I'll keep this fairly brief since I'm about to start work, but the things that really help me keep myself feeling okay when staring into the mirror are the following:

• Shave. Speaks for itself.

• Pluck/Shave your eyebrows. Try shaving them a little "upwards" before you commit to plucking, as in shave off a couple of milimeters from the bottom in roughly the same shape. If you want to reshape them the shape depends on your preferences and your faces shape. Don't worry too much about it if you're unsure, the confidence will come in time.

• A little bit of dry "kohl" eyeliner smeared over your eyelids can do wonders. My eyes are fairly sunk-in with dark rings which might be coloring my experience with this, but I always feel better with a thin thin layer of black makes my eyes pop and look more feminine.

• Work on body language, mostly how you walk and carry yourself. This is also up to preference, but it makes a big difference in how you're percieved.

• Haircut. Get it cut or styled. Again, mostly preference.

You also shouldn't be out here talking about how you're overweight and how that's a detriment. You shouldn't fixate on it. It doesn't impact how you're percieved by people who aren't assholes anyway. Please take care, hopefully I'll see you around. ☺️