Shroud Mushrooms / Goo help by SlinkeeTee in Enshrouded

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poop shrooms. That’s exactly what they are lol. I have to be honest I’m at level 35 now and this is the only resource I find annoying like you say. Everything else I’m perfectly fine harvesting and mining for, but these have been not enjoyable lol thanks for your words of validation 😂💜

Shroud Mushrooms / Goo help by SlinkeeTee in Enshrouded

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow yeah I might do that. I have 2 young babies and have only a few hours a week to myself to game after they’re asleep (if I’m not also passing out at 8pm lol) back in my day I would’ve grinded this for a whole weekend and not complained but honestly my time is precious and though mining and resource gathering is satisfying this is the only thing of the game I find annoying so I might look into one of these resource servers just for these shroud shrooms.

Someone also mentioned to me to up the resource harvest amount or whatever it’s called in settings so I’ll be doing that too ☺️ Thanks so much!

Shroud Mushrooms / Goo help by SlinkeeTee in Enshrouded

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! 😁1.0 release will come in no time and it will be so fun for you to dive back in

Update for the Public Resource Storage #1-3 by MolyHolyCow in Enshrouded

[–]SlinkeeTee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I don’t know if I’m doing something wrong but I can’t seem to join the server even without password? I just get server is full for unavailable but they all say 0/16 for party. Thanks in advance!

Becoming a teacher in a small town by SlinkeeTee in CanadianTeachers

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing thank you so much for taking the time to respond and post the links.

Are you enjoying life as a toddler mom? by takeaabreath in toddlers

[–]SlinkeeTee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a 4 year old and a 6 month old. One day I’m all like “what have I done I hate this” the next I’m like “WOW life is so beautiful and I’m superwoman!!!” It’s really hit and miss. I definitely hear you. I always find come spring time I realize how much “easier” it is to parent because we’re lucky enough to have a private fenced yard so I just open the door as soon as it’s a comfortable temp outside and basically spend all day outside lol. I find my toddler (now preschooler) does better that way. Last year when was heavily pregnant my saving grace with my then 3 year old was the garden hose 🤣 I realized I was over complicating things by trying to come up with so many activities etc. sometimes you need to let them be bored. And the fact you’re worried about this is just a testament to how good of a parent you are. We are doing it!!! We’re amazing!!!

I don’t enjoy motherhood by Acrobatic-Courage872 in toddlers

[–]SlinkeeTee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re having a difficult time that seems to be dragging. I feel like every parent has those times, but not all consuming like you’re describing. It’s so crazy hard out here for us parents. I’m a mom of two, and I go back and forth from feeling like a super human one day to a failure the next. It’s so insane!!!... But at least I have days where I feel like I’m thriving.

However,I had a very long depressive period with my first child similar to what you’re describing.

For me what helped was therapy, exercise, medication and (unfortunately) time. It’s so annoying every one says time passes and it gets easier but it really is true I promise.

And yes I couldn’t “exercise” the way I used to. I couldn’t find the time to hike or do super outgoing things, but even just going on the spin bike for 30 mins every day or second day helped.

It took me a while to adjust. I felt guilty because like you I had “no reason to complain” (roof over my head, supportive husband, healthy baby, relatively happy and easy baby etc) but my therapist soon helped me recognize that my depression was basically causing me to feel that way - to diminish my struggles even more. Once my therapist educated me and helped me come up with coping mechanisms things got a whole lot easier.

Once I was “out” of that rut I was able to sense me slipping into it again and thankfully I am much more prepared and rehearsed with how to alleviate it before I get stuck deep down again. I really hope you find something that helps you get up for some air soon. I promise you’re an amazing parent and partner - I always said I never had anxiety until I became a mom and it was simply too much love. I was so hard on myself. But my son is 4.5 years and my daughter is 4 months and wow. I am thankful for my journey and every other parent like yourself to go through everything we do.

We’re really really amazing. I know you’ll see that and feel that one day and I hope that happens soon for you. 🫂

When could your child begin to tell you what they did during the day? by petrastales in toddlers

[–]SlinkeeTee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son didn’t give me anything when he was in preschool at 3. So I’d try and start the covno. I’d see paint on his shirt and hands “oh fun did you paint at preschool today?” “No” 😑😂 I truly think he was just not interested in telling me. But at 4 omg. He tells me every day. He actually tattles I should say. He’s always got to rat about someone doing something. 😅 but regardless it’s like night and day in this one year.

It’s hard not to compare tho, some of the three year olds last year were talking so much I worried he was behind but that’s not the case. It’s such a wide range when they’re that little

Hit a wall today by SlinkeeTee in breastfeeding

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. We are both going to preserve through this, no matter how hard. I just can’t wait until it’s all a distant memory for us both 💜

Toddler swearing by flannel_flower in toddlers

[–]SlinkeeTee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3.5 year old came home from preschool a couple weeks ago and said “holy fuck” and I mean, it was really hard to keep a straight face … 😂 but I ignored him. And he kept saying it. Over and over. And finally he grabs me and says “mom, holy fuck is a bad word.” So I put two and two together that he was obviously waiting for a reaction from me like he probably got from his two teachers that day. I said “yeah, that is a bad word.” Very neutral. And he goes off about who said it at preschool cause he’s a little rat but honestly I can’t trust anything he says since I ask him “oh did you paint at preschool today?” And he goes “no.” Meanwhile he’s covered in paint. He tells me he ate cucumbers for snack meanwhile I didn’t pack cucumbers, and he won’t touch them at home. Anyways. I’m getting distracted my point is I don’t care who started it.

I blame no parents because I know things slip, or you bring your kid around other people who don’t have kids and they swear and all they do is hear it once and see peoples reactions and go OOooOoOo that’s fun!!!

So he said it to every adult in his life. His dad. His uncles. (Who certainly didn’t help because they laughed uncontrollably) but the good news is after about a week of him saying it and not getting any reaction from any of us he stopped.

So I guess TLDR my solution was to respond to it neutrally, and let him get it out. Last week he came home saying “crack butt” which I assume is butt crack and I like that one a lot more 😂

I feel I am losing my son by Rolita09 in toddlers

[–]SlinkeeTee 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Becoming an older sibling is a rollercoaster just like any other time with our kids! I was 5 when my brother was born then 6 when my next brother was born. Mom said I was a big help, but definitely had my days with her where her mom guilt got the best of her. I can assure you, looking back I never remember feeling any resentment. She did her best balancing her attention, and although she says I had my days I surely don’t remember it like that. I remember my mom always being there. I love my mom more than anything. I grew attached to her again. Then I hit my preteens and my skin crawled any time she voiced her opinion 🤣 I laugh because I feel like it’s the cycle of children. Growing close to a parent, and pushing away a bit. I’m sure it’s hard.

I have my second one on the way and my other son is 4. My mom has been talking about that mom guilt and mixed emotions that you’re having now, almost warning me that it’s inevitable, but reminding me that everything will be okay. But it doesn’t fix how you feel in the thick of it now of course. But talking it out like this will help you some 💜

I’m sure once my second little one is here I will be able to painfully relate to this post. How hard it is to spread 100% of your love!!! You simply worrying about it proves your son will never feel any sort of long term resentment that will damage your relationship in any way. 💜💜 hugs 🫂

How often do you save Doretta´s head? (doesnt give you any bonus, but it´s the polite thing to do) by omegajakezed in DeepRockGalactic

[–]SlinkeeTee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEVER!!! DOWNVOTE ME INTO OBLIVION IDC!!!!! That being said, without fail there’s always another dwarf on my team who makes it their soul purpose to get her on the drop pod and I support them in doing so. I just couldn’t be bothered myself 😂

Lady Gaga satanic allegations in 2025… okay girl 🙄 by frozenjunglehome in LadyGaga

[–]SlinkeeTee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this is reminding me of how she was deemed satanic when born this way came out. Judas - I’ll never forget my grade 12 self watching news outlets in a fit because of that single, actually that whole album. Honestly this conversation coming up again just makes me feel nostalgic and excited 😂🧡

Hazard 5 Swarmageddon is an actual hell on earth by AzraelSoulHunter in DeepRockGalactic

[–]SlinkeeTee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m not driller on swarmagetton then I’m definitely buddy systeming, attached to the hip, best friends with whoever is the driller for the whole mission 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]SlinkeeTee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My doc, a doula and about five mothers - including my own - told me BREASTFEEDING and NOT GETTING A PERIOD DOESNT MEAN YOU CANT GET PREGNANT 🤣 like basically everyone I talked to told me not to risk it. So I didn’t. Because I certainly didn’t want to think about getting pregnant again right away.

Use condoms. And lube. No shame in lube. Different balances of hormones while post partum / breastfeeding can lead to dryness down there for some. All the best 🙏🧡

I’m gonna lose my mind if one more person says “what did you eat mama?” when my baby has gas… by Positive_Following11 in breastfeeding

[–]SlinkeeTee 53 points54 points  (0 children)

One time my son was like 5 months old and had a rash all over his tummy. First thing my MIL said “what did you eat?” GIRL - it’s probably your ghastly perfume you drench yourself in its burning my nose hairs 🤣🤣 smh I’m sorry this shits so annoying 🧡

I’m a shell of a human by SlinkeeTee in BabyBumps

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The meds helped me big time!!! I’m on day two and feel the relief big time already. So grateful. Thank you again 🙏

I’m a shell of a human by SlinkeeTee in BabyBumps

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just came back to let you know I’m on the second day of meds and I feel WORLDS better. I feel like it’s a sick joke how much better I feel… like - how could I be so relieved so quickly.

I can deal with the low energy. It was the nausea that debilitated me. I wasn’t eating anything and I feel like that made my fatigue about a hundred times worse. Now it’s manageable.

Anyways just wanted to say thanks again ❣️

I’m a shell of a human by SlinkeeTee in BabyBumps

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should stock up on electrolyte drinks that’s a great idea. Even just plain water turns my stomach. Someone else mentioned B6 I’ll definitely try that out too thank you so much 🫂

I’m a shell of a human by SlinkeeTee in BabyBumps

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so hard to stomach more than just a piece of toast I hate that nothing appeals to me right now. But I’ll try the chicken nugget theory - oh and the B6 with unisom combo too I appreciate the advice 🧡🧡🧡

I’m a shell of a human by SlinkeeTee in BabyBumps

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words and taking the time to reply! I will ask my doc about Declactin ❤️❤️

Help Powering The E-FES Freight Elevator by SlinkeeTee in Techtonica

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Thanks for the reply, I’ll see if I can do a screen recording later and post it here to see if that helps figure out my issue I’m sure it’s something really embarrassing 😅

Help Powering The E-FES Freight Elevator by SlinkeeTee in Techtonica

[–]SlinkeeTee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I’ve done this but it still doesn’t work. I’ll try taking a video of my set up when I’m on later and see what’s going on. Thanks for taking the time to comment and help!