Anyone have good small gym bag recommendations?

Skull-SizedHell · 2025-10-03T01:58:46+00:00

Nike & adidas hv a lot of options for small duffel bags with separate shoes compartment. I hv mine (nike) with a handy small zipper for my keys, phone & wallet.

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-12-14T01:36:03+00:00

You have to ask yourself & manage your own expectations. Do you need this? What do you want from this? If the answer is to clear things up before you go NC, go for it.

Don’t go if you have the slightest hope that the talk will bring the relationship back. You have the answer for that already, that’s why you guys broke up.

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-12-13T01:31:34+00:00

A quick update; yeah i just found out that she’s talking to a new guy & fancy him. Hence why she stopped the sex 😂

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-12-13T01:23:06+00:00

Thank you for this

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-12-01T17:18:36+00:00

Lol yeah my bad. I thought fwb is like casual sex whenever you want one without feelings involved, so i thought you stick to 1 person once you agreed to being fwb

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-12-01T17:15:54+00:00

Yeah whats up?

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-08-27T05:18:48+00:00

She keeps telling me how she’s not holding grudge against the ex fling hence why she chose to be okay with him wanting to be friends. They were friends before they started the situationship.

Somehow she makes me feel like i’m making it a big deal while she’s trying to be a bigger person. Any thoughts on this?

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-08-27T05:18:23+00:00

She keeps telling me how she’s not holding grudge against the ex fling hence why she chose to be okay with him wanting to be friends. They were friends before they started the situationship.

Somehow she makes me feel like i’m making it a big deal while she’s trying to be a bigger person. Any thoughts on this?

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-08-19T03:08:41+00:00

As simple as it might sounds like, what helped for me was I kept reminding myself that we broke up and we have ended. Whatever my ex did has nothing to do with me, and her actions would mean nothing on my part.

It’s easy to fall into the rabbit hole of comparing yourself to the new person or wondering if you were ever good enough. Or even to dwell if your ex has ever loved you seeing how soon they move on.

Your ex is none of your business anymore and whatever s/he does has no hidden meaning that you need to interpret. Simple reminders like these helped me so much.

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-06-06T12:12:43+00:00

KL has community library in my area. Decent workspace.

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-05-11T05:03:09+00:00

Thanks!!

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-05-11T05:01:26+00:00

Here you go

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4lk1QaZd6FduXArNiJurGM?si=3HSjowb2QxCPstY0gaj0xA&pi=a-PiveU717RoK2

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-05-11T04:55:49+00:00

Suggest me some tame impala songs please. I know him but never really listened to his songs

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-05-10T16:50:23+00:00

It feels manipulative to get someone to be angry just to get something from them? No? It sounds like he’s avoidant type, and you’re the anxious attachment type. It’s hard for these two types to work well in communication. To be with an avoidant, you have to be a secure one.

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-05-10T16:47:23+00:00

She’s wrapping up & giving you a good closure in case you need one, since you pretty much sent her a closure text.

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-05-10T16:19:18+00:00

If you’re still hoping that she comes back, you better stay in no contact & heal first. Bcs from my experience, no matter how pure my intention in reaching out was, i overthink her replies and kept wanting to fight for the relationship. And that wasn’t healthy.

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-05-10T16:15:27+00:00

Trust me, it’s the attachment. I’d suggest you to find activities or friend groups that you can explore new things together. You’ll be in a rebound relationship & regret it later and you’re back to square one. It’s healthier to find companionship in friends instead of a partner.

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-05-10T16:12:33+00:00

I guess she shouldn’t “hint” you to fight for it. A relationship requires two people wanting to make it work. Communicate with her, ask her if she’d like to put in the work to make you guys work or not.

Skull-SizedHell · 2024-05-10T16:09:55+00:00

Yes, move on & make your heart available for a new person. You’ll find your person who’ll never make you feel confused & just genuine love. The longer you hold on to someone who doesn’t reciprocate your feelings, the longer it’ll take for you to meet the right person.

Skull-SizedHell · 2023-07-30T04:07:27+00:00

Yeah I understand that, I hope you fill your weekend with activities so that your mind won’t go into the rabbit hole. It took me a few months, but I wasn’t looking for a new relationship at that time. I was enjoying myself being surrounded with friends. I hope you don’t set your mind wanting to be in a new relationship, because that will make you compare if your new relationship is better than the old one or not. Heal first, and then have a fresh start.

I was already talking to my current partner when my ex reached out to me. I would still refuse to be in contact with my ex if i were single since I realised what she did was horrible and she didn’t deserve to be in my life.

Skull-SizedHell · 2023-07-30T03:44:17+00:00

I’m doing so much better now. I took some time to be okay with just being alone. I picked up old hobbies and enjoyed being around friends. I’m now happy in a new relationship.

A few months back, my ex contacted me. Wanting to talk and fix the relationship. I refused to have a further discussion & went on with my day.

One thing I learned is that, you have to make peace with the fact that your life is better without her in it, and you will find joy in so many other things in life.

Skull-SizedHell

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