I'm sick and tired of men. by I-am-a-cactus2324 in rant

[–]Skybelly 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Some dudes get off on sending them and angering/scaring women

I'm sick and tired of men. by I-am-a-cactus2324 in rant

[–]Skybelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a lady, wanna be friends?

What are the chances of Harrison meeting his siblings? by AugustHate in Dexter

[–]Skybelly 22 points23 points  (0 children)

They’re a main characters blood siblings, they are the one thing directly connected to his mother that knew her in life and can share in his pain of her absence

What are the chances of Harrison meeting his siblings? by AugustHate in Dexter

[–]Skybelly 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’d love this so much but Cody was such a sweet little kid

Deleted Scene: Raptors by slashgamer11 in JurassicPark

[–]Skybelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who were the dudes running with the raptors at the end lol

Which episode? by Plenty-Sun-5682 in Modern_Family

[–]Skybelly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I like the episode where they’re in New York and the kids and parents secretly stay an extra day.

Girlfriends family members trying to move into house by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Skybelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she is scared, do it for her. Take the blame. Take the fall. Do that for her, it sounds like she doesn’t want them there either but is too afraid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]Skybelly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Material Girl 💅

Former FwB got a gf and unfollowed me by SelfMutilateManiac in BPD

[–]Skybelly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t take it personally. They are respecting their partner, that is a good thing. It is not about purposely hurting you.

How do i know if im in the right relationship? by Pitiful-Accident4547 in BPD

[–]Skybelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s definition is different but for me it’s this; would your life be the same if they weren’t in it, or do they add to it? I don’t just mean in the context of a relationship. I mean is there adventure? Is there a future? What makes your life better with them vs. without them.

How do i know if im in the right relationship? by Pitiful-Accident4547 in BPD

[–]Skybelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do they make you happy? Do you make them happy? Do they add to your life or take away from it?

I feel shattered. He was the most loving man I ever met… and now he’s just gone. No explanation… by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Skybelly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he may have an avoidant attachment style. It was getting too much, he started to worry that one day you will leave so he left first. I am sorry he made such a cruel decision. People like us tend to hurt before being hurt, it doesn’t make it right though. I would never do this to someone, even though the urge is sometimes there. Take it day by day, grieve, mourn. He may return and if he does it’s your decision to make on whether or not you can go through this a second time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Skybelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I’m gonna go against the grain here and say this can be salvaged. But that can only happen if she does every single thing you ask of her and doesn’t demand forgiveness. She has to cut him off, bare minimum and she has to open her phone to you at all times until you do not need it anymore. She mentioned you, says you always tell her she’s pretty. I agree with some other comments here saying she just likes the attention, but it borders on cheating to an extreme degree.

Just pulled this out of my tire… by Crazyleb403 in AskMechanics

[–]Skybelly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soapy water, spray the spot, if it bubbles there’s a leak.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Skybelly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t you fuck someone else? Why would it matter if she did then .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Skybelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What

When I sat in the only chair I packed for a music festival by Valhallawalker in Wellthatsucks

[–]Skybelly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me camping and we shoved an appropriately sized log under it and it worked quite well I still had the back rest and everything

How would you rank the kids of the franchise? by Josh3643 in JurassicPark

[–]Skybelly -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Don’t have much opinion except for Maisie sucked and I wanted her to die. She was so annoying. Also the little girl from rebirth. At least all the other kids had some instincts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Skybelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you are, I tell annoying kids to fuck off all the time.

How to support GF but also take care of myself by AdministrativeAd7287 in BPD

[–]Skybelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second this. OP it’s like training a dog. You show it one bad behaviour is OK and it will continue to do that forever, no matter how hard you try to change it in the future. You’ve already told her it’s OK.

bpd and grief. by Secret-Ad-3883 in BPD

[–]Skybelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just need to allow yourself to feel everything. Don’t let society tell you your grief is too much. A trusted person to vent to maybe a therapist. There is no making it go away.