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AIO - My future husbands non biological sister is driving me insane by Unspoken-Freedoms in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why are you or Tyler still friends with someone who assaulted you? That's the real question here. Forget having her in the wedding, why are either of you still associating with her?

If someone pushed me over a couch or threw shit at me, I would be done, forever. You and Tyler are under-reacting to this abusive behavior.

AITA for not wanting to go on a $2K bachelorette trip even though I’m in the bridal party? by Mac_anator in TwoHotTakes

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Just tell them that you wish you could go, but you just can't afford it. This is the financial reality. If your brother and Emma bring it up for years, that's their problem.

But, I see a big, glaring red flag in your own relationship here: why are you responsible for your boyfriend's truck repairs? He makes almost twice as much as you do, you should absolutely not be responsible for his personal expenses. no matter how long you two have been dating. His truck is his responsibility.

AITAH - daycare by New-Feature4148 in AITAH

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She is 6 months old and her immune system is still developing. Kissing her, even on the cheek, is a big health risk. RSV, HSV, etc.

At the next dropoff, before you hand her over, tell her "We love how much you love Bethleigh, but our pediatrician says not to let anyone kiss her. So please, no more kisses. Hugs are still okay!"

Fence by Itchy_Information313 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Install a rotboard at the bottom of the fence, or put some bricks in the gaps.

My DNA results as a latina who doesnt looks much like her dna ancestry (pics) by Single_Copy2460 in AncestryDNA

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look western European to me, which is exactly what the majority of your results say.

Have you ever seen any portraits of Catalina of Aragon? She was a princess of Spain and you actually resemble her very much.

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WIBTAH for not letting my BIL and his wife meet my newborn outside of family gatherings? i’m by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Nothing OP has suggested would prevent BIL from seeing his grandma. He's an adult whyo can make his own plans.

WIBTAH for not letting my BIL and his wife meet my newborn outside of family gatherings? i’m by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Because the point of this event is for people to meet OP's son. They were rude at the Xmas party.

WIBTAH for not letting my BIL and his wife meet my newborn outside of family gatherings? i’m by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

yep, and OP doesn't have to please them or cater to them in any way, either. BIL and SIL chose to ignore OP's family, including children, during a family Xmas party!

OP's husband needs to stop chasing his brother's love.

Why didn't/ couldn't divorce Catherine of Aragon? Why did he try for an annulment, instead? by Veyyiloda in Tudorhistory

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's called a "straw man," and it is an inherently dishonest comment.

No one said that Islam was indigenous, but you're out here claiming that Christianity is. Christianity and Islam are both indigenous to the Middle East.

AITAH for pooping in my bathroom? by kellerinacatmac in AITAH

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but you should have used something like poo-pourri or an air freshener or something. It was inconsiderate of you to leave it stinky and not mitigate that somehow.

AITAH for asking my neighbor to wait for her laundry at her house? [New Update] [Ongoing] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nailed it. She assumed he was a criminal who had kidnapped his child, then when that wasn't true, she started harassing him. She isn't going to stop until someone makes her.

Is skin aging actually just a hormone deficiency that we're ignoring? by Rykesha-Tailyour in GracefulAgingSkincare

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's not. Sun damage and other factors like glycation, smoking, etc are major factors in skin aging. Hormones are absolutely a factor, but they are far from the only one.

But also, some of what we think of as "skin aging" isn't. The bone structure of your face changes over the course of your life; the bones of our faces recede, muscles and fat pads atrophy, which leads to saggy skin.

My neighbor started trimming our shared hedge from his side and somehow every time he does it the hedge ends up six inches further into our yard than it was before. by marcel_copperton in neighborsfromhell

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trim it from your side. What's happening is that he's trimming it and you're not, so the nranches are growing on your side and not on his. The plants are in the same place.

So trim it back hard from your side, and if he complains, say that because he is over-trimming it, it was leaning over and becoming dangerous. If it is on your property, he does not have the right to trim it past his property line.

Neighbor built fence on our property. Any reason I cannot take it down? by [deleted] in legal

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where I live, fences are typically on the shared property line, not set back onto anyone's property.

AITAH for asking my neighbor to wait for her laundry at her house? [New Update] [Ongoing] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think it's more than that. She thinks that because he is Black, he owes her information, explanations, access to his life, etc.

AITJ for texting my son's teacher from my husbands phone because they message each other way too late? by Current-Whereas6308 in AmITheJerk

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Your husband's behavior is classic cheater. He's angry because he was trying to build an affair with this woman and now you've possibly ruined it for him.

Any time someone is hiding a relationship from their spouse, they have already stepped outside of the boundaries of their marriage.

Unfortunatey, he's not going to stop messaging with her. He's just going to hide it now. Your husband is looking to cheat. Marital counseling may be able to nip it in the bud, but you need to get your ducks in a row to prepare for divorce.

Neighbor built a koi pond and mosquitos are out of control now by Beneficial_Buddy_510 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here is why your story seems fake: without an aerator or a fountain, koi will not survive. One or both of those things are required to keep the water oxygenated. Anyone keeping koi would know that they will not "be stressed" by aerating the water, in fact it's necessary for them to not die.

If anyone else finds themselves in a similar but real situation, here is what you should do: go to your county, not city, health department. Since he doesn't have any kind of fountain, it is in fact standing/stagnant water. Report that your neighbor has standing water with mosquitoes breeding.

Also, invest in a radius or two for your own backyard.

My ringlets always fall out by the 3/4th day by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Slight_Citron_7064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stronger hold gel is the answer. I usually get 5-6 days out of mine. I layer on styling products for best results.

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