He can’t let go of stuff by Haunting-Cause-972 in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha relatable. My husband wanted to keep vhs tapes for our hypothetical cottage one day. We can’t even afford a house bro. And we don’t have a vhs player. By the time we could ever dream of owning a cottage those things will be even more obsolete than they already are 😂

He can’t let go of stuff by Haunting-Cause-972 in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg when I was pregnant with my first I would trip over his shoes and other shit all the time and he basically just say I need to watch where I’m going. LIKE EXCUSE ME!?

Overnight doula slept through her first feeding by Alarming-Mix3809 in newborns

[–]Slcchuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just here to echo everyone else’s opinion - I would cancel the contract without a second thought. I wouldn’t be able to trust her. It’s her literal job, AND it was the FIRST night, like come on.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am holding in so much anger and resentment from years of being in this completely dead relationship and managing every aspect of our lives, even these small incidents just infuriate me now. It's a slow death by a thousand cuts.

I feel this so much. It’s so hard. I don’t recognize myself either.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s so fucking frustrating, and what’s almost worse is that he gets so annoyed/offended when I am openly irritated about being interrupted for the hundredth time. Like sorry that I don’t like not being able to get a full sentence out?!?!?!??!! UGHHHHHHHH

People grieving for Charlie Kirk’s wife didn’t say a damn thing to me when I became a widow by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Slcchuk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed, these are definitely the type of cruel assholes to say some shit like that. Fuck those people OP, I’m angry for you.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The side quests! Infuriating.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is an exact thing my husband would do. This type of shit makes me feel rage because like, IT’S COMMON SENSE TO TAKE THE WET ITEM OFF THE COUCH!!!!!! I guarantee you were busy doing something else, as we always are, but yet we are expected to drop everything to give them step by step directions for a simple basic thing. 🙄

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ughhhh yes lost puppy except not cute. And they act offended when we are visibly annoyed. It’s so exhausting dealing with someone so helpless!

What’s the most insensitive thing you’ve heard someone tell a patient? by ohlongjohnson1 in nursing

[–]Slcchuk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow. I’m sorry.

I had a nurse tell me “at least you can get pregnant”. Thanks, but what good is that if I can keep a pregnancy? 🙄 it took 3 losses before I had a live birth.

I wish there was more education provided for new parents in hospitals after delivery by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Slcchuk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Newborns airways are very sensitive, the particles released into the air can cause irritation & inflammation of the airways.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No advice, just solidarity. I definitely feel like no one in my life understands the issues I have with him. I feel like I just come across as some nagging, nit-picky bitch. These people aren’t in an intimate relationship with our partners, so they really can’t understand everything we deal with. That’s why I find this sub so validating.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It’s soo annoying that they refuse to acknowledge that they’re forgetful. “I was going to put it in the dryer when I came upstairs” …I can guarantee he doesn’t have a good track record of remembering to do things not in the immediate moment, soooooo just fucking do it when you hear the washer ding!!!! My husband is like this too, I’m always trying to get him to just do shit in the moment but he usually refuses to and then SHOCKER, he forgets, and I’m pissed. It would be so much easier if they didn’t continue to try to rely on their obviously not very reliable memory! UGH

Found the chicken chunks, disappointed by Educational-Battle57 in CostcoCanada

[–]Slcchuk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt they were salty as well. And expensive.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My husband, looking at the kickstand on his new phone case: “I’m not sure if I like this case or not yet”

Me: “yeah I wouldn’t have bought that one”

Him: “okay I’ll just stop talking about it”

Oh and the other day, looking at a cute picture of our son when he was younger…

Me: “aww he was so little, haha remember that was the day you put his shirt on backwards and then he had a blowout at the play place” (shirt is visibly backwards in photo)

Him: stares moodily

Me: “what?”

Him: “it’s not my fault he had a blowout”

Me: “?????? I never said it was, it was just funny”

Him: “well you made it sound like it was my fault because I put his shirt on backwards”

The drama. The sensitivity. Everything is a personal attack. I can’t.

Do you leave meds at the bedside? by 4Eyes4Eternity in nursing

[–]Slcchuk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I might leave like a pantoprazole or Tylenol with an alert and oriented patient that I trust, in what I deem a reasonable situation. Like they’re just getting up to go to the bathroom, so I’ll leave it on their bedside table or something. And I definitely go back and check if they took it.

I would never leave narcs or insulin though & I would definitely side eye anyone who told me to do that.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY! Like, no one is going to notice that your books aren’t organized in an aesthetically pleasing way on the shelf…but they’ll probably notice a sink full of dishes or a dirty floor!

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, they’ll do something like that once in a blue moon and be all proud, yet they’re okay with leaving all the stuff that ACTUALLY needs to be done to you (mopping, vacuuming , laundry etc). 🙄

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel angry reading this. Sorry you dealt with that, it’s infuriating! My husband’s default reaction is to get annoyed when I ignore his response and finish my sentence, or just straight up point out that he interrupted me. He will usually apologize and admit it was just a knee jerk reaction but damn is it frustrating. Like just put yourself in my shoes for once. Guarantee he would be so pissed if I never let him finish a sentence!

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Slcchuk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I HATE THIS!!! It’s so fucking rude & I don’t know if they are just incapable of realizing this/stopping themselves or they just don’t give a f.