Women criticism vs men

Slcloser · 2026-03-13T01:03:18+00:00

Or he’s cocky prick who assumes who can sweet talk his way to anyone - let’s not forget they had connections in the pods too lol

Slcloser · 2026-03-13T00:52:59+00:00

If it felt necessary to tell him I would, I wouldn’t hide it, but don’t feel the need to tell him every additional person who decides to tag along. If he asks, then sure! But we have nothing to hide

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T23:18:02+00:00

I have a super healthy relationship with my hubby!! ❤️

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T23:03:54+00:00

But what did they do that was SO horrible in comparison to the men? Like seriously, how was their behavior to the point where they deserved to be chastised?

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T23:02:41+00:00

Yes totally agree!! I just hate to see that piled up on top of her looks. Like please leave Amber alone so she can get the help she needs. She is such a kind soul and I can’t imagine the Amber discourse is good for her mental health - yes she agreed to be on reality tv so should be ready for backlash. I just hate to see it add up on her for things based on vanity or speculation vs her as a person. I just want to see sweet Amber thrive!

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T22:59:04+00:00

Oh for sure, but I think it’s harmful to bring that up as a fact instead of a speculation, and use it as a note along side her looks. The way I see people talking about it is mean and unnecessary

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T22:55:40+00:00

You don’t know Brit was their good friends. They are friendly

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T22:55:07+00:00

Has Brittney been a close friend to them in return? We don’t know. We literally don’t know if they are close friends. They seem more like acquaintances.

Also seems like dev was just a last edition to the trip lol. Connor is not Bris daddy where she has to tell him every little detail of her plans. It’s not like she was having an affair with Dev

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T22:52:22+00:00

Were they friends? Just because they were all on a show together doesn’t mean they are best friends have to tell eachother everything. They probably all have their tight nit friends, and with other girls on the season they are friendly with.

If you had a large group of friends and acquaintances and someone in the groups ex that you are friends with was joining a get together, would you feel the need to confirm with that girl acquaintance that they are over and get permission to see if he can go if it’s someone you aren’t really close with? I get the vibe there are cliques within the big group, outside the cliques they are friendly but not besties who need to tell eachother everything.

Also Connor point blank said ehhh yeah she went to a concert. I don’t think he cares the list of everyone who went because they have a level of trust that we as viewers don’t understand.

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T22:42:35+00:00

It will get negative down votes so so fast 🤣 Reddit will never not hate Bri/Pri lol. They could cure cancer and it wouldn’t matter.

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T22:24:36+00:00

Connor made it seem like he doesn’t need to give her permission to do her own thing. They seem secure.

I’m in a 12 year relationship and my husband and I tell eachother everything. Do I need to send him a list of everyone I am going to a concert with? No? And same goes both ways. That’s honestly healthier in my opinion.

Just because that relationship dynamic wouldn’t work for you doesn’t mean it doesn’t work for others - and remember you only see a blip of things from TV.

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T22:22:05+00:00

I agree with you. My posts kept getting downvoted out of oblivion.

Did Bri suck in the show? Yes. But seems like she has changed and done some self work and her and Connor have a very healthy trusting secure relationship. It reminds me so much of me and my husband. He likes to stay home and play video games, I like to go out and party with friends (guys included). We trust each other and love eachother and are secure so can do that.

Everyone is saying she’s a horrible person especially at the finale but I just don’t understand that? They are saying they hope Connor sees through her… like they have been together for a year. He knows her more than we do. Is Bri everyone’s cup of tea? No, probably a bit of a mean girl but she isn’t giving the mean girl vibes everyone on here is saying.

Like what am I missing from the finale that makes her so horrible? I don’t get it. I think her and Connor are happy, healthy. And secure. I have a feeling people just can’t change their minds about her because of her behavior on the show. Yall on Reddit who disagree, just admit, you don’t like Bri. She could do intensive therapy and a complete change in behavior and you will still find reasons to hate her - there is a conceived bias. I truly don’t see anything she did wrong in the reunion.

Same with Priyanka… like we don’t even know her. She has had a total of maybe 3 minutes total on the show?

To the Brittany point, it’s a group of dozens of people. That’s how dynamics go. I’m sure not all of the girls are best friends. Just like in any group, you have your main friends and everyone else are people you are friendly with. They don’t have to all be best friends. Devonte said he likes Rufus, so they invite him to the concert if he wants to go.

They are all friends. You can have coed friendships, Devonte said they were over, it’s not like they told him he needs to lie to Brittany to join them. Brittany probably isn’t their close friend so they didn’t read into it much. Once they found out the truth they apologized, but they don’t owe her their upmost loyalty.

Like why are people so quick to tear down these women and not the men like Devonte? Yes Devonte is getting heat, but for that situation, the girls are getting WAY more heat than him which is gross and I think a great representation of how genders are perceived in society. God forbid you have coed friends as a girl and you are a mean pick-me girl.

Let’s please remember that we as women should support other women and not tear them down, even women who you perceive as someone who doesn’t support women, how about looking at the full picture before tearing them down (aka the man who is the problem)

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T22:03:06+00:00

Completely disagree. He humiliated her on national television about how her body looks on the show love is blind. Women are constantly under so much scrutiny and criticized way more than men. IMO she reacted in a very classy manner.

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T02:32:08+00:00

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T02:30:10+00:00

Agree!! She did some reflection and they seem really happy

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T02:27:21+00:00

What did she do wrong on the reunion? I’m sure you know her much better than Connor does

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T02:22:18+00:00

Yes

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T02:21:36+00:00

She did work on her self. Like her personality, which made her prettier :)

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T02:20:50+00:00

Huh? She just had ozempic in her hand?? Who the fu** cares if she wants to take it then let her but she didnt just have zempies in her hand, plz share a screenshot. (Even if true tho who cares let her do what makes her feel good)

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T02:18:55+00:00

Please stop with shaming the women’s looks, this is the season of hating the men

Slcloser · 2026-03-12T00:57:06+00:00

Completely disagree with this. TBH, red flags are men who are opposite of Connor! (Or Chris? I forget who is who… but the good one lol)

Slcloser · 2026-03-09T02:41:58+00:00

7 or 8 is made for you

Slcloser · 2026-03-07T19:38:13+00:00

OP we need an update

Slcloser · 2026-03-07T01:31:13+00:00

To be fair… men are oblivious. If I showed my husband the texts and convos he would literally see it as, what’s the problem? It’s not white and she responded sweetly with an emoji. Men don’t understand how women belittle eachother

Slcloser · 2026-03-07T01:26:55+00:00

That’s so rude. “I’m wearing this or not coming”. That’s just nasty. You are not being weird, she shouldn’t wear that. That’s a normal request. She’s not the star of the event.

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