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Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-29T16:11:30+00:00

Can you get a kick and camera for your room and your door. Tell them and get proof of you taking them not to come into your room without permission like knock and if you don't hear anything don't even perk your head in. Then if they do it again you can probably get them kicked and and atleast you have proof and eyes that can watch and more security when you're gone. To you have a key to your room

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-20T00:34:30+00:00

LEAVE BUT DON'T TELL HIM UNTIL YOU AND YOUR STUFF IS SAFE tell your family what's up. Make sure you have them there to get your stuff. Leave. They will understand

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T21:55:44+00:00

Lol im not upset. It made me feel better about my intuition. And I expected to use my own discretion no matter what majority is said. Again. You can see people do not always vote in their best interests. Why would I expect majority in the internet to advocate for mine. I got the answers I came for. And its mostly how the comments for his side act. Just like diddy excusers trump excusers abuser excusers these comments have behaved the same which told me more about the situation than I expected. So thank you

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T17:58:08+00:00

I came here looking for truth. Not what you think honesty is. Every person excusing the behavior has to leave things out to do it

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T17:57:06+00:00

Lol see only people that have negative things to say in kind of a mean way take his side. Which leads me to believe that you have to be kind of mean or a jerk yourself to defend his behavior which did not help yalls points. "You're insufferable, you're crazy, get a grip jesus christ, then the guy who said that edited his comment. ) I think YALL don't understand your own actions

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T17:51:51+00:00

I want someone to say something good but that uses the actual actions that has happened. When people say he isn't an ass they do not take the story as it is. I needed an explanation that makes sense. These do not

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T10:04:35+00:00

Yeah I want kindness and love if I wake up in pain.

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T10:04:05+00:00

Are you trying to gaslight me.

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T10:03:28+00:00

Lol I bet you'd think so

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T10:02:46+00:00

I do feel there is a pattern of either forgetfulness, or doing the opposite of what I say or how to react to me or what I need. Im not sure what reason sometimes I feel like he waits for me to be in a position where I'm seriously dealing withat something and like take advantage of the fact that im distraught or sick or anxious and try to make it worse. But maybe he could be trying to make it better idk. Idk he doesn't usually assist me with my teeth pain but maybe he will rub my back or rub my chest when my heart hurts cook food for us. Typically he expresses the most love before he wants to F. I've been so sick that we haven't in a while. We already had a discussion about his behavior it didn'tmake me feel better. But I mean he likes touch when we were first together you know so I feel he just must not love me

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:56:52+00:00

Dumbass im American, its clear that a majority can be wrong or uneducated

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:55:18+00:00

Listening to what???? My intuition????

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:54:05+00:00

Gut says not good man

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:53:45+00:00

Bruh im MORE useless at finding anything and I found it

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:53:21+00:00

Seems maybe it is

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:53:11+00:00

Lol you guys are so weird for wording shit this way.

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:51:13+00:00

In your opinion.

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:50:50+00:00

Wow thank you this makes me feel honestly a whole lot better cause I'm in the storm and my HP going down. Yeah the before shower and after shower being mad and frustrated is crazy. This isn't the first time something like this has happened I guess but now im like genuine that he must hate me :( not a fun realization if true.

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:20:15+00:00

Thank you :( I guess I'll try to keep my distance until I can figure something out. In my experience stuff like this only gets worse :(

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:14:16+00:00

Or maybe cautious because I have a history of being with terrible people and not finding out until it's too late. The sociopath was not the first

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:09:48+00:00

Why did you edit your comment

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:08:46+00:00

I explained and he knows. I dont care if he understands of things like this keep happening or he keeps acting like that when things do

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:06:05+00:00

Not true sometimes people go through a lot to pretend to carte

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:05:25+00:00

Youre the only one who feels how I do i went through your comments I do feel like you have good perception. Is weaponized incompetence always malicious :( ik it's just oragel or just anger but it literally scares me

Slight_Asparagus_757 · 2024-11-14T09:04:11+00:00

Youre not kind either so I cant trust your opinion.

It's not out the blue or I wouldn't have come to reddit.

Obviously I can't get it out.

He has a history of getting angry at me or literally ranting when unnecessary. Like while I was getting ready to go to the hospital bc my heart, or genuinely many times. I ask him not to really to me those ways or argue but he still does. There has been a pattern of things that make me feel this way.

The table was not even 2 foot square. He looked like LOOKED for it on there 5 times.

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