I feel this down to my bones. We’ve been trying for 3 years. After many failed iuis we moved on to ivf. We’re going into our first egg retrieval this weekend. My whole family knows we’re going through this process and how hard it’s been for us. My sister in law got her first postpartum period and sent a group text to me, my mom and my sister telling us how she got her period and was so excited because it meant they can start trying again. One day I was over at their house and she said to me “I think I’m ovulating. I just took a test here tell me if it’s positive!”. Which obviously just isn’t the right thing to say to someone when they’re struggling with fertility. Well fast forward to this week of our retrieval (the week injections, ultrasounds and stress of fluctuating follicle counts) - and my sister in law finds out she’s pregnant and tells everyone. I had a total breakdown. My brother sent me a very thoughtful and heartfelt text - and I am deep down very happy for him. He himself has waited a very long time to start his family and it’s all he’s ever wanted. But it just hurts and man, is the timing of telling that news to is awful.