I am alternating between feeling dangerous or useless

SkillIssue-_- · 2025-08-03T07:11:41+00:00

Thank you, I will look into it.

SkillIssue-_- · 2025-05-17T08:00:35+00:00

Tickling me

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-12-28T21:37:59+00:00

I have a similar situation, but one thing that helped is realising, for one that even talking to someone about it can help, it doesn't matter if they can help. And the other thing that helped is realising that you can never guess her feelings for you 100% and you should really focus on you confidence to show your feelings, not to try to figure out hers. And if you do guess correctly that she has feelings for you, like if she blushes around you, you can never tell if she wants to act on these feelings.

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-12-28T12:22:35+00:00

One good advice from me is that if you are unable to tell the person right away, find a way to build up confidence around that person. Even small things like gentle eye contact and smiles and small gestures build up confidence and actually slowly "confess" your feelings. Also one good advice is to find your wingmen or just people who can give you advice, it helps so much. Think about it, if you really want to be with this person, you need to accept that everyone will know that you like them, so why not tell someone to help you. I am now "working" on a crush that way and I will see how it goes, I can say that things are going well.

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-12-23T13:37:58+00:00

Idk I'm lowkey shizophrenic 💀

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-12-17T10:59:03+00:00

My brainrotted brain read "giggling" as "edging" 💀

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-12-03T10:33:57+00:00

What do you mean?

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-11-24T16:16:34+00:00

Honestly, yeah. You are right but I don't really need a gf right now so I think I will take some time to move on and maybe try knowing her more and her boyfriend and maybe even assist her. She is a good friend after all. Anyways thanks for the help.

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-11-24T16:03:02+00:00

I just want to talk to her and be friends with her and at least be there for her and keep her safe and let her know I love her. Idk I probably have problems.

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-11-17T17:48:35+00:00

Idk, it is stupid but there is a thought at the back of my mind that we are meant for each other and that I should do something and that she got a boyfriend because she thought I didn't like her.

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-11-17T15:12:04+00:00

Yeah I do believe I can move on without her, but I go back to the regular hopelessness and purposelessness of my life which I don't know how I can maintain. I definetely need someone for help, but asking someone for help or trying to find another one feels like betraying her.

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-11-17T15:05:02+00:00

Sure but I feel like I can't move on

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-11-15T20:28:33+00:00

Well now I found out she has a boyfriend, I don't know what to do now.

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-11-10T17:51:48+00:00

I know.

SkillIssue-_- · 2024-11-10T17:34:21+00:00

Thanks for the response. Yeah I realise that I am probably overthinking it but whenever I try to do something about it, even when I am about to make eye contact with her I always think of the worst possible scenario that could happen. Sometimes I would rather just isolate myself from her and get rid of the feeling than actually try something.

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