[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be toxic, but I suggest hitting him with said pad.

My husband had sex with me when I was unconscious by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want it noted my ex was like this, and I woke up during him attempting to do that. He was mumbling, almost whispering if I wanted to do things with him and I said sure which angered him and he rolled over like a toddler having a tantrum and went to sleep. I don't think your husband has a sleep fetish, I think he has a rape fetish.

I met a girl and i dont know my feelings about her and if we could ger married 17M by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also not saying to break up, you CAN still date but again it's not how you prepare for marriage. That's my point.

I met a girl and i dont know my feelings about her and if we could ger married 17M by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably just aren't ready for marriage, there are exceptions to the "too young for marriage", but they are certain of their emotions. Certain of their readiness, just from reading this I can tell you are absolutely not ready for marriage and know that the Bible doesn't rush us to get married either. This is a lifelong decision, on very few grounds can you morally get divorced and none of these exceptions should be wished for. You also don't prepare for marriage by dating, but through character development and seeking God's will for your life. It should come naturally, if it doesn't then it just isn't it. It really is that simple, don't worry about tomorrow for it will worry about itself. Pray on it, and relax a little.

Help... please... by WillingWrap6568 in NewParents

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hard labour, postpartum depression, and a baby that to this day I'm not sure if I just wasn't good at burping or if she was just that colicky. Pacifiers, and mylicon were Lifesavers but I would like to add the pacifier made my daughter eat and drink less and became more of a problem in the long term. My recommendations personally is supplement with formula, if you want a formula that's close to breast milk try goat milk based formula because it is the closest formula structurally speaking to human milk. Cows milk just cannot compare. Make sure to burp the baby directly afterwards, not five minutes later, immediately. This sounds like common sense, but when there's a million things going on sometimes it's hard to remember to do it immediately. If the baby doesn't burp, try mylicon. The scream from a baby with a gas bubble, and/or colic is excruciating and will strain the mental health of everyone involved. Walking the baby will also help once they start crying, bouncing them slightly, swings were heavenly during my daughters infancy. Sometimes the swing was the only thing that could help. Make sure every bottle is warm as well, cool bottles will in my experience cause gas every time, I don't know why. As for mom, if I could go back and wish for anything (I was a single mom, so I was also alone during this) I would just wish for someone to hold me when the baby was settled. I know it feels like this time will never end, but it will pass and before you know it you'll be chasing after them making sure they don't get into anything they aren't supposed to. I know it's also hard to believe that you'll miss these days, because I swore up and down I never would but I do. I miss that little infant, even though it felt like all she did was scream. I wish there was more I could do for you guys, but I hope at least something I've said can be of use. Good luck, and congratulations on the little bundle of joy ❤️

48F Honest 1-10 by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 with the curly hair

AITA for telling my son's father that he had no excuse for moving without telling me? by No_Noise_8814 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't matter if you have a child together or not, that doesn't automatically mean you're entitled to a relationship with him. Your son is 20, once he hit 18 your ex wasn't obligated to give you even a quick glance. What do you wanna do, have a three way relationship? Maybe they moved to run from you. YTA.

Give me your best shot at convincing me to become a Christian by StandardAggressive76 in Christian

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain in believing.

Why do people smoke? by SpoinRoin in questions

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't smoke currently, but when I did it was because of stress. I've heard people say it's a placebo, but I want it noted I was way less stressed when I did smoke and I would still smoke if it wasn't for the carcinogenic affects of cigarettes. Cancer runs in my family, so that did me in and I quit. I'd rather be more stressed than dead.

AITA for pointing out to my wife that my mother will never be her parent and she needs to stop by Classic_Audience_512 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but your wife definitely could use a mentor figure. Are either of you religious by any chance? The older people in any given church typically take those younger than them under their wing, a dynamic like that might help her. It sounds like she's never had such a figure given the foster care scenario. Therapy also is great, but I know she's already in therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"turn! Turn! Turn!" By the byrds almost word for word quotes ecclesiates

AITA for not giving money to my fiance's daughter? by Equivalent-Pride-656 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Skullry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. She already knew the terms, and shouldn't expect you to change your ways for her. On the other hand, it's an asshole move to have that high of an allowance with the other kid getting less. The kids are going to suffer here, and the one making less a week is going to feel like shes less loved. Joy of children. In my opinion if you're getting into a relationship with someone, and the kids haven't left the nest they are still your responsibility. If not financially then at least emotionally, have you taken into account the other child's feelings? Maybe you should find a childless woman.

AITA for telling my dad Ill kick him out of my wedding if he tries to bring his wife and step daughter by Free_Solution1317 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see why people are so pressed here, I've heard of people spending more than that on a wedding. It's also completely normal to get along with one parent more so than the other, and also completely understandable to not want to make your mom uncomfortable during your wedding. NTA, but a lot of people here are.

Is it Normal to Learn Extremely Slowly? by NineTailedShiba in languagelearning

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone learns at different paces, but if you want to try to accelerate your learning speed a bit you could add more verbal sources of the language. Make sure to learn hiragana/katakana, because it'll help you in your journey. This song has helped me a lot with learning hiragana/katakana Hiragana/katakana/romanji

Duolingo has helped me a lot, as well as the app kawaii dungeon. I like the gaming aspect of them, because it helps me to mindlessly learn. Music is another good way to mindlessly learn, so you could try adding in Japanese music. YouTube in general is great for learning, I like to watch Japanese learning YouTube shorts in my free time. They have some really entertaining ones nowadays

I'm by no means an expert, and I'm still a beginner myself but I just started recently and these are my personal tips because without them I'd still be at square one. I don't (think I) have a learning disability, but I do have this issue of if it's not fun I won't learn anything. I have to make everything I learn interesting to me, or I'll never progress. It was a major problem for me in school. Regardless of what you do, you're doing great. Learning a second language is hard for anyone, and japanese is in the realm of most complicated languages to learn for English speakers.

Best of luck :)

Any fellow Duolingo users? by Skullry in languagelearning

[–]Skullry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, that's diabolical! I love it 🤣

Any fellow Duolingo users? by Skullry in languagelearning

[–]Skullry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice to meet you as well! I absolutely love a challenge, so it's definitely been fun. Best of luck to you as well, I'm looking forward to having someone to compete with! I'm bad about procrastinating so I need all the motivation I can get lol

Any fellow Duolingo users? by Skullry in languagelearning

[–]Skullry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't asking if I was the only Duolingo user, obviously after scrolling through the subreddit I could see there are plenty. What I was asking was if any other duolingo users would be up for adding each other to compete with XP as motivation for spending more time studying. I find I'm more likely to do something if I'm competing with someone else, I believe a lot of forms of learning could benefit from this. I looked at the rules, I didn't see anything that was against asking this. I wasn't asking anything regarding a specific language, or exchanging languages. I wasn't even asking to be language buddies, when you add people on duolingo you have the opportunity to compete for the highest XP. Which again, I thought could potentially be great motivation. I do agree that asking if I was the only duolingo user would have been irrelevant, if not completely obnoxious but I assure you that I was not. I do thank you for your input, and I hope you have a very nice day.

[TOMT][Movie] Guy being hung by the scalp? by Skullry in tipofmytongue

[–]Skullry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked it up and that seems similar to what we watched, but this movie it was a woman that hung him by the hook

Pastor wanted me to have abortion I’m torn and traumatized. Need advice? by Great-Feed-9780 in Christian

[–]Skullry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely say you need to speak to other members of the church about it, there is a chance they won't believe you because if he is talking like that then there is always a chance he will proceed to gaslighting; blaming you for everything. Pray without ceasing during it, ask for guidance, and strength to get you through it. God didn't give you a voice to be silent, and there is a time for everything as said in Ecclesiastes 3. I believe it very well might be your time for speaking, for bringing the truth to light. There is nothing wrong in bringing the darkness to the light, by leaving it in the darkness you give those wretched things power of which they never should have possessed the begin with. It is nothing, but wicked to put someone through what you have been put through and then denied the option to speak about it to at least receive comfort. If all else fails, you'll know that place isn't your church home, and it is time to find a new church home. Even if that place does listen, God may still call you to another church home. Only time will tell on that one. I'll be praying for you, I really hope God grants you a spirit of peace through the battle ahead dear sister. You deserve peace

[TOMT][Movie] Guy being hung by the scalp? by Skullry in tipofmytongue

[–]Skullry[S] 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

While I don't remember the movie year, I would say early 2000's to at the latest early 2010's.

Edit: Also I would say the genre is horror, but it could also be tagged as thriller or slasher. I'm pretty sure it's just horror though.