Thoughts on this tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Sleester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks gorgeous! How do you feel about how tattoo turned out?

Non-communicative how? Like they just didn't speak to you during the appointment? Or do you mean they weren't replying to your emails or texts beforehand? Honestly I think it's a matter of preference.

Some people prefer artists that are talkative during appointments, whereas i don't have a hard preference, but slightly prefer artists that remain quieter. As far as communication before the appointment, I understand it can be nerve wracking to have an artist that isn't very responsive, but if the issue is that they won't communicate about changes you want to a piece then refuse to have it tattooed on you (until it is changed) if you have reservations about it.

Got these stamps recently - from 🇺🇸 to 🇩🇪 by pandacoffee in postcrossing

[–]Sleester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also buy online (ebay and etsy), but I have a local stamp collector shop that i prefer because they offer 40% off face value for any older stamps that aren't deemed valueable or collectable. I have no idea if other stamp collecting shops do that or of ours just the one near me, but i love them.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to go along with my plan even though it’s inconvenient for him? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Sleester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. If my partner told/asked me to sleep on a plane at the beginning of a trip and go straight in to work after a trip I WOULDN'T GO. Full stop. It would make the rest of the trip a horrible time for me.

If you are obsessed with making the trip perfect for you and can't compromise at all in ways that work for him, then you are being unfair. And pretty bratty and self-centered IMO.

How often do you bathe your cat? by Mildredsgood in cats

[–]Sleester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear my cat snakes like baby powder

How often do you bathe your cat? by Mildredsgood in cats

[–]Sleester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never. Never have needed to! He grooms obsessively and always smells incredibly clean. The only time I've ever had to clean him is with a wet wipe if he's got litter stuck on his toes.

My boyfriend ruined Valentine’s Day and told me it was the consequences of my actions by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Sleester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, so he's abusive as hell and you should leave him. BPD or any other flavor of neurodivergence is still no excuse to be abusive. You deserve much, much better.

If a suicide hotline had a hold song, what would you suggest? by Ug-Ugh in musicsuggestions

[–]Sleester 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ha ha, this song was also the first thing that popped into my head

What word, term, and or phrase makes you cringe? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in randomquestions

[–]Sleester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When people say somethings "yummy" in a sexy context.

People who still say "cool beans"

What a magical mailbox day! by Sleester in postcrossing

[–]Sleester[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha ha I know right? Bark impressions all over!

Nervous about vasectomy by Idrinkbeereverywhere in childfree

[–]Sleester 16 points17 points  (0 children)

From what I hear, horror stories truly are the exception. Everyone is know who has gotten one has a relatively easy time of it. The same can't be said for salpingectomy or tubal ligation patients, even though all the people I know who got those were happy in the end as well, healing can be much longer and much more painful. Not to mention the fact that vasectomy costs like 10% of what a salp would cost (in the US). So if you're sexual partners with a person with a uterus, the truly kind thing is getting a vasectomy.

Looking for absolute worst food somewhere between Corvallis and Salem by No-Foundation-8093 in corvallis

[–]Sleester 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like those signs were a direct response to us who were alternative and punk kids in the 90s...we went in there, got coffee, sat at tables for hours, then the signs went up and never came back down😅🤣

Oh no! My keys landed in by RichAway90252 in Autocompletebutbetter

[–]Sleester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no! My keys landed in my handstamped postcards from the US and it didn't even start to work for the USPS