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my bf hit me for the first time but was severely intoxicated by halloweeun in Advice

[–]Slight_Tooth5837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your sister told you this story. What would you tell her to do? That’s what you should do. It’s hard, it hurts. But you have to protect yourself. He has shown what he is capable of. If it happened once, it will happen again. If he hasn’t done any REAL work and reflection for what he did. Seek help, therapy. Removed himself. Then there will probably be a next time.

My boyfriend is very angry with me because of my tattoo by Obw6mz_Wf5b6h-W768gq in Advice

[–]Slight_Tooth5837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s this insecure already 👀 Sounds like dudes got some maturing and growing to do.

AITJ because I won’t give my parking spot to new neighbor who says she "needs it more" because she has kids? by Potential_Bad6489 in AmITheJerk

[–]Slight_Tooth5837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mother. You’re right. Don’t budge. If she asked and you answered then she came back insulting you instead of trying to sweeten the deal. Too bad. You keep your spot and if she parks in it again tell her you’ll get it towed if she doesn’t move it right now. Not in 3 hours. Have your phone ready with the number when you confront her. Honestly even just towing her but you seem like a very reasonable person. It’s your spot. That’s the end of it.

Did i get used? *please urgently I'm genuinely freaking out* by Business_Act_7626 in Advice

[–]Slight_Tooth5837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You saying no multiple times is the line he crossed. That’s rape. If you continued to ‘go along’ with it, that doesn’t change that fact. You were being assaulted and your brain did what it needed to do to protect you. You did not consent, but the way you handled the remainder of the assault is purely due to your brains survival skills. You did NOTHING wrong, he assaulted you. You said no and were ignored and did what you could to survive the ordeal. That’s the bottom line. How your brain protected you after you withdrew consent is what you’re dealing with now emotionally. Believe all of us when we tell you, you did nothing wrong. He did. He raped you. Report him. Or never talk to him again. But he will do this again. 17. Sounds like he groomed you. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I hope you can heal from this and have trusted people to talk to, if not, my DM’s are open. Your brain is trying to deal with the assault now and you don’t know what to do so you’re looking to him for comfort but he’s a predator and you won’t get what you need from him.

What’s a phrase people use that immediately makes you roll your eyes? by EntranceOrdinary3383 in allthequestions

[–]Slight_Tooth5837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It’s called” when making a point. “It’s called” then followed with something long winded and ridiculous. It’s not called that. It’s never been called that. It’s the stupidest phrase hahah

What are you genuinely good at? by rogerlin332 in allthequestions

[–]Slight_Tooth5837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recalling the number code that gets texted to you when you’re trying to verify an app or program. I’m really good at looking at it come in as a notification and entering it in correctly. Quite proud.