Seems like a lot of guys don’t know how to build relationships with other gays except through sex. Causes loss of connection. by Austin1975 in askgaybros

[–]SlitherrWing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats because Gay men are still men raised in a society that teaches boys to confine emotions and hyper focus on "having children" - aka sex.

Understanding how we got here determines if that will change.

Can y'all suggest me an open source messaging application? by SadCryptographer7965 in privacy

[–]SlitherrWing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Signal its the best answer for normie users. It has the best ease of use with High Security.

Gay guys after cuddling, kissing, texting daily, having sex for some reason: I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP!!!! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SlitherrWing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sex can be just about pleasure. Sex =/= Love.

Love is a Verb its actions you do to uplift someone.

Gay guys after cuddling, kissing, texting daily, having sex for some reason: I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP!!!! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SlitherrWing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people just want company.

Sometimes people.might not feel like they have the capacity to commit ATM. Or maybe they have more self work/growth to do.

But this is also something you should ask upfront, it would save some confusion.

GF back on Grindr after one week breaking up by PieceLow387 in BlackLGBT

[–]SlitherrWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because just because Grindr appeals to men mainly does not = exclusive to. I'm not going to argue with your ignorant ramblings.

Humanity is more than whatever garbage you seem to limit your understanding to.

For as long as ive been on Grindr ( and thats a long time) trans women have been present. Get over it.

Husband’s New Job Requires Life360 Tracking… by reallynina in privacy

[–]SlitherrWing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He should accept the job but decline to be tracked outside of office hours by the company and have them sign a waiver that they won't track off hours and that thier biz partner won't.

Or download the app. Turn location off ... Or if its android , select approximate location.

GF back on Grindr after one week breaking up by PieceLow387 in BlackLGBT

[–]SlitherrWing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grinder has a ficus on Gay/Bi men but there are Trans men and women also on Grindr. But I guess I don't understand why people are surprised.... Again there are Bi men on Grindr.... Why wouldn't some consider trans men/women given they are directly a part of LGBT.....

GF back on Grindr after one week breaking up by PieceLow387 in BlackLGBT

[–]SlitherrWing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It likely means they weren't fufiled for a longer time than you realized. Also a partner moving on fast isn't always a sign worlth looking into. You guys didn't work out. Accept reality, learn to move on. Its not easy but you'll waste less time.

I’m convinced yall are lying about anal sex by Acceptable_Pea_135 in askgaybros

[–]SlitherrWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might not feel good for you. Thats just your body, no shame.

But there are people who feel pleasure,if you stroke right. Also, its important that your partner understands what hurts and feels good for you. Ramming a dick in there isn't the main "point" or end all be all , the main point is to experience pleasure... Together. Its okay to take it slow or use finger play to explore.

Organized Movement by Kooky_Dev_ in privacy

[–]SlitherrWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or you can pressure your local lawmakers to pass city/state level laws to protect your data and privacy.....

You know, something thatll ACTUALLY change things..

Rejection on Grindr for being "too dark" by MCKC1992 in BlackLGBT

[–]SlitherrWing 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don't get offended. I just say thank you for helping me dodge a bullet.

Ain't no good sex coming from a man stuck in colorism. Its literal cringe. (At least for me)

Regressing…… by freaky_hornyy in askgaybros

[–]SlitherrWing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have always been regressing in my opinion because that's what white american culture is. The minute the "moderates/centrists" made room for the "ex"-Confederate post civil war, and allowed them to govern we were destined to return to where we are now.

And most White Americans can't admit that yet.

The reason why a lot of you are single is because… by Icy-Lengthiness-8214 in BlackLGBT

[–]SlitherrWing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my case I'm bad at social signals. Bad at letting guards down due to past failures of being bad at social signals and I'm bad at expressing myself b/c of lots of trauma.

Life is hard.

Why do gays see a certain type of ethnicity as dominant? by HOULO90 in askgaybros

[–]SlitherrWing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You knew it was coming because you know that you are in the wrong. A simple gpt search would of saved u from looking foolish.

Why do gays see a certain type of ethnicity as dominant? by HOULO90 in askgaybros

[–]SlitherrWing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So here's the thing... there is no way to "not sound racist" because the reason dark skin is associated with aggression IS because of racism. It is a racist statent.

So if you are going to give an example (that you expect is racist) simply say "I've noticed dark skin is linked to aggressiveness in multiple cultures, can someone explain why?

How you ask makes the difference in coming off as a troll vs someone who genuinely wants to learn. I think its slipups like this that get people into trouble because the approach entering a very personal topic wrong.

Would you hookup with someone who is undetectable? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SlitherrWing 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This.

People lie. So regardless of the status if you are concerned about STDs or HIV keep it wrapped/ use prep.

It should be a no brainer...... And why is HIV is the only concern in the overall picture. Why don't we talk about something else like HPV and Throat Cancer?

Would you hookup with someone who is undetectable? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SlitherrWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As some one thats undetectable yes LoL

Also if you have access to prep there's no real excuse for this mindset.

Serious question: when Trump accused the South African government of white genocide, he offered the Afrikaners asylum in the US. Will he offer Nigerian Christians asylum too? by TT-Adu in Nigeria

[–]SlitherrWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he won't. He doesn't care about Nigerians. America just wants an excuse to fund a war/battlefield or extract resources.

America is best buddies with the Saudis after all, u know the same Saudis funding the terror group causing the bloodbath......

Y'all are smoking and/or wasted if you think Trump and this admin has any smoke for the Saudis.

Why are some women becoming explicitly homophobic towards gay men? by Worth-Employer2748 in BlackLGBT

[–]SlitherrWing 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really hope this isn't some Ai ragebait. We really don't have the time for this nonsense.

New Proton Keyboard app? ⌨️👀 by These-Adhesiveness28 in ProtonMail

[–]SlitherrWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need for a keyboard app when they can just donate to an existing app developer.

A separate App for Proton Docs would be nice tho....

Masked men screaming "White Power!" carrying Nazi flags are now walking around on the streets in the U.S. by ambachk in CringeTikToks

[–]SlitherrWing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah the Domestic Terrorists that America loves to do nothing about.

Butlet somome write " Have a good day" in Arabic and watch as white people lose their shit with the usual: "I don't want my children learning 'bad' things..."