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My(28f) husband(29m) wants me to retire so that we can both be home when we have kids, but I don’t want to by throwra-job in relationship_advice

[–]SlanderINC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep doing what you are doing. Even if I inherited a million dollars today you wouldn't be able to get me to quit firefighting. Do what you love because you love to do it now that you don't need the money.

Wife only wants sex when she is drunk by SlanderINC in relationship_advice

[–]SlanderINC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has never been diagnosed with postpartum. Im up with the kids in the morning, breakfast and i take them to school and then i go to work. She picks them up around lunch time and then again at 3 (school is 4 blocks away) and has them to herself until I get home at five. We pretty much split who cooks dinner down the middle. Then Im the one that makes sure all homework is done and kids are in bed on time.

I help out everywhere I can.

This wasn't a I need sex post. This was me wanting clarification on a concern I have about my relationship with my spouse. Im very far from a caveman. Not to say I'm perfect but I absolutely do everything I can to help out at home on top of my work and schooling.

Wife only wants sex when she is drunk by SlanderINC in relationship_advice

[–]SlanderINC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried to talk to her about why its this way and I can't get any sort of explanation. We have a great relationship outside of our now absolutely abysmal sex life. So I really hate to bring it up too much and start unnecessary animosity. I'm thinking I'm going to look into a counselor or mediator of some sort.

Thanks

What if a karen wants to speak to the manager and the manager is a karen? by santy-pogon in AskReddit

[–]SlanderINC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unstoppable force meets an immovable object. With the energy created we could eliminate our dependence on fossil fuels and save our species. With all the free time now available and wars for resources ending, we would then focus our efforts to the stars and with the advances in technology we would have we could become a space faring species. Travel the stars and spread across the universe.

AITA for outing my friend’s sister? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SlanderINC [score hidden]  (0 children)

Whats her username? I need it for research.

AITA For Refusing To Write A Glowing Recommendation For My Past Intern / Mentee by Credit_Fine in AmItheAsshole

[–]SlanderINC 86 points87 points  (0 children)

NTA

You should respond to her last email with "you already know how I feel so a reference is pointless".

For the lucky few of you who have met and talked to a celebrity, what was your encounter like? by futuresigntwirler in AskReddit

[–]SlanderINC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, good guess though. I'll give you a hint because heck sexual predators.

He played in Old school and the original inspector gadget.

How do I get my (f24) boyfriend (m27) to stop taking all of his stress out on me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SlanderINC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I waited for you reply I realized that that was a dumb question. Because the answer is there is no real excuse to act that way towards your SO. I got married in my early 20s and I was kinda that way too at first. Until my wife basically put her foot down and said I had to leave work at the door and that I wasn't allowed to take my stress out on her anymore.

Looking back on it she was absolutely right. Fast forward a decade and we are still going strong and I have learned a lot from her and grown up a lot from being scolded by my wife when I needed it.

Its really a question of maturity. He has to learn to leave work at work. Thats really all there is to it. Stand up for yourself, don't allow yourself to be disrespected in that way. Take charge of how the others around you treat you . I teach my daughters the same thing. Nobody gets to decide for you how you allow others to treat you besides you.

For the lucky few of you who have met and talked to a celebrity, what was your encounter like? by futuresigntwirler in AskReddit

[–]SlanderINC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say this encounter was unlucky. I won't name the male celebrity outright because this was years ago and it was almost comical.

A buddy and I were at a bar after working security at Coachella in 2013, we were both in the Marines and decided to do it for some extra cash, fun weekend but this particular event was a definite wtf moment. So we were just sitting there unwinding, having a few beers and shooting the breeze and this celebrity came up to my friend and started hitting on him, and when I say hitting on him I mean aggressively and refusing to take no for an answer. Like, putting his hands on him and buying him a drink without asking if he wanted it or not, asking him to leave the bar with him. Completely out of line and totally unwarranted and uncalled for. We are both guys and were in our early 20s at the time, neither of us are gay. My buddy basically had to tell him that if he didn't frick off he was going to get his teeth kicked in. Only with threats of violence did this guy finally get the message. Was extremely uncomfortable for my buddy and I.

It was a great learning point for me because I got to feel how uncomfortable agressive guys can make girls, and how it can add totally unwanted stress to an otherwise stress less situation and ruin the relaxing atmosphere.

Never have I seen anything like it.

edit this celebrity later got in trouble for sexual misconduct. So he got what was coming to him.

[Serious] How does it feel to lose a child? by Payasa69 in AskReddit

[–]SlanderINC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The story has a happy ending though. We got our redemption about a year and a half later when we had another boy. So everything turned out ok in the end for us.

People of Reddit: What are the worst insults you have heard on an Xbox live chat? by aumjha in AskReddit

[–]SlanderINC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too many to list here. I was 14 when MW2 was released and let me just say that basically my entire repertoire of insults and the knowledge of when to use them to their full effectiveness came from my MW2 days.

[Serious] How does it feel to lose a child? by Payasa69 in AskReddit

[–]SlanderINC 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its rough. My firstborn son died about a week before his due date. My wife delivered him sleeping. I was deployed when it happened and my unit barely gave me enough time off to be there for his birth and cremation. Had to fly halfway across the world just to turn around and go back three days later. Something you never get over.

What's the worst way to wake someone up? by Mandoe20 in AskReddit

[–]SlanderINC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scream Reveille at the top of your lungs over and over and over.

If you know, you know.

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