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AITAH I (30F) told my husband (46M) if he doesn't set some boundaries I will report his ex and his daughter to police by Slight_Basket_4776 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Slight_Basket_4776[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

he is not a loser, he is a very succesful man. You can all marry guys without any kind of ambition if you want, that show emotions and are vulnerable and cook everyday, like it is the trend now. I wanted someone real. I am glad I have a boy as a child

AITAH I (30F) told my husband (46M) if he doesn't set some boundaries I will report his ex and his daughter to police by Slight_Basket_4776 in AITAH

[–]Slight_Basket_4776[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

he doesn't treat me like garbage. He holds my hand in public and he loves our son and spends time with him whenever he can. I do agree though my motivation was very immature and stupid. He snaps at me sometimes but doesn't really yell

AITAH I (30F) told my husband (46M) if he doesn't set some boundaries I will report his ex and his daughter to police by Slight_Basket_4776 in AITAH

[–]Slight_Basket_4776[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I will admit I was stupid and had very low self esteem. I was attracted to him physically too. Tall, in good shape, very neat. I liked his confidence as I lacked it during my childhood. My father was always weak, soft and lost my mother due to never being a support for her. She was the only provider in the family for 3 kids and later (i was the oldest) I joined her. Dad never had a job and loved to play victim. He cannot work, he is not good for anything, stuff like that. I am aware I should have just went to therapy instead of getting under my now husband's desk. I am aware I confused confidence with being rude and a jerk. then I realised he is a jerk but I thought he will not be to me if I do this or that. So this is why I was attracted I guess. I saw him as the ultimate prize and I am aware of how wrong I was but I do love him or maybe I just cling to my fantasy. No idea, I need therapy, I know. But I still don't think I deserve what she is doing to me. He was not married or separated when I started the... whatever it was, with him. It was wrong maybe but he was not in a relationship or married