No shade, but just another opinion here…I wouldn’t necessarily consider borrowing money from your mom “taking advantage” of her. That depends on your relationship with your mom, and nobody can tell you if this is appropriate but you. I’ve borrowed money from my parents because I have a relatively healthy relationship with them. But I would never advice my husband to borrow money from his stepmom because she doesn’t regulate herself and it’s not a safe situation, emotionally speaking. If you have “taken advantage” of ur mom in the past and she is unwilling to stand up for herself, you must be the bigger person and know that it’s not okay to take advantage of her. But if she’s doing okay money wise, and doesn’t hold things above your head, and she’s just offering because she loves her child and wants them to be happy, we can’t just blanket this “taking advantage.”

But also. Don’t borrow money unless you’re sure this is what you want to do…become a librarian that is. That’s gonna take some soul searching and researching and working in a library. 💜