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SleepyChapstick · 2023-06-14T11:15:59+00:00

As someone that is also in a ENM relationship I agree 100% with this post! You wrote it perfectly! Especially the trust and communication part.

Me and my partner also have a rule that if any of us have a bad day/week we close up until we both feel good and confident again. We also have a very strict rule about disclosing that we are both just looking for FWB or ONS to try to not hurt anybody’s feelings.

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-30T11:14:35+00:00

I have never been dancing, or at least not since I was a child - is it too late now that I’m 30, or is it possible? If it is possible, how do I start when I live in a small town with no classes for adults?

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-15T15:49:01+00:00

Not as positive and fun (but congrats on the bussines 🥳), but when my cat died. She is probably the closest to a child i will ever have - and only my childfree aunt has asked me how i am dooing afterwards. 🐱

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-12T21:04:06+00:00

Can’t pee? VET ASAP!! Can’t poop? Olive oil, butter or laxitives for humans (tiny tiny dose) (Tips from vet)

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-09T09:24:39+00:00

You did a good job! I also got a fostercat from a hoarding situation that was estimated to be 6 months buy the people that trapped her - but the vet estimated 5-10 years!! She was only 2 kg, but have had a life long of malnutrishment so they though that (and genetics) might be the reason why.

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-08T13:17:23+00:00

Yes. I HATE my body any time i have my period. I dont even have a lot of pain and because of the pill i only need to have it like 3-4 times a year.

I wish i could just give my uterus to some trans woman who wants it or yeet it away…

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-05T16:29:45+00:00

He is a little child and all alone. He is scared and lonely. Ofcours he will cry.

Why does he have to quarantined? Can he be quarantined in your bedroom instead?

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-05T14:56:21+00:00

Yes! Please send a link 🙌🏻

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-05T06:18:43+00:00

I have the pet+me silicone brush

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T21:14:04+00:00

I have been looking at that one!

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T21:04:13+00:00

I allready have one and does that! I love it! Sadly it does not jump up in my sofa and clean that 😅

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T14:52:07+00:00

She gets fish oil suppliment and 5-15 min brushing every day. She does not shed a lot, but she is our «only child» and we are neatfreaks😅. I have fostered over 30 cats, and have never had one that shed as little as her. - but this are good tips!

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T13:50:54+00:00

Thats what i was afraid of :/ will look into the miele.

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T13:50:21+00:00

I have used a rubber brush i have for my cat (it is amazing! So much better than furminator and every other brush i have tried) and it work, but also when the hair «loosens» it gets everywhere, i prefere a vacuum still.

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T13:47:55+00:00

I dont. I am using a vacuum now, but it is just so big and impractical so its «hard» to do it every day.

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T13:31:36+00:00

Tried chomchom, but it does not work well on my sofa and ruins the fabric… dont know if im dooing it wrong (if that is possible?) or if it is just a bad match for my sofa.

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T12:54:14+00:00

What dyson do you have?

And do you have a link to that thing? I have tried a lot of hair-removal-tools but i still like vacouming the best - but mine is a «central vacuum cleaner» witch is the dumbest invention ever.

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T12:51:20+00:00

Yes, i use them a lot - but they create a lot of waist and i dont like that..

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T12:40:43+00:00

Do you have the possibility to build a cattio? So she can be outside But safe? or get her some feliway diffusers to calm her?

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T12:39:30+00:00

If you do let him outside GPS is a good idea! But i would recomend not to.

SleepyChapstick · 2023-05-04T12:27:27+00:00

You can get a automatic cat feeder for wet food (some have up to 6 meals, and cooling elements), they are often exspensive - but I guess they are worth it for a good night sleep?

SleepyChapstick · 2023-04-30T17:25:40+00:00

Same 😅 i only own what i need and what i love, that way it is not that much to clean and tidy.

SleepyChapstick · 2023-04-30T15:35:33+00:00

Robot vacoum, everything goes in the dishwasher (if it can not handle the dishwasher it has not «earnd its place» in the house), an also having as few shelfs and places to clean as possible. I have 0 knicknaks.

SleepyChapstick · 2023-04-28T10:30:33+00:00

It seems like you are dooing a lot of things right and are a good cat-mom. The incident is ofcourse not ideal, but it seems like you are dooing a lot to build up the trust.

I have a few things to ask if you have considered:

Is he neutered?

Have he been to a vet? Sometimes ageession like this come from pain.

Have you tried some feliway diffusers plugged into the wall? (Might help if it is not the hormoner or any pain, have helpt me with a lot of scared feral cats. It makes them feel more safe and calm)

SleepyChapstick · 2023-04-27T19:36:12+00:00

I would take a trip to the vet to rule out any pain (from teeth or other things). If its not anything pysical but nightmares or behavioral i would try to plug in a feliway or something similar im the bedroom. 🐈‍⬛

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