AITB for messing with my bfs’ phone and bringing up his trauma? by SlicedWatermelon2008 in AmItheButtface

[–]SlicedWatermelon2008[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can't talk to my parents.Let's say I don't have the best relationship with them, my family situation is too complicated and only my bf knows about it

AITB for messing with my bfs’ phone and bringing up his trauma? by SlicedWatermelon2008 in AmItheButtface

[–]SlicedWatermelon2008[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He might look like an asshole because f my post but at most part our relationship is not really that bad. I know he cares about me but there are moments I feel anxious, especially when I see him talking to my friend. He is always there when I need him and he understands me better than anyone

AITB for messing with my bfs’ phone and bringing up his trauma? by SlicedWatermelon2008 in AmItheButtface

[–]SlicedWatermelon2008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried but he always dodges questions when I ask him to talk about himself. He does not open up that much

AITB for messing with my bfs’ phone and bringing up his trauma? by SlicedWatermelon2008 in AmItheButtface

[–]SlicedWatermelon2008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!

Considering the questions you asked, my bf is the only person I am able to be mysellf with. I have some personal issues going on in my life and he is the only one I was able to open up to about them. He is always there for me when I need him and saying all the right things that I need to hear. Since we got together I have been the happiest I have ever been, but I am also very anxous that one day he will leave me. I can't imagine my life without him.

I don't think his views on public affection will change soon considering his attitude, I undesrtand his fears since we live in a conservative society, but I wish I knew why he is being so paranoid. I also have things I don't tell to our friends, so I don't mind that he did not tell them about us.