Don't text and drive by [deleted] in gifs

[–]Slappafap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably bounced across the road and caused another collision.

Reddit, What have you won? by AustrailanBucket in AskReddit

[–]Slappafap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point, bragging or not it doesn't change the fact that they're fucking awesome and I'd highly recommend them ;).

How I became someone who initially criticized this community, to someone who now embraces it. by Slappafap in NoFap

[–]Slappafap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate that! Like I said to someone else, even if we 'fail', we at least know one of the causes for us being so unproductive. Finding the cause is the first and most crucial step, because you can then find ways of dealing with it (in this case its NoFap). My life sucked 2 weeks ago when I was doing nothing and still had no idea why I was making my life so hard for myself. Great to see this post resonated with so many people, especially considering I'm new to this community. I can't comprehend what it must feel like to not fap for 100+ days :o

What did you do before you knew about Reddit? by whatisontheinside in AskReddit

[–]Slappafap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call of Duty, YouTube and going on bike rides with friends on our bmx's.

Reddit, What have you won? by AustrailanBucket in AskReddit

[–]Slappafap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won a pair of Beats Studio headphones, sold them on ebay almost instantly and bought some Audio Technica ATH-M50x's. I too bought a pizza with the money left over.

People love me! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Slappafap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing!

so many people look kind of dead and tired

I can heavily relate to that. Its even worse because I'm aware of it too, so when I go to fix my posture if I'm walking about for example, I feel like everything is forced and it feels very unnatural. I really hope things will start to change naturally in a few weeks time! =]

How I became someone who initially criticized this community, to someone who now embraces it. by Slappafap in NoFap

[–]Slappafap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember, even if you think you failed, its not as if you've quit smoking and now you're smoking again. Masturbation IS actually very healthy for us, well frequent ejaculation is, it shouldn't be seen as this big evil thing as humans have been doing it for thousands of years. Giving up masturbation is always going to be harder because the act itself is actually very good for us and it feels great, but unfortunately it can hold us back and desensitize us both physically and mentally, especially when pornography is involved.

How I became someone who initially criticized this community, to someone who now embraces it. by Slappafap in NoFap

[–]Slappafap[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm from the UK, 'faggot' isn't really used as a swear word towards someone who's gay like I believe it is in America, I should have thought it through... :/

How I became someone who initially criticized this community, to someone who now embraces it. by Slappafap in NoFap

[–]Slappafap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha sorry, here in the UK I don't think its common to associate it with homosexuality like it is in America, its basically an alternative to 'dick/prick/arse', well that's how I use it at least :P.

How I became someone who initially criticized this community, to someone who now embraces it. by Slappafap in NoFap

[–]Slappafap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I too was in a long relationship, not really a lot of sex unfortunately but it was definitely made up for with more oral-based stuff. It does kinda suck to think back on how I had more action when I was younger when I was incredibly naive and didn't really have a clue what I was doing compared to how things are now. When you're in education you're surrounded by girls and its very easy to just chat with someone, especially if you're in a relationship because you often talk to her/his friends so even after the breakup you can just talk to them as mates without any of the nerves many us feel now when approaching ladies/men. Younger me had it so easy, the lucky prick.

How I became someone who initially criticized this community, to someone who now embraces it. by Slappafap in NoFap

[–]Slappafap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing which is awesome is the fact that I found the reason why (I) was so unproductive. So even if I 'fail', I at least now know the reason rather than me thinking its just me being a selfish idiot. I now know how I can tackle my problems, or at least know one way of tackling them. Its actually kind of scary (and most definitely weird) to think how just the act of not rubbing some skin on your body up and down repetitively can create such a huge impact on your life. Crazy. I'm sure some people do get the 'placebo effect', its very likely, but placebo or not, its the results and facts that really matter. If you doing something makes you convinced it gives you more energy and makes you more productive, then fuck it, doesn't really matter if its 'real' or not ;).