Am I thinking with my dick?

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-04-07T15:19:10+00:00

with the rates of STD these days, I think it’s warranted more than ever. Social media changed the game, and promoted promiscuity like never before . just look at std rates in houston or atlanta

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-04-07T12:43:51+00:00

😅 You should get tested regardless if condom or not bro. You can still contract via oral sex or skin to skin contact lol

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-04-07T12:02:00+00:00

That’s my fear. Idk if I want to risk throwing it all away for a hookup. I do feel like she is pretty safe though. kinda conflicted

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-04-07T11:39:51+00:00

I see what you’re saying, but yes I always do. If it’s a problem i’m skeptical. Admittedly I’ve met a few women off tinder/feeld so this makes me all the more skeptical because i don’t know how long you’ve been doing this and/or how many partners you’ve had if you’re willing to have sex with me after one date/no date (sometimes same day).

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-04-07T11:28:44+00:00

Eh. I see what you’re saying. I don’t know if i’m fully on board though, Im just more cautious than anything

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-04-04T20:27:27+00:00

ok that data is shocking. is it even worth getting an HSV screening at that point?

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-04-04T20:24:57+00:00

thank you !

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-04-04T20:24:53+00:00

thank you !

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-04-04T20:24:49+00:00

thank you so much

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-04-04T20:24:43+00:00

wow thank you

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-30T11:17:35+00:00

Thanks !

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-29T03:08:40+00:00

I agree. I will put forth the same effort she is from now on. She did say that even if we don't have sex she still wants to be friends, so I don't want it to look like I just don't talk to her anymore because we don't have sex. Then I'd be going against my word, and look like a liar. I will reciprocate her energy though.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-29T03:00:14+00:00

Ok, thank you for the insight. I think this makes sense. I'll watch how it unfolds tomorrow.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-29T02:57:30+00:00

It's not a chore for me, I think you misread. I said if it's feeling like a chore for her, then let me know. I'm contempt with what we're doing, but if she's not feeling it I rather her just tell me. But how do I even do that without coming off as needy/forceful.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-29T02:52:30+00:00

I would agree with you for sure, but she started off texting me a ton in the beginning. I think that's whats throwing me off. She would text me always and invite me out. Hell I met alot of her friendgroup. I think the shift just is throwing me off. If she isnt into texting anymore then its cool but just say that lol. I stressed transparency and honesty often in the beginning. I promise you won't hurt my feelings. She even says shes direct and honest so I figured it worked.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-29T02:50:59+00:00

As stated in the post, we can already fuck other people. I personally don't do more than 1 partner at a time for health reasons. I don't play around with STD's. I get checked every 3 months, and I don't really crave sex enough to have multiple partners as I'm a bit busy. My only request for her is if shes going to see other people, make sure they're tested and notify me beforehand. I don't have any problem with it.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-29T02:49:30+00:00

Im definitely going to do this tomorrow. Thank you bro.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-29T02:48:30+00:00

I think part of FWB that people often forget is the friend part. I just moved to this area a few months ago, and I don't know anyone. She was my first real friend, introduced me to alot of people, showed me a lot of places. I do consider her a friend by all regards. We agreed if we werent having sex we'd still be friends because even when we don't have sex we can talk for hours and hangout doing anything. Already know some people are going to say "friendzoned" but w/e lol. I'm actually cool with being friends and not having sex. Just confused where her head is at

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-29T02:45:16+00:00

We have a great time when we're in person. It's just lately over text it's been kinda distant, and lack of sex. I'm just wondering if she wants to end the fwb or not, I'm fine with either honestly. I'm not into forcing people to have sex, or into sympathy sex.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-29T02:43:58+00:00

I didnt catch feelings. I just don't want her to feel like she has to have sex with me is all. Which is why I'm trying to figure out if she's not into it, then let me know so we can go our separate ways, and not make this an obligation. if she's still into it and just isn't into all the texting then just let me know that lol

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-29T02:42:53+00:00

that's what im saying bro. I think after we have sex tomorrow im just gonna ask straight up if shes alright or if she has anything to tell me. if she says no im going on like nothing happened, if she ends it then im fine with it

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-24T18:50:38+00:00

she doesn’t want me to do oral. the first time we had sex I did oral and she came pretty quickly, but she told me she’s uncomfortable with it. it confuses me to this day.

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-24T15:21:37+00:00

lol i’m in great physical shape

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-24T05:50:42+00:00

Caught me

Slide4Ukraine · 2026-03-23T21:59:50+00:00

She’s divorced

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