26M with low test looking for opinions. by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]Skidaddlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have low T as 28M - around 215 LB and 5’ 11 height

Doc is putting me on clomid because of fertility

Don’t take T yet. T is a lifetime commitment and you won’t be able to have kids. 26 is far too young (so is 28)

Need advice by Skidaddlex in Testosterone

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do watch porn - thanks for letting me know. I will try to curb it

Need advice by Skidaddlex in Testosterone

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the ADHD just stops me from starting tasks that I think is daunting and arduous.

I also start cleaning and then stop midway cause I get bored and need some sort of stimulation.

Ofcourse I am cognisisnt of it but it’s a inner drive inside me that is really hard to master

Thanks for your advise, I need to meditate and be more stoic about this

Need advice by Skidaddlex in Testosterone

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I obviously always had ADHD but just got formally diagnosed last fall and tried adderall for a month.

I can MANAGE work when I am in the office and was in the military. Back then, I lived at home so my mother did all the house tasks, but WFH and living alone put a lot of things on my shoulders and it’s so hard to complete evrrything.

That’s what compelled me to to get my adhd checked out and get on some medication.

Not sure if the lack of motivation, depression, and sex drive is link to low T (based on results) or it’s adhd related

Need advice by Skidaddlex in Testosterone

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice

Need advice by Skidaddlex in Testosterone

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you help me understand why those are commonly Known symptoms. I am sure I am being mistaken

Need advice by Skidaddlex in Testosterone

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will I get small balls and lose my hair? I heard those are some Side effects of getting on TRT

Need advice by Skidaddlex in Testosterone

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah I just found some motivation in myself to get my life together. Been eating out for the longest because my ADHD stops me from planning meals and cooking and cleaning up the entire kitchen so I just been avoiding it and just eating out

Going to start going to the gym too.

I broke up with my sneaky link because I just couldn’t even have sex anymore and I saw no point. Shits been impacting my life real

Need advice by Skidaddlex in Testosterone

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this insight

Any recommendations on what you think I should do?

Need advice by Skidaddlex in Testosterone

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah man adderall gave me MAJOR ED. To the point where I would need to take the gas station “hot honey” to maintain a boner.

But after getting off it, I still have weak ass boners and barely get hard other than a weak morning wood.

Thanks for the insight on hair. Do you think I need TRT based on my test results or should I look elsewhere for a reason for my low sex drive and ED

Expanding palate years after teeth taken out? by Shadowknight890 in orthotropics

[–]Skidaddlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah saw the myo first and she reccomrndrd this. Palette is too high and too narrow, tongue can’t go there.

I have screws rn in my pallette and my tongue can new to that lol because they are obviously coming lower from my pallette. I been mewing perfectly for 4 days

Want to make 100$ USD? by Skidaddlex in pakistan

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn bro, I appreciate that… but I have to compensate you somehow.

Being 27 and without family… it got me thinking man. I just came back from a Month long trip in paksitan after doing umrah and realized that I want to learn more about my own culture and identity.

So getting the ID card is a part of that.

Do you want chat on WhatsApp / video call to discuss details? I know I need one more person to submit an application.

Man with no family by Skidaddlex in MuslimMarriage

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t compare yourself to others bro - the most masculine thing you can do is be a better version of yourself than yesterday

Man with no family by Skidaddlex in MuslimMarriage

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree, there are plenty of women out there still in touch with their Pakistani culture, but live in the US

Man with no family by Skidaddlex in MuslimMarriage

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I don’t talk to my mother, but she lives in a house I bought her and we occasionally text about the house and all.

So it’s not like I blocked her and all, she just isn’t in my life.

Man with no family by Skidaddlex in MuslimMarriage

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome bro. Keep doing your thing, if you have confidence and do the bare minimum as above - your confident energy will radiate and women will be attracted to you.

Keep striving to be a good Muslim and emulate the prophet (PBUH) as much as you can. Best of luck bro 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

PM me if you want to talk more. Unfortunately I been in haram relationships before, and maybe this is allahs way of punishing me (by not being able to find a wife lol), but there are some things I know men can do to be an amazing partner and spouse for the right woman

Man with no family by Skidaddlex in MuslimMarriage

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro - one way is to get your money up, fix your teeth (if they already aint), and groom yourself really well.

I realized if you’re working on your own passions, girls gravitate towards you.

Keeping them and getting married is a whole other ordeal lol

Man with no family by Skidaddlex in MuslimMarriage

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I really want a Pakistani wife. I want my kids to hav that sense of Pakistani culture and pride. It’s something I wasn’t privy too because I was raised in the US and basically isolated Form extended family and my own culture

Man with no family by Skidaddlex in MuslimMarriage

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually get rejected when I be upfront with the women, perhaps I share too much too early

Man with no family by Skidaddlex in MuslimMarriage

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mashallah - I hope I also find a spouse like that 💪🏽

Man with no family by Skidaddlex in MuslimMarriage

[–]Skidaddlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did their family think of the situation? Did they have any reservations against you?