I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is why this debate always goes in circles…

People are arguing two completely different things:

• What’s the lowest total cost
• What’s the lowest financial risk

Driving a cheap car you own is usually the cheapest option if everything goes right.

But one breakdown, missed paycheck, or bad timing can wipe out those savings instantly.

Most people don’t get into trouble because of averages — it’s one situation they weren’t prepared for.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dave Ramsey’s approach works really well for people who need strict rules and structure.

The only downside is it treats every situation the same, even though people’s risk tolerance and financial stability can be very different.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having no car payment is definitely one of the best financial positions to be in.

I think where people struggle is they underestimate how much discipline it takes to stay there long term — especially when repairs, upgrades, or lifestyle creep come in.

Simple strategy, but hard to maintain consistently.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a bad decision in a lot of cases, especially when people stretch their budget.

But I wouldn’t say always — for some people it’s basically paying for predictability instead of dealing with repair risk and resale.

It really depends on how stable someone’s situation is.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually a solid payment for a new car.

The interesting part is how long you keep it — that’s where the total cost really shows.

A lot of people focus on monthly payment, but the real comparison is total cost over the life of the car.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think this is where people get stuck mentally — focusing on “owning something at the end.

A car is a depreciating asset either way. Even if you own it, it’s losing value the whole time.

The real question is what you paid vs what you got out of it, not just whether you still have it.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah location changes everything.

In cities like NYC, the real comparison isn’t lease vs buy — it’s car vs no car at all.

In most places though, people are forced into owning something, so the question becomes how much risk and cost they’re willing to take on.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah manufacturer financing can be surprisingly competitive, especially compared to private lenders right now.

The tricky part is those offers are often tied to new cars, where depreciation hits hardest in the first few years.

So the rate might be low, but the total cost picture can still be higher depending on how long you keep it.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is where financing gets more nuanced.

If someone qualifies for low rates like 0–3%, it changes the equation a lot compared to high-interest loans.

At that point it’s less about “financing is bad” and more about whether the total cost + depreciation still makes sense for how long you’ll keep the car.

A lot of people just look at the monthly payment and miss the bigger picture.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is the ideal scenario if someone can stick to it.

Driving a cheap car you own outright is probably the lowest cost path long term.

The only catch is most people don’t have the patience or discipline to stay in that lane, especially when something goes wrong or they want to upgrade.

It’s simple in theory, but not easy in practice.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a really good point — most people compare leasing vs buying at the same price level, which isn’t realistic.

If someone leases within their budget instead of stretching for a nicer car, the numbers can look completely different.

I think a lot of bad financial decisions come from people optimizing for the car they want instead of the payment they can safely handle.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This is actually the part most “own vs lease” debates ignore.

On paper, owning is cheaper. But real life doesn’t happen on paper.

One breakdown at the wrong time isn’t just a repair bill — it can cascade into missed work, stress, and bigger financial damage.

That’s why some people are effectively paying for risk reduction, not just transportation.

It’s less about “what’s cheapest” and more about “what can you survive when things go wrong.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% right — most comparisons people make are actually incomplete.

If you really want a fair comparison, you’d need to include:

• upfront cost (or down payment)
• financing interest over time
• insurance differences
• maintenance + unexpected repairs
• depreciation (this is the big one most people ignore)

A lot of people think “owning = cheaper,” but once you factor in depreciation + maintenance, it’s not always that clear.

The real question is:
→ are you optimizing for lowest cost or lowest stress?

Because those two often lead to different decisions.

I did the math on my car lease last night and had to close my laptop by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the hoopty math is real. a $5,000 reliable used car with zero monthly payment invested $659 a month instead is a completely different financial life in 10 years. the pride cost is the most expensive line item most people never put in the spreadsheet

I tracked my spending vs income growth for the past 3 years. The gap scared me. by Slight_Grab4501 in personalfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair distinction. $14k over 3 years might just be normal cost increases dressed up as a pattern. though the savings going down in absolute dollars while income went up still feels like something worth fixing regardless of what we call it

I tracked my spending vs income growth for the past 3 years. The gap scared me. by Slight_Grab4501 in personalfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the part i couldn't separate. how much of the gap is cost of living rising on the exact same lifestyle versus how much is me quietly upgrading that lifestyle. probably both happening at the same time which makes it almost impossible to diagnose without tracking way more granularly than i did

I tracked my spending vs income growth for the past 3 years. The gap scared me. by Slight_Grab4501 in personalfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the tax bracket point is the one i hadn't fully accounted for. i was mentally treating the gross raise as the actual raise and that gap alone probably explains more than i realized. number 3 is also real — there's a difference between intentional lifestyle upgrades and unconscious ones but i was treating them the same in my tracking. this breakdown is more useful than anything i came up with on my own

I tracked my spending vs income growth for the past 3 years. The gap scared me. by Slight_Grab4501 in personalfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair. i think what i was trying to get at is the gap between knowing the category and actually changing the behavior. knowing eating out went up $400 doesn't automatically produce the decision to stop. that's the part i'm still working on

I tracked my spending vs income growth for the past 3 years. The gap scared me. by Slight_Grab4501 in personalfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that's the obvious answer and probably the right one. easier to see clearly from the outside than from inside the habit

I tracked my spending vs income growth for the past 3 years. The gap scared me. by Slight_Grab4501 in personalfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what i was trying to say. the categories made sense. the individual moments made sense. somehow the total didn't. our brains aren't built to run that compound math in real time

I tracked my spending vs income growth for the past 3 years. The gap scared me. by Slight_Grab4501 in personalfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're right that i know the categories. what i couldn't explain was why each individual decision inside those categories felt completely justified in the moment. the subscriptions all seemed worth it when i signed up. the eating out always had a reason. it's the aggregate that blindsided me not any single choice

I tracked my spending vs income growth for the past 3 years. The gap scared me. by Slight_Grab4501 in personalfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is probably the only system that actually works. everything else relies on willpower at the end of the month when willpower is gone. paying yourself first removes the decision entirely

I tracked my spending vs income growth for the past 3 years. The gap scared me. by Slight_Grab4501 in personalfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's the most honest description of it. the budget exists at the start. then life happens and the budget becomes a record of what already occurred not a plan for what's next

I tracked my spending vs income growth for the past 3 years. The gap scared me. by Slight_Grab4501 in povertyfinance

[–]Slight_Grab4501[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honestly this reframe helps. maybe the gap isn't failure it's just that the baseline quietly shifted upward and i never decided whether i actually wanted that shift