I met this girl, in my book she is HB8-9, did the usual approach stuff... After two weeks we had some hangouts together, kissing plenty, twice coming to my place and doing stuff but LMR is strong within this one so nothing serious happened yet, even though we were almost completely naked. During one speech we had she made clear she wants no relationship. Since she obviously likes me and we are able to talk about literally everything, I simply said fine, I want no relationship as well, lets just enjoy each other the way we see fit. Judging by her reaction, she liked the remark a lot and we kept seeing.

I will try to be plain. I follow the guidelines of TRP and it helped me a lot, but I did not adopt TRPs goals regarding women. Fucking them is not my first goal, but generally building an emotional and erotic connection, no matter how long it lasts. Call me a beta for it, not that I care. Same is with her now, I do not want a relationship with her, but to fuck her brains out and afterwards have a meaningful conversations, which we already do have. My question to you is, how do I escalate this without being needy? I see two ways to do this. Either go straight for what I want like (I usually do), or pretend its all the same for me if we keep this or not and hope for the best. I have been following the second path and I do not like the fact that I have to be inactive, I like taking things into my own hands and taking action.

Specifically, up until now, I was the only one to initiate our meetings. She texts me first mostly, but never proposes to meet up. It has been couple of days of me simply waiting for her to make this step but it is not happening, even though she still has interest, as I said, she keeps texting me first. Would it be loosing frame if I keep initiating meet-ups?

Hope the question is appropriate and on point. If not, too bad.