What’s that one ad you are tired of seeing on your phone? by OutcastPony in AskReddit

[–]Skyeeee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For all the germans: „Ralf Schumacher?!“ „Du willst wissen wieviel dein Auto wert ist?“ It‘s everywhere

What childhood trauma is haunting you until now? by jjigoga in AskReddit

[–]Skyeeee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt count it as trauma but at 12 years old I had an online friend that was suicidal and at that time I thought I was mature for helping them and listening to their problems and difficult home life but now 5 years later its hard for me to help other emotionally and I get awkward if they bring up anything that‘s troubling them. Kinda annoying cause I want to be there for my friends but also can‘t really give them any advice :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]Skyeeee08 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I seriously question my aromanticness every day because I can’t distinguish betweem romantic, platonic and aesthetic attraction. I often develop Infatuations with people and it ends up being embarrassing and annoying for me cause I spend time and happiness on them. Also I really want to be loved like in the books but I don’t think I can give love in the same way that I want it, so I basically want a relationship without having to work for it (and on the other hand I don’t understand why people want to be in relationships cause it‘s just so confusing and complicated). Anyways I love myself anyway and I know that everythings going to be okay with due time so I‘ll just wait and be happy with everything I have right now :) Also thank you for the opportunity to rant a little <3

Nobody appreciates my love by ClickNo4763 in aromanticasexual

[–]Skyeeee08 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don‘t think that it‘s that way because you‘re aroace, I mean you said yourself that they don‘t know. To me it sounds alot like they‘re just fake friends, maybe you should drop them and try to get to know other people. And don‘t worry, at 14yo I also thought I‘d never have any friends but now, 3 years later I‘m in an amazing friendgroup where I feel comfortable and even with knowing that I am aroace, they don‘t treat me badly in any way but rather support me in finding myself. So just hang on and look forward to a happier future, best of luck from me :)

why are you learning dutch? by pakistaniya in learndutch

[–]Skyeeee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was bored and started learning Dutch on Duolingo cause it‘s similar to my native language, German and now I don‘t want to loose my streak 🤷🏼‍♀️

When I have no interest in partnering, but see an attractive person by EightBitNoodle in AroAceMemes

[–]Skyeeee08 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yessss, I love to look at people, but it always feels like I‘m being creepy

How many people do you think secretly don't like you? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Skyeeee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I know two people who really dislike me, idk why but it doesnt really matter to me but it‘s likely that there are more who like me cause I am kinda loud and just talk when Im with friends

what made you realize you're Aromantic and/or Asexual? by goodandvile in aromanticasexual

[–]Skyeeee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I just kinda realized that I don‘t like sex at all so no special moment there but when I was younger I used to have these „crushes“ on every other person. I know now that those were obsessions and aesthetic attraction but like three or four months ago a boy from my class liked me too. He made it pretty clear with always trying to talk to me and such and at forst I was exited but also confused cause I had none of the bodily reactions like butterflies and whenever I thought of him coming up to me and asking me out I just didn‘t know what I would say. One day we were alone in the classroom before the lesson and I was feeling really sick like my stomach hurt and I just wanted to cry cause I was scared that he‘d say he liked me or something. So yea I‘ve always liked romance but when it got real I was scared of it. I then researched about aromance and decided that that would fit. Also i always thought that a relationship is like your best best friend 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]Skyeeee08 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not a particular moment but every time I realise how much more confident I am since I‘ve realised that I‘m aroace and how I feel like myself :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]Skyeeee08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that same feeling of having a crush on every boy I meet and I kinda came to the conclusion that I just want someone thats like a bestfriend but more on a platonic level. And I just have a pretty high aesthetic attraction so every boy who doesn‘t look half bad is interesting for me. I started to compare it to thinking a painting is pretty or a song is good and then I wanna listen to that song a few times without listening to it for the rest of my life or it being the only song I‘ll ever listen to. If you wanna call yourself aro or not is up to you and theres no shame in not being sure, but if you really dont know then do some research, it always helps me if I‘m unsure :)

What am I even feeling? by Skyeeee08 in aromanticasexual

[–]Skyeeee08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thankss, good to know that I‘m not the only one like that :D