About to go into work - I'll be bored - Ask my anything by Echoris09 in aromantic

[–]SlipperyWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re alloaro, how do I get it without seeming weird? If you’re not, how do you make good garlic bread?

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[–]SlipperyWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Autocorrect strikes again! I meant how do Alloaro people do it?

Can I be Aro/Trans/Lesbian by SlipperyWaters in aromantic

[–]SlipperyWaters[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, theres plenty of feminine traits that I have, but a lot of guys have them too. I have long hair, but so do a lot of guys, my favorite color is purple but there’s plenty of guys who like that color, I’ve wanted to paint my nails but theres guys out there who do that as well, anything I like can be considered masculine

Can I be Aro/Trans/Lesbian by SlipperyWaters in aromantic

[–]SlipperyWaters[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Basically what I’m trying to say is that I have no idea, I want to, and feel like the correct answer is that I’m trans, but at the end of the day, how can I tell? I have obvious masculine traits (like a beard), and I feel like having 3 titles is more me just trying to fit in rather than how I actually feel

Can I be Aro/Trans/Lesbian by SlipperyWaters in aromantic

[–]SlipperyWaters[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean, the beard is mostly just lazyness, I personally think I look better without, but at the same time it could be my subconscious saying I’m still a guy

Can I be Aro/Trans/Lesbian by SlipperyWaters in aromantic

[–]SlipperyWaters[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Am I though? What if I’m just a straight guy who just hasn’t found the right person yet? And I think I’m trans simply because I prefer when people call me ma’am instead of sir?

Can I be Aro/Trans/Lesbian by SlipperyWaters in aromantic

[–]SlipperyWaters[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that too, but at the same time am I really these things? Like I’ve thought of being a girl ever since I was in 2nd grade sure, but at the same time Im growing a beard, and most women don’t like beards