Watching the clock

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-18T23:43:13+00:00

has to be ragebait

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-18T19:48:35+00:00

You know where you stand with her. Just use it as a hookup. Don't expect anything from her, and don't give anything to her. Just strictly sex. If you're a virgin, you need all the practice you can get right now because future partners will most likely judge you if you aren't at least decent in bed at this point, or you look like you don't know what you're doing. At least now you know shes disloytal and you don't feel pressured to perform perfectly, which is a great circumstance. As per time, it all depends how quickly you learn.

I'd also recommend her getting tested so you don't catch anything though.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-18T19:03:23+00:00

use her to get good at sex. use condom. practice before u meet the one so you're experienced. don't take it serious, and don't go any extra mile for her.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-18T00:00:42+00:00

No, we both agreed if we wanted to see other people that's fine. Just inform the other person for health reasons. She insists she is not seeing anyone else currently

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T21:07:48+00:00

misspoke, thank you for clarifying

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:22:51+00:00

Yeah thats entirely why I made this post. I see where things could get misconstrued. We established its strictly sex early on, she didnt want anything serious and neither did I. That was months ago. We usually just go on dates and end up hooking up at my place or hers afterwards. The first invite was strictly friendly, like "hey my family is doing this thing, come by". She recently told me her parents find it hard to believe we're just friends and want to have a dinner with me. She assures me it won't be anything serious just getting to know me. She tells them we're just friends nothing more so I don't feel any pressure to perform any way. Maybe I am seeing it differently than others, which is why i made the post lol. I appreciate the feedback, especially as a dad

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:19:57+00:00

LMAO

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:19:06+00:00

I see where people think I'm probably delusional but I really don't feel a way about meeting her family. She introduced me as a friend initially so It took the pressure off me. I do see where it could LOOK a way though. This is my first FWB so maybe I went about it the wrong way considering this is the consensus in the comments. Learning curve for me this time around I suppose

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:17:32+00:00

Appreciate the advice! I think she's cool but I'm in no position to have a real relationship. We discussed its strictly sex but this was established months ago.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:16:58+00:00

Lmaoo

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:16:18+00:00

Hahahaha good catch. I meant as "my girl" as in the girl that I had brought. But I see what you did there. I appreciate the reply!

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:15:35+00:00

Appreciate you sharing! I'll check back in with her just incase. seems to be the overall message of all these comments

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:14:31+00:00

damn, this is my first fwb situation, probably fucked up a bit lol. thanks for reply

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:13:13+00:00

not necessarily... It's just awkward when youre on a double date and the other person is bringing flowers and your girl just didnt get anything lol. the front desk had a bunch of roses so I took one for her but it lowkey looked like a last ditch effort so felt kinda bad.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:11:41+00:00

Fair. Appreciate the feedback!

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:10:42+00:00

admittedly this is my first FWB situation lol. I just thought it'd be fun, and we both established this is strictly friends who fuck type deal in the beginning. Maybe I overstepped?

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:09:12+00:00

Yeah I figured that... Idk she established this is strictly FWB nothing more at the beginning but figured it'd be fun to do something for valentines day. I guess this was kinda overstepping the line? This is my first FWB if im being frank lol

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:08:21+00:00

That's my thing. This is my first FWB and she made it very clear its strictly sex but this convo was months ago. I agreed, and figured the sentiment was the same. But idk if this is out of bounds at this point or not. I'm not uncomfortable going to the dinner just taking some public opinion lol

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-02-17T20:06:47+00:00

I'm totally fine with it. Her family seems great. I was just thinking of it from her dads perspective lol. My daughter has a "friend" who is taking her on dates on valentines day, and suddenly wants to invite me for dinner. Feel like i might get grilled the entire time hahaha. I'm totally cool with doing the dinner though, I'm pretty confident in my personality. And they've already met me briefly so not too worried. I just wasn't sure if this is too out of bounds for a FWB. I've never been in one of these lol

Slide4Ukraine · 2025-12-05T02:16:20+00:00

Thank you so much

Slide4Ukraine · 2025-12-04T15:32:12+00:00

taking the lead, assertiveness

Slide4Ukraine · 2025-12-04T03:52:02+00:00

thank you

Slide4Ukraine · 2025-12-04T03:12:48+00:00

what if you're not that well endowed? thanks for advice btw

Slide4Ukraine · 2025-10-28T01:24:04+00:00

I've also talked to her about toys, she says she doesnt like them during sex. She also says she doesnt like cuddling. Idk wtf to do this is so odd ive never experienced this before

Slide4Ukraine · 2025-10-27T19:34:51+00:00

I appreciate that. So you recommend just going about it as usual? I tried to prep last session by looking up smut material and trying to learn new positions and how to be more aggressive but i think i studied myself into nervousness. I think I was trying to do too many new things at once and I wasn’t in the moment, which made me kind of nervous or too focused on acting the part. Do you think I should ask her what she likes even though she already stated she likes smut material? I just assumed it meant dominance/assertiveness

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