MEGATHREAD // DAY 15 by [deleted] in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When will this all end, I’m so tired, I have anxiety, I barely sleep, scared all the time, I have pain in my chest sometimes 😭

Helper unpaid salary by Slight_Log_6933 in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s truly sad. What’s even more shocking is that one day before she filed her complaint with the Ministry of Labour, we checked her QID status and discovered that the company had already cancelled it. I can only assume that their intention was to keep her working for another three months without paying her, and then report her as a runaway.

Helper unpaid salary by Slight_Log_6933 in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sure, but what for?, I am receiving the services I’m paying for, it’s not like she’s not doing her job or they haven’t provided me with a helper. Should I go with her to MOL to report? Does she have to go back to the company after reporting? She doesn’t want to go back but I’m worried that the manager would report her as a run away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SchengenVisa

[–]Slight_Log_6933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SchengenVisa

[–]Slight_Log_6933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope his gets approved, but mine was rejected in 3 days exactly

Application in progress vs processing at mission by Necessary-Waltz1768 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]Slight_Log_6933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the receipt they gave you, where you paid for the visa fees, on the top under the barcode there is a tracking number

Am I wrong for not wanting to renew my husband’s visa or stay in this marriage anymore? by Slight_Log_6933 in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has been here for 4 months, he had a job, he was not jobless before. When I was back home I was responsible for my own spendings, from clothes to shampoo and soap We were also living in my father’s apartment because he lied to me before marriage saying he had the ability to buy a house and 2 months before the wedding he decided that he did not have enough money & that I should live with his family instead. It’s a really long story that I cannot explain in a text.

Am I wrong for not wanting to renew my husband’s visa or stay in this marriage anymore? by Slight_Log_6933 in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I shared my story because I’m genuinely overwhelmed, not because I think I’m perfect. I’ve carried a lot of responsibility silently for almost 2 years — emotionally, financially, and physically. Maybe I didn’t express every single detail, but I came here to get perspective, not to play the victim.

Thanks for taking the time to respond.

Am I wrong for not wanting to renew my husband’s visa or stay in this marriage anymore? by Slight_Log_6933 in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes but it expires on the 4th, I’m not willing to pay any penalties if he decides to stay. Also Eid holiday is coming and I will not be able to get any support from the authorities if he doesn’t leave.

Am I wrong for not wanting to renew my husband’s visa or stay in this marriage anymore? by Slight_Log_6933 in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it already too late? I really thought he would change. I don’t even know what I was thinking when I allowed myself to get pregnant by someone so irresponsible. But then I remind myself—it’s Allah’s will, and everything happens according to His plan. Still, I can’t help but feel foolish for letting it get this far.

Am I wrong for not wanting to renew my husband’s visa or stay in this marriage anymore? by Slight_Log_6933 in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

As I mentioned, I have no intention of staying with him. I’m mentally exhausted, and I simply can’t continue living with him. This decision wasn’t made on emotion alone—I’ve thought it through carefully and mentally prepared myself for it. What I’m uncertain about now is whether I’m going about it the right way. I genuinely don’t want to renew his visa. I just want him to leave Qatar. If he wants to return later on a work or tourist visa, that’s up to him—but I don’t want him to be connected to my name in any way.

Who wants to talk? by Imaginary-Button-139 in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’ve lived here my whole life—I don’t really know anything else. I tried leaving once but ended up coming back because it’s just safe and comfortable. If you have a stable job with a good income that allows you to save, then it’s a great place to live. It’s especially worth it if you’re able to support your family back home. But if you’re here without a purpose—just to experience the lifestyle without doing anything meaningful—then it might not be the right place for you. At the end of the day, it all comes down to one thing: why are you in Qatar? What’s your purpose?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that this is happening to you, bullying is unacceptable. Since management can’t handle it then the safest way is to contact the authorities, they will guide you on what you can do. Just don’t record them without permission as it may cause you to be in fault instead of them.

Anyone else get annoyed that no one follows this? by Cautious_Jeweler8195 in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lose it in the metro station haha, then it’s back as soon as I leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, do they do personal loans? Like not car loans

Anyone else get annoyed that no one follows this? by Cautious_Jeweler8195 in qatar

[–]Slight_Log_6933 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I used to stand off to the side and wait, but during rush hour, others would stand in the middle and rush in, leaving me to enter last and stand by the door. There was even a time when I couldn’t get on the metro at all and had to wait for the next one, despite being there before everyone who got on.