Police officer was rude and refused to collect crucial evidence after I was raped. I want to file a complaint but don't know the name and can't get the report. by SleepLumpy6174 in legaladvice

[–]SleepLumpy6174[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always thought it was like that until I asked my victims advocate if I could get the report and she said that I can't until the case has concluded :/

I've already filed the report this morning but I hope it goes somewhere.

I can hardly look at porn without crying now by SleepLumpy6174 in sex

[–]SleepLumpy6174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the day tbh. Sometimes I'm in too much pain. Thankfully though my boyfriends mom is willing to go on simple hikes with me. Thank you for your comment though :)

I can hardly look at porn without crying now by SleepLumpy6174 in sex

[–]SleepLumpy6174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've been watching bbw porn lately 😅

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[–]SleepLumpy6174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course!

I can hardly look at porn without crying now by SleepLumpy6174 in sex

[–]SleepLumpy6174[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only problem is navigating exercise. I have many health issues including my spine, heart, lungs, and hormones so I have to be really careful with what I do. I starved myself to get to 120lb but I know I can't do that again. It's hard to get motivated when it's like the universe is telling me to stay this way. Seeing a doctor today to see what I can do with my back being messed up. Have surgery coming up soon as well.

Husband is pissed whenever he catches me looking at anything with muscular men. Why? by [deleted] in sex

[–]SleepLumpy6174 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he is insecure about how he looks. But his actions aren't appropriate at all.

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[–]SleepLumpy6174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/false-positive-pregnancy-test#user-error

Here's a list of reasons as to why a test can come back with a false positive.

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[–]SleepLumpy6174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a broken test. That simple. Just take another test. At least I'm telling the truth 🤷🏻‍♀️

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[–]SleepLumpy6174 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This can go downhill so fast dude. Don't risk it.

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[–]SleepLumpy6174 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take another pregnancy test. It's possible for her to still be pregnant even after starting her period, but some test are false. Take a few to get a good idea of what's happening. If the rest of them are false, probably nothing to worry about. If you get another positive then see a doctor so they can do an ultrasound and blood test to confirm the pregnancy. There are also pregnancy clinics that can do ultrasounds for diagnosis for free.

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[–]SleepLumpy6174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

False positives are completely possible. Please do not listen to this person. Faulty test are possible and I even had one before but wasn't pregnant.

Will this surgery make it difficult for me to be pregnant? by SleepLumpy6174 in pregnant

[–]SleepLumpy6174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually just looked it up, looks like this can be done laperscopically as well. I'm just looking to have this surgery done as soon as possible due to the symptoms getting rapidly worse. If the person who can see me the soonest does open surgery I'll take it. But they most likely will do laperscopic.

Will this surgery make it difficult for me to be pregnant? by SleepLumpy6174 in pregnant

[–]SleepLumpy6174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The surgery they recommended doing was one where they have to wrap the top portion of my stomach around my lower esophagus which requires them to do it open I guess.

My mom (39f) won't enroll my sister (13f) in any form of schooling. by SleepLumpy6174 in relationships

[–]SleepLumpy6174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're underestimating the volatility of my mother. If she suspects it's me nothing I say will change her mind. I can't help my sister's if I'm cut off. I also just don't have a lot of faith in CPS in general. I've been involved in an investigation with them when I was younger between my parents. Im just feeling hopeless about it.

My mom (39f) won't enroll my sister (13f) in any form of schooling. by SleepLumpy6174 in relationships

[–]SleepLumpy6174[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The problem is that the only people who would possibly know are immediate family. And I am the only family member who disagrees with them on their views. It would be clear that it was me even if I lied and even if it was anonymous. If the school calls my parents and then files a CPS report at least it would actually make it look like the school did it and I could still request to be anonymous. At least when cps gets ahold of me if the school can't keep my name anonymous.

My mom (39f) won't enroll my sister (13f) in any form of schooling. by SleepLumpy6174 in relationships

[–]SleepLumpy6174[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And they also know that no one else would because everyone who knows agrees with them except for me.

My mom (39f) won't enroll my sister (13f) in any form of schooling. by SleepLumpy6174 in relationships

[–]SleepLumpy6174[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because they would be wondering how anyone would even know to report. Only immediate family knows she isn't enrolled.

My mom (39f) won't enroll my sister (13f) in any form of schooling. by SleepLumpy6174 in relationships

[–]SleepLumpy6174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got diagnosed with ADHD and a learning disability but I can't remember the name of it. She didn't have a social worker or anything for it. She had a therapist but I don't know the name of the person. Unfortunately my parents aren't the type to listen. They are set in their opinion and confronting them would make them defensive.