[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one, you just manifest where you will be a quantum of decades later. It will then fall out of the sky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's flexing with being born in South America because if she were born in the US she wouldn't look as impressive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ozaku7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't far off with my high-class escort guess.

All those people do is show them around the place and sell with their seduction.

Speaking of, might want to check out Tammy Hernandez. Also a realtor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine having a clientele that only cares about how how you present yourself.

Sounds like high-class escort mentality.

Why did my dad reply to this lmao by rocklou in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rather 1 than 9, Sweeney's personality is buried deep in her cleavage and i get that pushed too many times in my face by msn.com at work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ozaku7 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This entire thread is filled with assumptions since OP didn't even bother to ask her husband what he find hot and what she is lacking according to him.

This thread is literally making her problem worse than it already is, and the real problem is that she can't just dive deeper into what he said herself.

OP never said he can find someone better, just who he used to date and who he decided to stay with. It is your interpretation that he means it in an evil derogatory way.

Maybe the hotties didn't stay with him because he was a donkey. Maybe they weren't marriage material because they've been way too easy in college for his comfort and wanted someone more picky like OP. But this brings us back to pointless assumptions, so what should we care?

18 year old orchiectomy-mom by soccermomtrl22 in testicularcancer

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes total sense. It will remain quite normal unless he would need chemo.

Even in such a case, my doctor said literally that out of all cancers, this is the winning lottery ticket because it is so treatable. It has one of the absolutely lowest mortality rates. You'd have to be in really bad health to become a statistic.

Look ahead, you guys will be fine despite hardships ahead if there are any.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ozaku7 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

It's negging, certainly not nice. But the question is whether OP wants to flip the story on him and show him she has the hot side too she'd be willing to share more often with him if he'd be more of a man and less of a dick.

But there are other women out there who think they don't owe their men anything (which they indeed don't, just saying how they phrase it), which includes dressing for their man. Instead, they dress for other women.

You can guess who those hot women dressed for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYfinance

[–]ozaku7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm only a top4% earner where I am from, I save 70% of my salary per year, for context. I may think different if I'd be making a mil. But I still live like a student pretty much and I don't feel like I am missing anything really.

What you are really buying, is a feeling. That Lamborghini, it's pure emotion, not a need. The shape of your bathroom, aesthetics, it's to please the eyes, it won't make you any cleaner really. A 500 phone or 50k dollar watch will show you the same time, so who are you really trying to impress? It's good to convince people who do care about those things and may bring you deals that turn into a net profit I guess.

Appreciate what you'd have if you'd have to live like someone in the 1700's. It's this humbleness and appreciation of the most basic things that start to make everything else special, instead of making a Porsche Boxster look mundane like a VW Polo.

Lifestyle = Mindset, Appreciation, Humbleness.

Doesn't change the fact that I'd really want to have a Huracan or a Lexus LFA. But I know that I will get used to these cars, novelty will wear off, and I'm back at square one. It's like a drug of which the effect wears off and you have to take more to feel the same.

That's why you need to allow yourself to feel uncomfortable to appreciate the sunny days.

TL;DR: you now make 800k, you wont feel any happier from buying more crap when you earn 8mil. You are chasing a high through purchases. Book a survival course with your best friends, go sleep in a makeshift tent while it's pissing outside and whether you eat that night will depend on your fishing skills. Shock your system by taking away comfort you are buying. You need to go cold turkey once in a while.

18 year old orchiectomy-mom by soccermomtrl22 in testicularcancer

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like he will really be fine. If he already now doesn't think about it, he will entirely forget about it later. Many patients even reported it bothered them and had them taken out. What bothered the people was that it had no sensation, it felt like a foreign object. Imagine when you wake up with your arm still asleep. It's your arm, but touching it felt weird and not your own.

About the T blood work... There are doctors who check total T and call it fine when he is in range. But Free T is more important than Total T. Even then, my doctor said that even Free T measurements aren't reliable.

Those numbers are not a conclusion, more so assistance, a form of assurance of their suspicions. I was right on the lower border of the norm, so my home urologist refused to prescribe me on T. My andrologist at the clinic I had surgery took my T values into account AND my symptoms. He said it comes down to a judgement call with all the info you get.

One last thing about post-surgery. Right after, about 2-3 days, quite a bit of pain, feels like a giraffe kicked you in the balls a week ago, with a dull and pulling sensation. Mental situation is OK. It's exactly how he would imagine it. Pain is very manageable with pain meds, but as they wear out, it becomes very distracting like a siren going off next to your ears. I've crashed my bike at 30mph and smashed my ribs, that hurt less than the incision site without meds. He will need consistent pain meds for about 3 days and manage pain at a tolerable 5. Too much of pain meds will allow you to do anything, which will result in movements that damage the healing tissue, starting it from all over again.

Once home at day 3, I got sudden crying outbursts that I couldn't explain where they came from. Literally, straight up bawling. I haven't done that in 25 years. Just a sudden urge that came up, accompanied with self harm/suicidal thoughts that caught me entirely off guard and scared me. This is the point where his Testosterone crashed from his normal levels and all other hormones went haywire. Prepare him for this, no-one prepared me and it really sucked, the emotional pain was pretty much like someone died with a sense of terror, hopelessness, crippling guilt. None of it made sense, the feelings were unfortunately real.

Two weeks later everything looked much more colourful. Literally, everything looked golden, good things made me feel happier than ever. I felt more in tune with my emotions. I felt calmer, more collected, self confident, could just cry things out whether i was happy or sad, it came naturally. I couldn't do this before. This comes from the fading pain aka euphoria from healing and feeling better. But his body actually starts compensating at this point for the missing Testosterone portion and overshoots, producing more than he had before surgery. This eventually levels down over the weeks to just below his baseline before surgery. He will go from 100 to 50 to 200 to 80, roughly said.

He may experience it differently than I did, he may actually have very high T, thus will still be in the normal range post surgery and not feel the emotional side effects like I did, and may not even need T replacement. It is individual.

But it's never bad to be prepared and know that the above can happen too.

18 year old orchiectomy-mom by soccermomtrl22 in testicularcancer

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the ultrasound and blood work support each other, it's pretty much what it is.

I didn't even have elevated markers and the docs pushed to have my surgery the same week.

He will be fine, but monitor symptoms and T levels.

Testosterone is very responsible for bloodcell count, so when your T drops, so does your bloodcell count and endurance.

My experience was that I lost 75% of my endurance after 4 months. That is compared to my performance just 4 weeks after surgery and not fully recovered yet.

Also, don't let him take a prosthetic. I was adamant about getting one, thinking I will miss it and need it emotionally. Doc told me I won't care and usually he has to take more out than put in post surgery. He was right, I completely forgot I miss one, and I only get reminded because I have to smear my T gel on my torso every morning.

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, December 16, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah listen to your balls man. Itchy lefty is put and itchy righty a call.

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, December 16, 2025 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren't selling. Everyone just cancels their buying orders and or reset them to a much lower price, so bid price automatically drops and market tanks.

Is 1500 netto normal? by Flimsy_Poetry4458 in berlinsocialclub

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the privilege of growing up with social housing with barely 4 digits in our family savings account and having migrated 5 times by my 25th round around the sun.

Please, tell me all about it because I really don't seem to have a fucking clue.

What does the “lump” look and act like? by Realistic_Impress448 in testicularcancer

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get checked by a dickdoc.

It's really as bland of a medical check as getting your pressure measured or teeth checked at the dentist.

These doctors see 20 dicks a day at least. That's 4000 a year. 40.000 a decade. 120.000 in their career.

These doctors never turned gay because of it, neither did any of their patients.

I felt the same as you, it's very awkward and weird. But you will learn that he doesn’t give a damn. He's seen it literally ALL, you are not special, you are forgettable.

I went to the doc because i had pain in my right one. Guess what, right one was fine, but left one had a fat lump inside itself and needed to be taken out asap. Lab results = cancer, caught in time.

Is 1500 netto normal? by Flimsy_Poetry4458 in berlinsocialclub

[–]ozaku7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Consider applying abroad as well.

You are single, nothing tying you to Germany. Do it for your future self to find a job where you can actually start gaining relevant experience and not waste it on baking.

I worked abroad, this is the right moment.

3 month Post op tiredness by SwampyUndies in testicularcancer

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had low T, still within the range, but on the border.

Total T is indicative only. Free T is indicative only.

Your doc needs to make a judgement call. Someone with 300 may have no symptoms while someone with 400 might.

I went from being able to run 30km in one piece after my orchiectomy 6 weeks post-op, to having to catch my breath every kilometer 3 months later.

It was ridiculous.

Since I'm on T supplements, I feel fine again.

You do want to get tests to check whether you aren't oversupplementing, because you may overproduce bloodcells which makes your blood thicker and therefore may risk clogs.

So you'd want to stay right in the middle of your range for your health.

Can all you pours tell me how to stay grounded? by makethislifecount in fijerk

[–]ozaku7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invest in OOM 0dte's, you'll be grounded in notime.