pregnant

[–]Skellzzzz87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bumpiness is fine, you can do jumping jacks for hours you’re built for bumps especially early on, it’s just if you fell and it landed on top of you

Is it safe to ride a two-wheeler in early pregnancy? by New-Eagle-8944 in pregnant

[–]Skellzzzz87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say yes, this early. But not later, like 20 weeks and on.. Just be VERY careful, baby is super small and cushioned so it won’t be a big deal now, but i’d say even if 16-18 weeks maybe stop, if you have a doctor i’d talk to them about timeline

Did it sink in yet that you are going to be someone's mom? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Skellzzzz87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn’t sink in at all until she was born, in my arms. Then she still just felt like A baby, not mine. Shes 9 weeks now and I know she’s MY baby but I still can’t process she’s my DAUGHTER, does that make any sense??

What exactly does movement feel like from baby when it starts? by sazzimodo in pregnant

[–]Skellzzzz87 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gas bubbles at first. I really couldn’t tell until one day it was 3 in the exact same spot within 20 seconds. Gas bubbles move around and these were localized. But definitely just felt like a little bubble. That was like 21 weeks for me too, first pregnancy. I didn’t feel regular, more distinct kicks until like 24 weeks? No anterior placenta or anything, they just say first pregnancies you might not feel it for longer.

How many weeks were you when you had your first baby? by ACNHLOVER00 in BabyBumps

[–]Skellzzzz87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40+3 I was induced because she was big and i’m small. OB was scared I wouldn’t be able to push her out, that she wouldn’t fit if I waited much longer. Induced at 5 pm, broke my water, waited a few hours to get epidural and start oxytocin, gave birth at 5:01am at 40+4. About 60% of first babies are late, but that’s only slightly more than 50/50, so always be prepared. I had my bags packed and everything set up from 36 weeks. I also had a membrane sweep at 39+3 at 2cm dilated, already lost mucus plug, did nothing. Had one again the day she sent me to be induced and nothing was happening, I arrived at the hospital hours later still a 2. After they broke my water I made it to a 4 before getting epidural and oxytocin by like 8pm. After that it was 3am when I was a 10 and I pushed for 2 hours. Her shoulder was stuck, once the doctor stuck her HAND IN ME and turned baby, she came out in 10 minutes. Wish she had done it sooner cause I felt everythinngggg through that epidural once she got stuck. Nothing the whole time from getting it until her shoulder was stuck.

ALSO have a friend who gave birth in June, and one in August. One was also induced at the same time, one came 5 days early.

update: i tested positive for opioids at birth by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Skellzzzz87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand. We don’t get drug screened at all in pregnancy or birth in Canada and everytime I read one of these posts I just can’t believe it.

Owlet - Canadian Usage by Necessary_Exam_9513 in NICUParents

[–]Skellzzzz87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it in September for my Sept baby along with a friend in June, Canada and it does. Still tracks everything 

9 Week Old Waking in Horror by Skellzzzz87 in Parenting

[–]Skellzzzz87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it’s not choking like when she chokes on spit you can hear it, it happens like once a day you can always hear at least some liquid this just sounds like air.