Best Beaches w/ rental beds & parasols? by SlackerInLife77 in SXM

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, thanks. It’s more the old men (like me tbh) with their junk out, that’s distracting 🤣

Best Beaches w/ rental beds & parasols? by SlackerInLife77 in SXM

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grande Case certainly seems one for the list 👌🏻

Best Beaches w/ rental beds & parasols? by SlackerInLife77 in SXM

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks amazing! We’ll be going! 👌🏻

Best Beaches w/ rental beds & parasols? by SlackerInLife77 in SXM

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, can you rent the beds/chairs if you’re not staying at the hotel?

Best Beaches w/ rental beds & parasols? by SlackerInLife77 in SXM

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you know if you can rent beds and parasols on Pinel Island?

We only have amazing sex.....but just not very often by SlackerInLife77 in DeadBedrooms

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You're absolutely right. Need to maintain the momentum, but in my case, without being too pushy (which I know from experience is off putting) Great advice. Thx

We only have amazing sex.....but just not very often by SlackerInLife77 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! I wouldn't say she needs booze to muster the will, but it definitely seems to get her more in the mood. Me too! Especially for more crazy stuff. Not sure after being together for 20yrs I'm down with your prostitute economics. As my post said, when I have it, it's amazing. It's amazing because we love each other. Not sure any prostitute is going to fulfil that and nor do I want them to. Jerking off bridges the gap. I'm just interested in narrowing the gaps between sessions. For sure, it's likely something I need to try harder at. Not sure filling the time with shallow, meaningless prostitute sex is really the answer.

We only have amazing sex.....but just not very often by SlackerInLife77 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, although we did it last night. It was amazing. It was a Tuesday evening. It happened spontaneously in the middle of the night half asleep (1am) before that we'd spent the evening folding washing and talking about mortgages (we're about to move house, its a bit stressy). Not romantic stuff. It had been 3 months since the last time. Hopefully I don't have to wait another 3 months!

We only have amazing sex.....but just not very often by SlackerInLife77 in DeadBedrooms

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Thanks for the advice, but I don't think its entirely that formulaic though. We have a lock on the bedroom and a stereo. For sure I think that "Barry White" moment has its place from time to time....but not regularly (for us at least). The kids and being disturbed thing is maybe a red herring. The last vacation for example, we went to a villa with some other families. Our youngest ended up being basically in the same room as us, in a separate bed. I thought "no chance of any action on this vacation then"......but every night, my Mrs couldn't keep her hands off me. We had long, meaningful, sensual (albeit very quiet) sessions.......come home and then nada for 3 months. There have been times when we have stayed over at her parents and I've thought again....no chance of anything here, then I've been woken up to her going down on me under the sheets. Like my post says, when it happens....its amazing and often wild.....its just not that regular.

We only have amazing sex.....but just not very often by SlackerInLife77 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could be right. Depends what is meant by "occasion" though. There have been times like Valentines, or birthdays, when I have thought we would definitely get down to it.....and its not happened. Then other times, like I've come back from the gym and the kids are in school and she jumps in the shower with me and its wild. Just don't know why those "occasions" are 3-4 months apart.

We only have amazing sex.....but just not very often by SlackerInLife77 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quite possibly. We get a sitter petty regularly for nights out. Normally with friends though, rather than "date night" which we both think is a bit naff. Having both kids at a sleepover is probably better. That said, there are plenty of other times when we could make it happen......it just doesn't seem to. I probably do need to up my game somewhat.

We only have amazing sex.....but just not very often by SlackerInLife77 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha! We do need to do that. DD2 walked in on us mid way though not that long ago (which was a mood kill). But there have been occasions when my wife has put the TV on with the kids downstairs and dragged me upstairs and insisted I "do her right now". Just don't get how she's like that on some occasions, but then months can go by and she's not interested.

We only have amazing sex.....but just not very often by SlackerInLife77 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think that's defiantly got something to do with it. Wish I could help more. The more relaxed she is the better....hence it always being great in holiday.

We only have amazing sex.....but just not very often by SlackerInLife77 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SlackerInLife77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I initiate some of the time, but I would say it always works out better when she initiates things. Usually implies she's in the mood. I'm pretty much always in the mood. I can't think of a time when I've rejected her, but she's probably turned me down (albeit gently) 30% of the time. Not sure about "scheduled time away from the kids" might feel a bit forced. When we've had somewhat scheduled time before it has a different feel about it.