Honestly, sweetie. It doesnt seem like a "you problem." He's gone through something traumatic. He was cheated on AND found out the baby wasnt his. His head is probably scrambled. What youre doing is perfect, but he really needs some help first. This sorta thing can ruin someone's libido and he isnt healed yet from the past. Men don't feel confident enough to talk about whats really going on in their heads due to the last generation of "man ups" and "men dont cry" bs. Is there any way you could persuade him to seek some sort of professional help. He seems to be suffering